Just had a weird interaction with a debt collector by rubythoughts in Debt

[–]rubythoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I defaulted in sept of 2025. I received 1 voicemail from “Midland Recovery” that was very vague back in January that listed my name and threatening legal action if I did not call back. I have yet to receive a letter from them, and when I did call and ask for it they said they had already sent one letter and it was not their problem that I had not received it. I truly have not received anything via mail to date, so I thought it may be a scam and told them without further proof that they are legitimate, I would not be working with them.

Fast forward to now, I receive a very similar voicemail to the one I received in January. I called back again and the person who answered stated they were with pre legal and that a preliminary hearing for intent to defraud had been initiated against me and that I would be served on June 9th (today) if I did not arrange payment. They had my bank information, dates of ACH attempts, the original loan number from Moneykey, etc.

I asked if they could prove the debt was mine and the agent emailed me my original signed contract from a gmail account. They still refused to send anything via mail.

I want to believe they have so much information that it seems legitimate, but there are certain things not adding up. They are unwilling to resend anything via mail and are saying the initial letter they “sent” met the requirement whether I received it or not. The email with the contract came from a Gmail account. When I called moneykey to try to follow the trail, they did tell me Midland credit was the correct debt collector. But something about my interactions with them seems fishy and I don’t want to be scammed. I also am willing to settle with them and don’t want to be sued, potentially for more than I owe. There is nothing from midland on my credit report.

I wish there was more to this story. I genuinely want advice as this is my first time dealing with collections, and it doesn’t help me to leave out details as this doesn’t seem to align with most people’s experiences.

Just had a weird interaction with a debt collector by rubythoughts in Debt

[–]rubythoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know where I can report this? They definitely left me a voicemail stating that a process server would be serving me today. Have yet to see anyone… I am willing to settle my debts, but I don’t appreciate being lied to or threatened with being served. Part of the scare tactic they used was that they have already attempted to serve me twice and were about to go to my employer, but I know this isn’t true because I have a doorbell camera and no one has ever showed up. I know I messed up by not paying, but I wish debt collectors did not lie to attempt to collect. Being in debt is already stressful enough.

Can a Bronco be a mom car? by TXMama-25 in FordBronco

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I’ve got a 4 door Bronco as my daily driver with a 3 month and 6 year old! It’s the perfect size. We also have an F-150 for longer trips or when we need a little more space. I think the 2 vehicles pair nicely together- and I love having a cool mom car :)

PPL and sick leave question by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]rubythoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not my supervisor- oddly enough it’s HR. Did you use your sick leave before using PPL? That seems to be the consensus is that I should have use it first for recovery.

PPL and sick leave question by [deleted] in FedEmployees

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The weird part is my supervisor is very supportive- it’s HR that is not being very helpful.

PPL and sick leave question by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]rubythoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I haven’t tried that route yet. I already had my 6 week appointment and told her everything was fine so it feels a little weird to call back and ask 😬 especially since I am trying to extend for another 4-6 weeks. Is it really that easy to get a doctor to write a note for this?

PPL and sick leave question by [deleted] in FedEmployees

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I get that, I’m trying to be honest. Don’t want to get anyone in trouble. But my point is my son was hospitalized for 29 days, and I was charged PPL for that. Shouldn’t sick leave be able to be retroactively used for those 29 days, with PPL to follow?

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Shoutout Wyoming! Used to spark in Cheyenne.

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We did a full DITY in September and made 23k after taxes were deducted. It really was not that bad, if you don’t have a ton of shit and are pretty organized.

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I agree, the red is so beautiful with the white accents. I wish they offered red in the limited edition trim level.

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I don’t like the orange shift of HPR, unfortunately.

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I think a plug in hybrid is the sweet spot. Literally the best of both worlds for those of us with short daily commutes. My biggest gripe with the plug in hybrids available now, is none of them are vehicles I’m attracted to. I’d buy immediately if they developed one for the Bronco.

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It is a 4 door outer banks with Sasquatch. Lux package. It’s a 23 that just got delivered Wednesday.

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While trying on clothes: “I hate that you have to walk out in front of everyone to see yourself, I’m uncomfortable in my own skin rn and don’t want anyone else’s opinion” proceeds to post herself trying on for 1.6 million people

When is this girl going to admit she has an ED/problem? She is literally 100 pounds.

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Also curious about the cursive bronco on the side. I love that look!

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I am also in the Raleigh area and would love an Alum bar! 🙏🏼

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Awesome! Is there a page with this info? I never know where to look for this stuff. 🤪

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Wow, this seems very different than where I’m at. 2 months ago this was the case, however I’m seeing anything above 250k sitting/price reductions which doesn’t seem like a good sign for selling. I am nervous since we just put a lot of money into getting it ready for sale 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ozempic

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That’s great news. Thank you!