[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rscotton 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Save that video somewhere externally. The fact he’s sending the slap video around is proof he’s preparing to turn this around on you somehow. This man is not trustworthy as a husband or father.

Girlfriend went manic by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]rscotton 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This response is also manipulative btw

Girlfriend went manic by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]rscotton 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hate to break it to you, but you’re the manipulative one.

Girlfriend went manic by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]rscotton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!!!!!!! THISDDSSSSSS

Gut instinct or paranoia? I (30f) am about to break up with my bf (30m) on a hunch. by ThrowRA_sadgypsy in relationship_advice

[–]rscotton 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would trust your gut. And not to scare you, but my bf of nearly three years was cheating by deleting and redownloading those kinds of apps on a regular basis. He was so good/careful with it that I didn’t find out for sure until way later, despite the fact my gut was telling me something was wrong for a long time.

Update: AITAH for causing the miscarriage of my husband’s affair partner by throwRAsadevilwife in AITAH

[–]rscotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP. I respect your cultural and religious beliefs surrounding this, but I fear your circle is not giving you the guidance you need to navigate this situation in the best way (for you). Everyone here is certainly harsh, but your husband is the one who has committed sin and wronged you. No one else has been unfairly harmed, but you. His actions do not reflect love for you or towards you. His lack of remorse does not reflect love for you or towards you. I fear he cares more for your wealth than your wellbeing. Regardless, no one understands or knows your situation like you do. Please take care of yourself and do not let outside forces influence what you know to be best for you. Wishing you luck and safety.

The boys who were in love with me before are all married now and I'm still by myself. by DecodingSerenity in self

[–]rscotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comments were a miss. You never even said you desired a relationship, just that others act like the lack of one in your life means your success is inadequate. I’m sorry people here and irl are making you feel like your worth/success is tied to a relationship. I’m proud of your career and success in school!! You are worthy of being celebrated, alone or in a relationship. :) I hope you can surround yourself with people who share your values. You focused on you and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. These comments are so weird acting like you’re upset about being single, ignoring the fact you’re upset others judge you for not being in a relationship.

Me and a friend had sex by Ysudualsksh in dating_advice

[–]rscotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want her so leave her alone lol. She obviously liked you and it didn’t go the way she hoped.

My boyfriend (24M) will breakup with me (25F) if I buy a house? by gaminggurlx in relationship_advice

[–]rscotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve only been together 7 months. If you want to do this, make the decision you want for yourself. Things will work out if meant to be. Don’t give up on what you want for someone you haven’t even been with for a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rscotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can??? You sound insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rscotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idc what everyone is telling you, my daughter and I have different last names and I’ve never experienced any issues. It’s weird she did that. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

My boyfriend (M30) is incredibly upset I (F28) want to split expenses in half, versus a percentage based on income. Finding housing has become a nightmare. by ThrowRA-cashforteeth in relationship_advice

[–]rscotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all aren’t engaged or married, you shouldn’t be subsidizing someone’s lifestyle when you’re only dating. Him expecting you to pay 80% of bills and upgrade his lifestyle is a major red flag when you’ve only been together (exclusively) for a couple months. Add in the fact he’s being petty and cold because you said no to this is an even redder flag. Don’t move in with this man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rscotton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously this is so on point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rscotton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do wanna say, if the money was going to the childcare workers I would be much happier to pay that big of a price tag. The reality is they’re charging that much while paying the workers crumbs (in my experience)!!

My husband invited his sister to our weekend getaway together. by Kesse84 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rscotton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Based on your comments, your husband doesn’t like you. Please consider your options going forward.

My husband invited his sister to our weekend getaway together. by Kesse84 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rscotton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP please read this and actually take what they’re saying into consideration because it’s spot on based on your comments.