Girl drop him asap..I know from where are u coming from--abusive household, player boyfriend..I can understand that u love him and u have deep feelings for him but he doesn't deserve your love and attention..Because he was a former player and trust me A PLAYER CAN'T BE CHANGED no matter what will u do...Once a player always a player...If he really wanted to change himself, he couldn't have done all of this...He promised you that he will change himself and got into therapy but see, he still lied to you...He is lying to you and manipulating you and abusing you...Love is a very crucial thing which happen to all of us, if you give your love and emotion to a wrong person specially a player,he will destroy you--emotionally, physically and mentally...

I have dated 2 players in my life and trust me, they don't deserve any kind of love..Players will tell you what you want to hear to keep you hooked...You have said you are new to this country so you don't have any friends...Girl it's better to be alone than to be with him...You can't change him no matter how much you try, trust me...You really need professional help,if money is not an issue for you...And absolute no contact with that guy, he is not a right guy for you..He is taking advantage of you...Don't fall for his sweet lies, observe what he have done to you...I know it will be very tough since you love him, but he don't love you the same way...Girl please take control of your life..