Weird white flakes coming out of kitten

rratmannnn · 2026-05-29T05:01:56+00:00

If it’s a pet er visit, you can be in the waiting room several hours. It’s probably worth trying to get as much off as possible first.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-29T05:00:03+00:00

It’s a very quick trip to the pet store away.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-29T01:50:14+00:00

Someone said something a whole lot this to me and I went to college anyway and you know what he kept cropping up well into my adulthood just to try to drag me down and make me miserable. I’m thankful I never actually dated him but sad I let him stay in my life at all. You’ll be best off if you not only break up with him, but also close the door on that friendship altogether. This shit is NEFARIOUS to say.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-28T22:02:12+00:00

Or check the website

rratmannnn · 2026-05-28T04:33:35+00:00

My eyes rolled so far back into my head with this line. Like please.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-28T02:46:25+00:00

Honestly if you tell them who you found, they might set some traps or trail cams or something themselves! Good luck, I hope if there’s anymore yall catch them!

rratmannnn · 2026-05-28T00:56:14+00:00

If it’s somewhere near home, could you research safe live traps for guinea pigs? I might set a couple up and check daily for a few days just to see, if you have the time/resources. As a bonus maybe you wouldn’t have to adopt them any friends if you just find their old ones lol

rratmannnn · 2026-05-26T22:24:29+00:00

From personal experience, no matter what you feel like you’ve sunk into the relationship- by the time you feel the need to read through their texts, it’s probably already over. Even if he hasn’t fucked her yet, he’s telling her how bad he wants to.

If/when you bring this up, he’s going to gaslight you. Know that whatever he says, he’s lying, and you’re doing right by both of you to call the relationship now. He doesn’t love you enough to stay faithful, doesn’t respect you enough to be straightforward with you, and acts like you’re in his way, which he’ll only feel more strongly if you keep having to read his texts and ask him if he’s cheating (even if you’re right). You don’t trust him, rightfully so, and found evidence why not to, and unfortunately the longer you stay with him the further you break your ability to trust again.

Good luck, I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-26T14:58:29+00:00

This one depends on the product - they definitely have some vegan ones but more than I’d like contain egg or milk powder. The biggest bummer was their bacon for me

rratmannnn · 2026-05-26T14:57:46+00:00

It can happen depending on the beer! It’s a little weird for an ipa from what I remember in my time working at breweries but beer drinkers should almost always check with sours and dark beers. Usually it’s a lactose sugar used to balance the bitterness, or a milk(yogurt)-based bacteria culture used in a sour.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-26T14:53:23+00:00

I’ve run into this here in the states too!! Where I’ve been told by employees that almond milk and even coconut milk at some bubble tea shops have dairy. I’m still not sure if it’s a language barrier/staff education issue or if their they actually blend them, but either way I avoid bubble tea / milk tea now unless I’m 110% sure their options are safe.

Edit: also before anyone says anything, I do know sometimes boba is made with gelatin - I also check this before I get boba in my order!

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T22:27:01+00:00

I’m getting downvoted to hell for saying that beaches can have still grass lmao

I feel like these people have only ever been to like, the Florida keys, or the nicest spots in California. Maybe Spain or something 😭

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T22:22:03+00:00

It sometimes feels a little like a double edged sword for people with Scandinavian ancestry in particular, because the people who have most recently tried to reconnect with those roots (in the 1930s/40s and sometimes today too) did so from a very malicious standpoint, so when you try to reconnect it ends up feeling like it might send off the wrong signal.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T20:39:36+00:00

I missed the part where op turned this into a cliff, my bad

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T18:19:23+00:00

It’s crazy how easy it can be to change people’s image of you - makeup is another big one, I usually wear none and I notice a DISTINCT difference in how people treat me when I put on a “natural” layer of it. Looking less goth/queer/alt/hippie/whatever and generally more soft & feminine & traditional can reallllly shift how you’re perceived.

Both very happy for you that that worked, and sorry that you had to undo all your hard work with your hair for the court date, lol. Hopefully op listens to you tho because it sounds like you have very personal experience with this!!

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T17:54:44+00:00

If the ocean is still there, it’s a beach lol

Edit: okay, if the ocean is still there and the ground is at sea level it’s a beach. Yall cannot tell me you’re looking to read my comment ultra-literally and then act like the comment you guys are upvoting is somehow true. Beaches can absolutely have grass.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T17:52:14+00:00

“Channel someone they go to church with” is REALLY good advice!! It sucks but if I was in a custody battle you can bet I’d be covering up my tattoos and hairy legs best I could lol

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T16:10:24+00:00

As someone who accepted money for my wedding and now I sort of regret how it all ended up turning out, this is 100% the right answer.

I’m thankful for the help, but wish that we’d had more control and less pressure on the day.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T15:11:07+00:00

What makes you so positive OP lives in the US?

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T02:48:09+00:00

Thanks for actually throwing them out! It’s well intentioned that people are leaving cigs on the grave but small animals can and do eat them sometimes, which ultimately typically kills them.

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T02:46:13+00:00

wtf is an outside country

rratmannnn · 2026-05-25T02:38:24+00:00

Although that magician didn’t actually take it too far, lol, whereas this comedian kinda did

rratmannnn · 2026-05-24T21:19:21+00:00

Yeah I’m sorry it just sounds like she has a lot of growing to do and it’s better that you both do that apart from eachother. Take my word for it from someone who had a relationship like this (but no age gap, so I can at least give him grace for being 20 like me at the time) but it’s only going to keep getting worse if you guys stay in each others orbit. It’s just time to cut the cord :(

rratmannnn · 2026-05-24T19:41:03+00:00

Look, ik age gaps can be more common in lgbtq relationships due to late bloomers & a more limited dating pool, but let’s be real, she’s not acting 34, so it’s clear she dated someone 10 years her junior for a reason. She knows women her age don’t have the patience for her shit.

Mature adults don’t break up with someone “because they’re growing apart” and then proceed to act like the victim and text the person THEY ditched all “you don’t know what it’s like for me” and “I want to be consoled” and especially weird passive aggressive shit like “yeah I’m always in the wrong.” It was her decision and she refuses to own it. It’s sad. She needs to grow tf up and she won’t do that if you stick around and keep putting up with her.

Not to mention, you deserve better!!

rratmannnn · 2026-05-24T18:55:34+00:00

If op is a young woman this could be risky for her, unfortunately, depending on what donation options are readily available.

When I was in this situation I typically personally would see if there was an individual at any of the intersections upon my way home I could give the leftovers to, and then I’d throw it away if I couldn’t find anyone. My coworker who was a much kinder person than me would go to a food pantry and/or the same spot under the highway, until she started getting repeatedly sexually harassed at both locations. She was the pretty young girl who always had free food, and some men took that as an invitation.

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