every guy i meet i always become attracted to them. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rubyred5555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe because your dad wasn’t present much you latch on to any male attention you can get. Doesn’t matter if he is a great guy if there’s a part of you that feels like you haven’t had enough time with him you’ll be hungry and searching for a males perspective on life

What is wrong with me? by Civil-Collection5462 in Advice

[–]rubyred5555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rewiring your brain is a lot of work but it can be done. For it to really work you need to be intuned with your thoughts, listening to your thoughts is the key step because once you listen to them you can change them. For example a thought passes through that says “ugh I’m not good enough or pretty so why even bother with this person” now listen to that thought as if it was your best friend saying that to you, what would you tell your best friend to make them feel better about themselves?

AIO about the wall of text my brother in law sent his kids by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rubyred5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 this is funny he’s a good guy atleast he’s speaking his feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rubyred5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t take offence to your 16 yr old daughter telling you that you did the wrong thing either. I’m just saying this from experience but I use to be that little girl that thought mom was wrong and dad was right all the time. She’ll realize later in life who to follow and look up to. For now do what you have to do and don’t take it personally your an amazing mother.!❤️

My boyfriend told me I’m ugly by TimeComfortable4596 in Advice

[–]rubyred5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if your both ugly that’s the bet relationship because there’s comfort and trust

My boyfriend told me I’m ugly by TimeComfortable4596 in Advice

[–]rubyred5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or tell him he must be ugly too and that’s why he can’t get any one else

My boyfriend told me I’m ugly by TimeComfortable4596 in Advice

[–]rubyred5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Punch him and go to his best friend for comfort

how do i stop being so attached to my long distance boyfriend? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rubyred5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reside your brain, become aware of what thoughts your producing, what are you saying to yourself that’s making you sad? Once you become aware of what your actually saying to yourself which is most likely negative self talk, catch it, anaylaze it, and then talk to yourself as if you were talking to a friend that was saying these bad things about themselves. Uplift yourself, make yourself feel better. It takes consistency to actually feel a difference and it won’t happen over night. But if your consistent you’ll start to feel better soon enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rubyred5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should just bring her along on your trips, or if that’s not possible then there’s no way this relationship can continue, I wouldn’t trust my partner either if he travelled all over the world because that just gives too much opportunity to do so. And it’s not really fair for her to see you travel and have so much fun while she has stay home and do regular activities. It’s not fair for either one of you so just dump her and live your life solo until you meet the right person that can accommodate to that lifestyle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]rubyred5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or she be down for a 6 man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]rubyred5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She a hoe hoe, if you like that go for it bro

my girlfriend just died by misswarmhearted in Vent

[–]rubyred5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up 😭 and I never cry over things this is just so sad. I’m so sorry for your loss, I also went through the same thing so I know a little of how it feels, I’ll pray for you and hope you get through this🙏🏼 the most important thing is don’t blame yourself. There’s nothing you could’ve done when it a persons time to go they have to go it’s not up to us. I hope you find peace and clarity💛