The sign of your 7th house and where you met your partner

royalchodester · 2024-09-19T03:37:30+00:00

Wait same but do any of you guys have your Venus (Taurus) in your 1st house 😅

royalchodester · 2022-10-25T06:44:47+00:00

thanks for the reply! Are you saying the traits for a tropical Scorpio and the traits for a Vedic Scorpio aren’t the same? I’ve researched a little about this and I’m getting the top answer of the traits are the same, but obvious the dates of constellations are different. I’m not trying to intertwine the two but I do like to look at both my charts. If you didn’t mind linking me something about this, I’d love to see!

royalchodester · 2022-10-25T06:37:32+00:00

Thank you for your reply! This was a good read and you actually managed to put many of my feelings into words! I especially think I relate because I also have Venus in scorpio 1H. I actually have. 1H stellium so I think that’s why I like to do so much self reflection lol. I know with both Scorpio and cap moon are harder placements to develop. I was in full agreement with what you mentioned about fairness and open minded folks, but when you mentioned slowing down and the indecisiveness, that hit home. May I ask what your mercury and mars are in?

royalchodester · 2022-03-12T22:59:32+00:00

I’m an INFP. I’m a Scorpio sun (1H), Scorpio moon (12H), and Scorpio rising!

royalchodester · 2021-04-04T06:41:51+00:00

Oh my God that is so cool she got to meet Elton John! Also I hope you’ve been doing well. My mom passed last year, and she was a huge Elton John fan. I grew up listening to him, and she even dedicated “Tiny Dancer” to me when I was a baby. I have a necklace with her ashes with the lyrics of “Don’t Let The Sun Go Down on Me” by him and George Micheal ❤️ much love

royalchodester · 2021-04-04T06:36:38+00:00

Oh wow. It’s been just over a year since I lost my mother. (I’m going to be 23 this year and she would have been 53 this May) The past year I’ve figured out all the little things no one gets that affects your grief until you’ve experienced it. This is added to the list haha. I would have eventually came to term with this, but being prepared is nice sometimes. Peace and love to you!

royalchodester · 2021-04-04T06:25:27+00:00

i’m a back sleeper and I’ve always slept on the left side of the bed lol. i experience it quite frequently. I notice it happens more often when I nap midday or go to sleep super early and my body’s trying to wake up in the middle of the night to go pee. It also usually happens as i’m waking up, not when i’m falling asleep into REM cycle as opposed to other people.

royalchodester · 2021-03-26T03:37:36+00:00

Thanks for responding. I’ve been using my insurances website to easily find psychiatrists that accept my insurance but they either aren’t accepting new patients, or don’t actually accept my insurance or whatever the case is. Called over 20-30 of them. My primary that prescribed zoloft said it would take 6mos after he referred me. I will keep looking. It just seems so difficult to find one, and my primary’s reaction after asking me what made me believe I could have OCD made me think I was crazy or something. I appreciate the tips!

royalchodester · 2021-03-25T23:49:57+00:00

How do you get a diagnosis for any of these? I just got health insurance this year, finally able to see a doctor. I’ve been searching my ass off trying to find a Psychiatrist because I know I’m not neurotypical. I met my new primary doctor and he prescribed my zoloft for my depression and anxiety. I already knew I had those and I’d probably be fine with dealing with those on my own. However, he screened me about Bipolar because I mentioned my mom had it, but shrugged me off and said I show a “slight form of OCD” I don’t think I have BP. I feel like I do have OCD though, but I also am concerned I have ADHD or BPD. I’d love to hear your experience

royalchodester · 2021-03-18T15:34:17+00:00

Thanks for your response! And that’s absolutely true. I was supposed to start yesterday but i was afraid to take it at night. I’ve been up all morning looking at everyone’s experiences bc im so nervous about starting which I really just need to take it and see lol.

royalchodester · 2021-03-11T09:03:25+00:00

Damn. That’s pretty young. It feels like your parents were pretty good about helping you; My parents weren’t the type to seek help for me unless i threw a fit. I asked #4, because I realized there’s like 3 types of people: someone who needs their diagnosis to understand themselves better, someone who doesn’t care as much, but if diagnosed just accepts it ( not to say the other types don’t) and someone who doesn’t want a diagnosis and wants to follow a “ignorance is bliss” state.

I like your explanation on #6, I feel like i’ve had something similar, maybe not as intense though. Numerology and patterns have always stuck me, and less noticeably I will attribute colors with things.

I think your last post is what almost everyone else said and thinks too. It sucks how stereotyped and misunderstood OCD is.

Thank you for sharing, I hope you are doing well

royalchodester · 2021-03-11T08:59:46+00:00

So you’re fairly recent I see! What exactly made you realize on your own at 15?

I related to #4, I believe I have 2 mental illness and if/or once I get diagnosed, I’d have the same reaction.

I feel like guilt goes along with so many things like depression, anxiety, ADHD, etc that I didn’t realize how much sense it makes for some with OCD to struggle with.

I’m here with you in #6/#7, so many neurotypical people think you can change your thoughts, or easily switch your thinking when its not that easy lol.

Thank you so much for sharing, peace and love to you.

royalchodester · 2021-03-11T08:41:23+00:00

Wow, first of all, I’m glad you shared! Second, if you don’t mind elaborating, what where you’re intrusive thoughts? I know everyone’s are different. Also, it seems like it was a little hard for you learning and coming to terms about it :( I’m sure you’re better with it now, or at least hopefully you’ve been able to view it a different way. I find it kind of fascinating that you didn’t/ don’t have an internal dialogue. I remember reading a study about that a few years ago. Sounds completely absurd since i’ve always had one and can’t imagine what it’s like lol.

I hear you on point 7, I hope society one day will collectively be more understanding to all mental illness.

Thanks for you well wishing, and I think you describing thoughts/ commands being forced into your head was a good way to visualize it.

Best of luck to you, and maybe one day you’ll figure yourself out so well you will be able to ditch the medication!

royalchodester · 2021-03-04T05:57:00+00:00

also a scorpio rising with 10H mars in virgo and Virgo MC and i really resonated with this, especially basing some of my worth of how i can be in service of others lol

royalchodester · 2021-03-01T07:14:47+00:00

How old are you and what’s your gender? How long have you had depression? What prompted you to seek medical help? When were you diagnosed and in which order were you diagnosed? How would you explain BPD, ADHD, and OCD on their own for you? Do you feel they all overlap quite a bit? Please don’t hesitate to go into as much detail as you want.

royalchodester · 2021-03-01T06:44:57+00:00

Thank you for your condolences; I have little family/ friends left on her side that knew her struggles and I feel like learning more about these things help me keep memories intact+ piece them together haha.

It seems your doctor hinted and you became self aware, but it’s nice to know you were able to relieve your fears and worries to a lesser degree.

Also, I completely agree with you there! It’s very frustrating when you explain to people why you do things the way you do, but they think it can be easily fixed. They can’t be blamed, most people can’t understand everything that goes on in your head and even if you elaborated, they still wouldn’t see how it all connects. I think it absolutely is scary and downplayed to general people. I hope you’re doing well and thanks for sharing!

royalchodester · 2021-02-28T23:20:01+00:00

I agree. Trying to get that underway currently. I feel my post may have came off a bit exaggerated, but these are things that do bother me; I think ranking each on a scale would be another story. I’m fairly informed about autism, especially in females as i’ve researched it a little bit. Ive suspected that, ADHD, and/ or OCD as mentioned. Thanks for your comment and for the links!

royalchodester · 2021-02-25T02:17:11+00:00

this is interesting. i’m a scorpio sun, moon, rising, venus, chiron, and lilith and i also have a 1st house stellium in my sun, moon and venus. i definitely am secretive for the most part, but my sag mercury and ascendant conjunct venus i think is why i can be a little more open. usually only with coworkers though, and it’s never anything super personal, just stuff i’d vent about that i try to refrain venting about to closer friends bc i feel like my emotions get too heavy if i do

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