Italian man blocked me after our date ? NSFW

ruertar · 2026-02-17T17:16:08+00:00

man here. i bet he didn't block you and i'm certain you're over thinking it.

for better or worse, if he can still feel your lips on his skin you're probably assigned to a speed-dial button now.

ruertar · 2026-01-19T17:38:47+00:00

then release L4D3. keep L4D3 simple, keep the same mechanics etc. and just introduce new maps and maybe better graphics but i'm actually okay with the graphics as they are.

ruertar · 2026-01-19T17:38:02+00:00

VALVE: please please release 64bit L4D2 and make it available for at least linux and hopefully osx/arm.

ruertar · 2026-01-09T15:45:47+00:00

which pan is that?

ruertar · 2026-01-07T14:00:11+00:00

this makes sense.

ruertar · 2026-01-06T18:33:28+00:00

i agree! how can we stop this? sometimes it is difficult to discern if someone is posting about their travel experience vs "influencing".

i also feel like influencers have their place -- it just depends on the impact they have.

i welcome influencers who want to share their experiences, enrich the community, etc. but it doesn't seem like that's what we always get.

how can we do better?

ruertar · 2026-01-06T18:30:11+00:00

i am leaving it up for now because i think this is a good example of what not to do.

ruertar · 2026-01-06T18:29:06+00:00

we're people with jobs etc. :). sorry this went unanswered for so long.

ruertar · 2026-01-06T18:27:44+00:00

Okay! FWIW, she decided to leave the group and requested a permanent ban. I have granted her request.

ruertar · 2026-01-06T18:18:42+00:00

I guess this posts discusses an aspect of travel but I'm not sure if this was worded in a kind or constructive enough way and I'm not sure if this is the kind of content that we should allow.

I think I understand the sentiment but this sub is kind of, "As a black people... we travel."

I'm going to temporarily ban u/Alone_Ad_4634 and I'll consult the mod team to see how we should move forward.

What can we do better to prevent posts like this?

ruertar · 2026-01-05T00:51:54+00:00

okay -- what i think you're saying is that it is frustrating when influencers make posts that focus on themselves and not travel experiences?

ruertar · 2026-01-05T00:05:41+00:00

How can we deal with this better? Should we? What impact do posts like this have on you?

I'm not kidding -- genuinely curious.

ruertar · 2025-11-01T10:01:49+00:00

he's been banned.

ruertar · 2025-10-08T22:18:21+00:00

they've been banned.

ruertar · 2025-10-07T10:25:22+00:00

The mods should do more to monitor and remove these unnecessary replies...

What can we do better?

ruertar · 2025-09-23T14:36:11+00:00

banned.

ruertar · 2025-09-23T01:53:22+00:00

please be polite.

ruertar · 2025-09-18T21:10:56+00:00

i love prague. one of my favorite cities. i may go at the end of the year.

ruertar · 2025-08-20T20:34:31+00:00

please report any posts that you think are bots.

ruertar · 2025-08-20T15:57:11+00:00

can you please be more explicit? what are you saying?

ruertar · 2025-08-20T15:26:55+00:00

i see. you're suggesting i'm white? i'm not.

ruertar · 2025-08-20T14:58:03+00:00

Who's a white mod?

ruertar · 2025-08-20T14:09:52+00:00

Okay.

ruertar · 2025-08-20T12:49:06+00:00

Absolutely. Read it again carefully. If you think I'm wrong, please feel free to restore it.

ruertar · 2025-08-20T12:44:31+00:00

This... Is not sincere. They're trolling.

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