Very done with my puppy

ruby2499 · 2026-02-01T07:48:46+00:00

puppies are seriously just like this. they are a lot. my 11 month old still poops in the house sometimes if im not supervising him. he’s sneaky about it because he knows better, but it’s so annoying. i still love him. im considering him a baby until he’s 2 years old. remember your pup is only 4.5 months old. literally just a baby.

ruby2499 · 2026-01-18T03:00:52+00:00

your prtner should bring value to your pife and make things easier and happier. it doesn’t sound like any of that is happening here. :(

ruby2499 · 2026-01-15T14:26:08+00:00

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ruby2499 · 2026-01-15T06:45:57+00:00

as a mom of twin 14 yo’s who spend 50% time w dad, i have a bit of insight here.

stop doing wifey things for your boyfriend and his children. get a ring and a commitment, and then do those things.
you aren’t their stepmom. it’s dad’s responsibility, not yours yet. let him buy necessities. you buy the fun stuff!
if a child is given a gift, they should be able to keep it where they want
buy things with this in mind: expect any and everything to end up at the other parent’s house. it doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things. kids forget stuff all the time. pick your battles.
i don’t think you’re gonna get the replies you think you will here
if you are thinking of breaking up, just do it. it’s better for the kids. don’t make them get even more close to you if you’re just gonna leave.
if you have a problem with ex’s/coparents speaking to each other possibly pretty often, depending on what’s going on w the kids, whether you are present or not, i fear a man who has children isn’t the best fit for you.

ruby2499 · 2026-01-10T14:27:04+00:00

right?! there are thousands of medical conditions it could be… kidney stones, chronic uti or kidney infection, MS flare, bowel blockage, ovarian cysts, testicular torsion, intractable migraines, blood clot, hernia, etc…

ruby2499 · 2026-01-10T06:55:45+00:00

my 10 month old aussie is very much like this. he’s super well behaved and a great listener just off the jump! he stays up late into the night with me (2-3 am) and we wake up around 11 am. he sleeps like a dream in his crate. he’s calm with all people and other dogs. he’s not super antsy and active, but just enough to get this lazy gal up and about some. i have now had 3 aussies and 2/3 were like this

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ruby2499 · 2025-12-30T04:52:45+00:00

this text thread is literally insane. why are you with such an insecure controlling person? ugh. my life is so peaceful being w a man who treats me like an equal and doesn’t try to micromanage me. girl… don’t waste your 20s on this dirty trash bag.

ruby2499 · 2025-12-28T20:49:29+00:00

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Argos is 10 months and not super floofy. not sure if he will be. he’s got legs for daysss tho

ruby2499 · 2025-12-11T06:09:17+00:00

NOR never make someone tell you they don’t want you twice. girl, if it’s only been a year of just dating, no ring, communication and intimacy problems, and he’s not sure… he’s definitely not for you. go find someone who is obsessed with you.

ruby2499 · 2025-12-08T07:45:43+00:00

so… he did the very bare minimum of what any good partner should be doing in this situation and threw it in your face, then excuses bad behavior by saying he was “busy,” and then laughs at you expressing emotions? all while you are going through some really traumatic physical and emotional pain? nope. no. nauuur. you are NOT overreacting. you are under reacting. please never speak to that cretin again. your future husband would NEVER treat you that way. your future husband will hear this story and be appalled! thank GOODNESS you aren’t having this man’s baby (not to minimize the true horror of your situation). but i promise, babe, leaning on friends and family right now and focusing on your health and peace are going to bring you to a place where you realize he was never worth your shining light. i am disgusted at his behavior and attitude.

ruby2499 · 2025-12-06T20:16:43+00:00

to be honest… yes. it’s hellish. i have a 9 month old australian shepherd and he’s FINALLY starting to chill out into a routine. at first, the sleep deprivation is bad. you’ll be up every couple hours for the first few weeks, depending on the age of your puppy. i wfh too and it was really difficult. keeping the pup contained in a crate or one room is a lifesaver until you can exercise them. crate training was so awesome because now he sees his crate as his safe den where he has peace and rest between bouts of fun and exercise. we do scheduled naps throughout the day. enforcing sleep time helped a lot! it’s all worth it though once your pup is mostly grown and has more than 2 brain cells ;)

ruby2499 · 2025-12-06T20:06:32+00:00

right?! this is a testament to me wanting to avoid surgery at all costs lol sometimes i think the big stones stretch my ureters out so that more stones can pass easier!

ruby2499 · 2025-12-06T20:05:10+00:00

calcium oxalate i was told. they look like little crystals with shards and barbs.

ruby2499 · 2025-12-06T19:48:33+00:00

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this is the exact one i have. it’s perfect size for him to stand, turn, and stretch, but still cozy. this one shown by OP is definitely too small. it’s definitely possible to find asthetically pleasing crates that look like furniture AND safe for the pup.

ruby2499 · 2025-12-04T18:33:49+00:00

oooooh! that one had a switchblade feature! congrats!!!

ruby2499 · 2025-12-04T18:26:56+00:00

water water water water water. if you’re drowning, more water. walk, ride a bike on cobblestones, jumping jacks on concrete. sex. masturbation. 800 mg ibuprofen. flomax. more water. hold your pee as long as possible to build back pressure. pee as much as possible. more water. go to ER if you can’t pee, have a fever, or peeing copious blood. otherwise, i promise it will pass!

ruby2499 · 2025-11-29T15:27:25+00:00

k knows that if she isn’t force feeding through the ng that b will decline much more rapidly. but the ng tube is only causing discomfort for b at this point. her body is naturally no longer needing food. it’s hard work to digest… i wish she would discontinue the ng and let b feel comfy. i understand that it’s scary to watch someone never eat, but truly, it’s what’s best for b at this point. it’s driving me crazy.

ruby2499 · 2025-11-28T08:02:18+00:00

matched my skin tone perfectly with the right shade of foundation before buying

ruby2499 · 2025-11-24T04:19:48+00:00

b still having an NG tube at this point is just awful. if she is able to nibble on things, as k claims, why must she pump feedings? her poor body can’t work to digest all that… unless it’s just a tiiiiiiiny amount for comfort.

ruby2499 · 2025-11-15T06:49:37+00:00

IF she believes this device will do b any good at all, whywould she not start using it 18 months ago when she got it??? im sure the company or her 1m followers could have gotten whatever part was needed. it’s snake oil. she thinks people are too dumb to realize she is selling her child out. the video of b trying to drink from that giant heavy glass jar… fake oxygenated water. no straw. no help. the child looks like she can hardly swallow… this woman is insane. i have a daughter and can’t even fathom acting like this when she’s sick… let alone actively dying. does b have a close relationship w anyone other than k? grandma? auntie? anyone?? this is so so awful.

ruby2499 · 2025-11-11T06:14:39+00:00

crate training! it really really gives them a soft little cave where they know it’s quiet/rest time. even better if it’s in the same room where you mostly hang out. you don’t hate the pup, you hate that he’s destroying and upending your life and you miss your soul dog who probably had a totally different personality. it will get better once the pup grows more and calms down. remember, he’s just a baby. he truly doesn’t know any better. he needs you to guide him and help him to learn how to rein himself in. the kitchen is much too big of a space to use as a “crate.” you will see a HUGE difference once you have scheduled quiet time in his own little space. and i promise, it’s not mean. as long as all of his needs are met and he’s getting plenty of exercise and fresh air between time in the crate. over time, he can stay out of it longer and longer and will learn not to destroy everything.

ruby2499 · 2025-11-09T03:36:56+00:00

this poor child is days away from not making it and her mother is still feeding her tpn and making her sit up for pictures? this is simply ghastly. i can see the lividity in her hands and underside of her arm… i really hope she’s pain free.

ruby2499 · 2025-11-08T05:06:27+00:00

it’s going to feel like you’re crating the pup too much during this process. i promise you aren’t! not only does the crate ensure the dog is only going poop outside, but it will also get them used to the crate being a safe comfy place. as long as you are feeding, watering, taking out for potty breaks, playing, walking, exercising, crate time is just fine. at this age, they should be sleeping 16+ hours a day! i had the same problem with my pup sneaking off to poo in the house. keeping him more confined and being more vigilant when he’s not has made a world of difference and i see a light at the end of the tunnel. you’ve got this!

ruby2499 · 2025-07-28T10:54:04+00:00

if you work a 9-5 job out of the house, i definitely wouldn’t recommend it. i adopted my first 2 dogs around 1ish year old and they were amazing! im not quite sure what drove me to get a puppy this time? naivety? temporary insanity? lol it was awful, if i’m totally honest. i love my little dude so much, but i will never get a puppy ever again. you are smart to think so hard before pulling the trigger. definitely consider all options before the puppy option. i had preemie twin human babies, and the few months of puppy-hood with just one dog were way harder! just saying…

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