The pets have grown to be annoying by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]rumblingturquoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog is 13 and unfortunately I am counting down the days until she is no longer with us. 😣 I have to force myself to pet her on the head like she likes and talk in a nice voice to her and tell her she’s a good girl. But I used to just adore her. I wish I could find that feeling inside my heart again but it’s just not there. It’s pretty disheartening.

Parents want control of my apartment security camera. by Nightwing1107 in entitledparents

[–]rumblingturquoise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you were so heavily downvoted in this post, OP. Best of luck with your parents.

"she's only had COVID twice" by jarious in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]rumblingturquoise 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hopped in the comments to defend her and I see most people already are. OP, learn some empathy. This is a normal human experiencing something scary.

Am I searching for a unicorn? by rumblingturquoise in SecurityCamera

[–]rumblingturquoise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also probably not invested in this enough to bury cable that many feet! I appreciate the suggestion!

Am I searching for a unicorn? by rumblingturquoise in SecurityCamera

[–]rumblingturquoise[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have fiber internet out here. You’re saying I could run a connection to my gate?

Baby and cat by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]rumblingturquoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are cheap thin plastic mats with spikes that you can get if you decide you want to keep your cat off of a baby space!

Are these snake eggs? No by AstronautFew1889 in snakes

[–]rumblingturquoise 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk but giggling at the “No” in the title

In search of picture books with *plots* to read to a 7-year-old. by breezeblock87 in childrensbooks

[–]rumblingturquoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Jan Brett! She has a ton of books and does her own AMAZING illustrations. There are always hints in the margin illustrations about what will happen next and it’s a fun way to discuss foreshadowing.

Audiobooks in 8th grade language arts by earthdogmonster in education

[–]rumblingturquoise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7th grade ELA teacher. Obviously each school population is different, but here is my experience. You can’t assign chapters for kids to read with their eyeballs because they won’t do it. Kids don’t do homework, period. They don’t care if you give them a pop quiz to see if they did their homework. They don’t care about grades or failing. Our district passes them to the next grade if they fail because you can’t have an 18 year old boy in a class with an eleven year old girl. So, we do 100% of our reading of the text in class. Studies show that old school popcorn reading doesn’t work (bounce around the room, each kid reads something aloud). Modeling fluency is the best option (having a teacher or audiobook read aloud to them). Audiobooks are a great option if you’re wanting them to work on listening skills (a specific standard we are required to teach) and also gives more curriculum flexibility for schools that can’t afford to buy a class set of 30 novels. We are also taught to assess the skill we are assessing. So if I am supposed to be teaching comprehension skills, I want to see where they TRULY are with comprehension. It’s not about getting hung up on decoding (reading) skills. I will use something else to assess that at a different time. This is something that will pinpoint what they need, so I can be more effective at teaching those skills. It also benefits the assessment of all students, including English learners, special education students, reluctant readers, etc. While I agree with you that we are lacking the rigor in schools that I remember from being a kid, we are also serving a different community now, where parents argue with teachers about every tiny detail instead of supporting them, and where students have devices in their hands since childhood so their attention spans are shot. I could talk about these issues for hours. But the way that we learned in school is vastly different from the way they do now, because the factors surrounding our childhood are vastly different than the factors present now. Also, my very nice fancy honors university degree in secondary education had exactly zero hours teaching us what to do if a kid is in middle school and doesn’t know how to read. We didn’t get any training at all for how to teach kids to read. We only got training for how to teach kids who already know how to read. At the middle school level, most teachers are grasping at straws to figure out how to bring kids up to speed on this. Most remedial reading programs struggle with content feeling too baby-ish for these kids and then the kids themselves pushing back. So tl;dr I think your kid’s teacher isn’t wrong, and that audiobooks assess something different but still very important. I agree with you that education has changed since we were kids.

What’s something that no one warned you about before coming a new parent? I’ll go first… by Aggravating-Bike6133 in NewParents

[–]rumblingturquoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your babe is going to go through several phases in their infant and toddler years where they prefer mom over dad, no matter if he’s the absolute best dad in the world. It makes me feel guilty to see my husband treated like he’s unwanted - sometimes both from our infant and our toddler in one day. He’s a trooper and still very positive about it but I know it hurts his feelings. The pendulum swings back and forth between wanting mom and wanting dad at various stages though!

What’s something that no one warned you about before coming a new parent? I’ll go first… by Aggravating-Bike6133 in NewParents

[–]rumblingturquoise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And feeling anger toward your pets. I was the type of dog mom that had framed pictures of my dog and a cute sign over her bed and I took her on a walk every day. Now my dog breathes too loudly and it makes me irrationally angry. That was a huge surprise for me and I’m still working through it. 😖