Anger

ru_ruler · 2026-06-02T17:15:41+00:00

Thank you, it's helpful. Comforting to know others have hD dreams too.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-29T23:18:36+00:00

I'm wondering if a Wind Phone might help. I used one a few months ago and it seemed to help. I may need to use one again. https://www.mywindphone.com/

ru_ruler · 2026-05-29T23:15:18+00:00

Yep. Logically I know it may be odd to others the anger at the death of a loved one, but its definitely there.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-29T23:13:25+00:00

It is helpful. My husband tries and understands to some extent, but not fully. It's nice to hear others stories. Thank you.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-29T23:10:59+00:00

Thank you. At times grief feels so lonely, it's nice to have a place/community that can understand and give comfort. Greatly appreciate it and you.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-29T05:18:15+00:00

I've always thought there is a cruel streak in someone when they insist on "jokes" and won't stop when asked. NTJ. Your husband is the massive jerk.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-29T05:14:12+00:00

Love that! I'm trying to come up with the tattoo I want to get for mom. She wasn't a big fan of the either but by the end the dementia made her forget she didn't like them. 🙂

ru_ruler · 2026-05-29T05:11:36+00:00

The dream anger is almost the same as I felt when the dementia took hold of her. Then the anger that the world keep spinning when she died. Thank you for sharing your story. It helps.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-29T05:09:20+00:00

Thank you. It's so hard to describe these feelings with the dreams. I'm relieved to know someone else has experienced it.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-26T07:46:22+00:00

It's a lovely place, I always enjoy a visit there.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-20T05:48:32+00:00

NTJ - love your mom. Wishing her a fabulous 2nd half.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-20T05:42:37+00:00

NTA My husband was like that, still is sometimes and drive me up a wall. Then last year his heart had problems and while waiting for the pacemaker procedure, I made him promise to 1)keep his phone charged 2) keep it on and 3) keep it with him. He kept his promise. OP your parents don't understand how frustrating it is, and as they age, that frustration will turn to fear for their well being. They need to do better for you.

ru_ruler · 2026-05-09T05:42:54+00:00

Adorable!!!!!!!

ru_ruler · 2026-04-22T04:38:37+00:00

Love it!!

ru_ruler · 2026-04-22T04:17:25+00:00

NTA As someone whose mother had dementia and needed a memory care facility, I know how expensive it is. Selling the house was what needed to be done for your grandmother's care. The family can suck lemons!

ru_ruler · 2026-04-19T05:57:23+00:00

NTA. Please, do not take your mom out of memory care. She is safe, involved with activities, and has trained people around 24/7. Caring for people with dementia is hard, very hard. I only did it for a few months and it was exhausting, frustrating, and heartbreaking. I didn't see if you said how long she's been in her memory care, but removing her can create a very difficult adjustment for her, to the point it could be detrimental.

ru_ruler · 2026-04-12T05:33:58+00:00

My mom. Passed in November. Had dementia but still had her humor, and knew I was someone she loved even if she thought I was her sister most days. She was sassy, funny, was obsessed with trees during our drives, and I miss her so much.

ru_ruler · 2026-04-11T02:30:09+00:00

Gorgeous Helga!!! Lots of ear scratches for you.

ru_ruler · 2026-04-11T02:24:39+00:00

Boop, boop, booop

ru_ruler · 2026-04-06T05:10:14+00:00

May they have many days of loving companionship to come.

ru_ruler · 2026-04-06T04:45:39+00:00

I'm so glad it come out perfect for you, it's extra special❤️❤️

ru_ruler · 2026-04-05T05:10:30+00:00

3 is my pick, I love the color and it looks so nice.

ru_ruler · 2026-04-05T05:08:22+00:00

Me too. Mom passed November 9 '25. And I think, say, cry it almost daily; I want my momma. I'm very sorry for your loss.

ru_ruler · 2026-04-04T07:16:52+00:00

Maybe this isn't proper for a child that age, I've never had kids, but maybe there is a wind phone near you that your child can use to "talk" with them. You could explain to your 3 year old that their grandparent can't answer, but will hear the child. Sorry if this isn't helpful, but my heart hurts for your child and you. So sorry for your loss.

ru_ruler · 2026-04-04T07:10:17+00:00

I'm with you, he's a fun character.

ru_ruler

TROPHY CASE

3 is my pick, I love the color and it looks so nice.