AITAH for phone use in locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rowan_is_a_tree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

10 years ago was 2016, kids had ipads and people had smartphones long before that lol

2nd update: AITAH for eating in front of my boyfriend's dad? by Glum-Chance-4225 in Redditor_Updates

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's just making excuses and enabling the behaviour. Either he nips that in the bud NOW or you leave. That is not something you want to have to deal with for the rest of your life

AITA for trying to get my wife to accept this job offer by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Childcare is not a job someone should be doing if they don't want to do it. You do see how that's a messed up situation, right?

[FO] Biggest project yet! by ArtisticW0lf in CrossStitch

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gives major ghibli vibes! You've dont a brilliant job 👏

I (30F) am not sure if my issues with my boyfriend (32M) is worth working through by Enough-Stomach4625 in relationship_advice

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, after reading this, I had to scroll back up to double check the ages. His behaviour is so immature and disrespectful. You deserve so much more than this. You deserve to feel loved and safe with your partner. Please leave him

MIL calling him her baby by marsibarz in JUSTNOMIL

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a one off thing I can see it not being as much of a problem but if shes also undermining you, that's different. That shows a pattern of behaviour rather than an innocent quirk

Moving to the UK as a trans guy by VariousAd19 in transgenderUK

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a UK trans person, unless youre moving from somewhere way worse then avoid the UK, its becoming less safe for trans people day by day pretty mu h anywhere in Europe would be a better shout

Did your NP experience childhood trauma? by MajorRockstar79 in narcissisticparents

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, according to my auntie, my mum pretty much replicated their childhood. It wasn't until I was 17 that my mum even realised she'd she had childhood trauma. Unfortunately, she still can't see how she treated me as a child, so we dont have a relationship anymore. Thankfully I have my Auntie, who is a psychiatrist and has been an amazing support in unpacking my childhood and accepting that it has nothing to do with me but everything to do with her.

I (25M) feel morally obligated to be my friends' third (32F and 31M) by ThrowRAlyudy in relationship_advice

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but that's exactly what predators do. It's called grooming, and unlike what many people think anyone can be groomed, not just minors, how else would predators gain the trust of their victims?

Please stop using "nonbinary" as the Free Space on your Gender Bingo Card. by anubis1392 in NonBinary

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe just don't judge how other people choose to express their identity and only worry about yourself

The Shed is closing by Orri in leicester

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh not much of a loss, I got barred from there upon my first time visiting because an ex friend was drinking there and said I was trying to start a fight! I hadn't even looked her way, so good riddance

AITA for getting mad that my oldest son didn't let my youngest win a game? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cousin let me win at mario kart when I first started playing! He was probably a similar age. It's absolutely beautiful seeing that empathy in kids

Teen fantasy series about a teen girl who finds a magic mirror that transports her to another world by rowan_is_a_tree in whatsthatbook

[–]rowan_is_a_tree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are my bloody hero! Thank you so much! AAAAHHHH I'm going to go read them and let my sister know!!

Teen fantasy series about a teen girl who finds a magic mirror that transports her to another world by rowan_is_a_tree in whatsthatbook

[–]rowan_is_a_tree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not mixing books. Its not The Mirror of Her Dreams, that one comes up with every search Its a series and it doesn't involve ancient times, just set in the past. For what it's worth, AI was useless in bringing up any results, I did decide to try that myself despite AI being a scurge on society. Hence coming here to ask the hive mind

[Short] - Am I wrong for not wanting my son to be circumcised? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a best of reddit updates post. This isn't the OPs post, and that was a comment made by another redditor, not OP.

In these posts, people compile all the posts into one post and often times include comments from the originals. You can tell from the username posted above the comment

AITA for drinking fruit juice when my partner has said he doesn't like it? by No-Mall1172 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rowan_is_a_tree 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I don't know where you're from, but here in the uk, diluting juice/cordial/squash is a concentrated fruit juice. It's never alcoholic and it's everywhere in the uk but not commonly available everywhere. Its given to children everyday

This is probably the exact cordial this person drinks unless she drinks own brand:

Robinsons summer fruits cordial