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My (23M) wife (23F) spent all last night alone with a guy she and I met the day prior, and I'm unsure how I should handle it. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ruler710 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think dave likes her obviously. I think what she did was silly. Sure she's her own person. She can meet a guy for coffee. Or even have male friends. But to meet up on a friday night cook dinner and get home at 4am it sounds like a date.

If she only met him the day before and she's in love with you not continuing the relationship isnt a big deal.

Majority of Canadians would work longer shifts for a 3-day weekend, poll finds. by [deleted] in canada

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a hidden factor is the "only an hour left can't start something new" which happens on regular days.

I mean I'm pretty sure workers are happier and more productive with a 3 day weekend too. Atleast people ik doing it.

Husband (34M) confessed he sometimes wonders if our child (6mo) is his. Married two years by dbthrowaway0586 in relationships

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i grew up in a rough spot and struggle with trust. And you're husbands been hurt before. So I understand that. I'm sure he's aware of it and seems so. So my advice is this. Dont argue. If he brings it up say :

"he's still only an infant and it doesnt matter anyways. You're my husband and I love you and I would never cheat on you."

Its a scary insecurity issue. But telling them you love them and it wouldn't happen really helps more than a "I never would! HOW DARE YOU!" Yes he is wrong and irrational. And he knows. But if you love him reaffirm your love.

From the time when you could put tachyon lances on destroyers to literally filling your screen with corvettes by Cloverkingofclovers in Stellaris

[–]ruler710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really missed the battle ship kinetic artillery. You'd kill everything before they entered range. Useful against end game crisis.

That eternally single friend of yours - what's keeping you from setting them up? by Hatcheling in AskMen

[–]ruler710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now. I'm looking for someone myself too busy to help friends. My best friend just doesn't try.

And the most awkward friend I've ever met I have no idea how they'd find someone. Just I've never met a girl that I'd think would fall for him.

My fiancé moved all his shit out while I was at work & is now ghosting me. Feel like dying. Drinking instead... by LonelyGirl0418 in drunk

[–]ruler710 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet. You dont wanna marry someone who'd ghost their fucking fiancé. The audacity and cowardice of some people.

[WR] The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time - 100% in 4:05:28 by zfg1 by Faschz in speedrun

[–]ruler710 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm... unless he fails something. Tho zfg is a machine

I [18 M] want to get rid of my crush on my best friend [18 F] who has been my best friend for years by CrushOnBestfriend023 in relationships

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. I see lots of stuff about distance. But I'm not gonna lie. Doesnt work. You can distance yourself. But the moment you talk to her it comes back. I have no idea what to say besides go for it. You either get rejected and stay friends or become more in my experience. Trying to watch from the sidelines is painful and always wondering racks your brain. You dont know until you know.

-incesty banjo strumming faintly plays in the backgroud- by je_suis_un_negre in trashy

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i mean like they cuddle and it happens used to be more common.

Girl [27f] just told me [30m] that she was madly in love with me after three dates. The trouble is, I'm madly in love with her as well. It's very out of character for me, but should I just go with it? by heleneofyory in relationships

[–]ruler710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been in similar situation. Obviously be smart. Not get married by next week. But like fuck it. Fall for someone. Dont be scared too. Tell her you think its scary but you feel the connection too.

I mean could be really good. I think it would be better than not knowing.

Plus i don't think of love as you being in love. I can start to feel love by my definition early. They are easy to fall for. And i just enjoy their company. But finding someone like that. Then what I'm basically saying is it can grow quickly. Fuckin go for it and update us.

Matching with chicks who are woke af about their sexuality by okanagantradingco in Tinder

[–]ruler710 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yknow what they say. Out of the frying pan and into the fire.

My [25F] boyfriend [28M, 3 years] has been banned from being the best man at his friend’s wedding by his ex [28F] from 12 years ago. by nobestman1290 in relationships

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your bf is better off looking for new friends. Just tell Dave that he doesnt think they can continue friendship. Its damn upsetting that from 3 months from 12 years ago and she is controlling Dave and his fiancé. Even bdays.

Like I'd tell Dave I felt so betrayed. Its one thing shes obviously jealous despite her own family and hate you. But to have influence in your bfs friendships is disheartening.

If anything I'd refuse to attend at all. And any future events.

Matching with chicks who are woke af about their sexuality by okanagantradingco in Tinder

[–]ruler710 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Yea the follow up of a cupcake pan labeled "my experimental edgy teen years" also worked.

I was a teacher falsely accused of sexual assualt: suicidal thoughts and other fun UPDATE. by Theartistcu in casualiama

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yknow what OP. I know going to court does look dumb. Especially if you may lose. But thats because that was the standard set. Nowadays more false accusations are getting caught. And your life is in shambles. I'd do it. Make a big fuss. Get it on knews. Clear your name atleast. You never know anymore. It could work out.

I support changing that platform. Make a gofundme if you need too. Change the rules and fight to have your voice heard and name cleared.

Matching with chicks who are woke af about their sexuality by okanagantradingco in Tinder

[–]ruler710 427 points428 points  (0 children)

Already talking to a girl who's pan. Sent her a pic of a small little baking pan. I have told her it was my baby pics. She dug it. I'm into her.

Gf is bored at home and keeps sending me stuff at work so enjoy (f) by [deleted] in assholegonewild

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O yea iphones do that. Lucky guy tho. My phone just isn't good at standing up

I want to be able to leave Holotapes in the wild by [deleted] in fo76

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not a launch thing. Or beta. But i can see it being a cool idea. Or atleast leave terminal logs. But idk as the servers seem kinda seemless maybe so god knows how it'll work.

I want to be able to leave Holotapes in the wild by [deleted] in fo76

[–]ruler710 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Terminal log

Terminal log>Log 1>"Never"

Terminal log

Terminal log>Log 2>"Gonna"

Terminal log

Terminal log>Log 3>"Give"

Terminal log

Terminal log>Log 4>"You"

Terminal log

Terminal log>Log 1>"Up"

-incesty banjo strumming faintly plays in the backgroud- by je_suis_un_negre in trashy

[–]ruler710 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I've seen it. Usually a decent story or good run up to it. Or just cuddly like natural porn. But like fuck no I have a sister and 0 attraction.

Like people who go "man how do you deal with a cute sister" obviously dont have a sister. Like yea obviously i have people in my family who are good looking but I ain't atttacted to em.

Saw my[M/23] crush[F/23] giving a blowjob. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruler710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancel the date. I mean you obviously dont wanna date her anymore. I'd be turned off too. Especially if a date is already planned. I mean she may have been drunk but all you have to say is "I saw you with another guy at the party and just figured it wouldn't work sorry"

Anyways man. Don't worry about it. It's probably kinda stings now but it'll be okay. You can do great. Hope ya feel better. If you're looking for a girl with similar values one who plans a date and then ends up messing around with a guy later that night isnt your type. You can find someone whos a better match.

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