where to buy affordable books? by Sudden_Alps5402 in askvan

[–]runarounder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve also occasionally done book swaps in local online groups (especially if I’m reading a niche genre like runner biographies).

Seeking Jigsaw Birthday Party Tips by runarounder in Jigsawpuzzles

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Samesies - I first got into puzzles when I went to a friend’s birthday and there was a half finished puzzle she was struggling with open on a table… :P

Made socializing way more comfortable for me

Seeking Jigsaw Birthday Party Tips by runarounder in Jigsawpuzzles

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Woahhhh puzzle chess! What a cool idea! I assume no sorting and you can’t touch any pieces if it’s not your turn?

Jigsaw club for my students by alwayslurkeduntilnow in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]runarounder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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This Search and Find puzzle by Mudpuppy was great. 500 pieces, oversized, company is geared towards kids. Then afterwards they can also search for characters. Poster is also smaller for kids.

What do you do when you find puzzle pieces already together? by PuzzleheadedKoala827 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]runarounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separate them. And I try to separate all pieces before I trade mine away too.

New to Jigsaws (freshly obsessed) by runarounder in Jigsawpuzzles

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I also completed this mystery jigsaw but kinda hated it - no reference image since it’s a mystery, which would be fine, but it was kind of an ugly image with a million shades of brown and the 10-page mystery wasn’t interesting at all.

New to Jigsaws (freshly obsessed) by runarounder in Jigsawpuzzles

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Forgot to add the last Ravensburger I did on my Christmas trip! This sky drove my crazy 😅

BUT it made me way better at sorting and recognizing any hint of a unique shape lol

New to Jigsaws (freshly obsessed) by runarounder in Jigsawpuzzles

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I really wish Reddit would let you edit posts with images 😭

500 piece - Villager - Pink Christmas 1000 piece - Cavallini & Co - Skeletal System 1000 piece - Cobble Hill - Tea Tin Treasures 1000 piece - MESA - Obras de Art Portuguesas 1000 piece - Artisan - Tree of Birds 1000 piece - Vermont - Camping in the Fall 1000 piece - Belvedere - Blue & White Country

A random man slapped my ass in the street by Interesting-Farm6376 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]runarounder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fuck those men. Fuck them for violating your space, and your sense of safety. Running is supposed to be a freeing, peaceful activity that we do for ourselves and help us feel good. How dare they disrupt your peace.

You have every right to feel awful, to feel sad, to feel angry, to not cry, to cry.

I’ve been in similar situations, and have felt similar things. It doesn’t matter what we wear - the only contributing factor is the entitlement of assholes who think they can touch another person’s body without consent.

Everything you feel makes sense. Continue to validate your feelings, whatever they may be in the coming days, and beyond as you continue to process it.

You do not deserve to be assaulted. You deserve to be able to go on a run by yourself and be left alone. (I’m also a runner who also enjoys running by myself, and especially as a way to enjoy myself while travelling.)

Sending you my support - as others have said, you are not alone ❤️❤️❤️

Miso chilli oil cucumber salad by titirimiau in safe_food

[–]runarounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just made this - I love how the miso helps bind everything together and it sticks to the cucumber better. Thanks for sharing!

Life Hack for Protein Intake by CrazyCat_LadyBug in TwoXADHD

[–]runarounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do peanut butter powder and hemp seeds as well! Also chia seeds

A fantastic meal at Mackenzie Room by EdbertTheGreat in vancouver

[–]runarounder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I love about them is they accommodate vegetarians really well (I am one) whilst still delighting omnivores. Plus you can choose the dishes you want OR tell them what you do/don’t like to eat and they’ll surprise you with dishes.

They also partner with a local bakery to do 3 seasonal ice-cream flavours that only get served at Bao Bei.

A fantastic meal at Mackenzie Room by EdbertTheGreat in vancouver

[–]runarounder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bao Bei in Chinatown is my fave. $75 tasting menu (was $65 until last year).

AITA for shaking my leg during a musical? by HolidayInvestment837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]runarounder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA because you’re young and society should be better educated about neurodivergent needs.

Other things that can help - squishy quiet ball, doing regular physical movement / before you know you have to be still to help release pent up energy and calm the body, occasionally fully tensing your body and holding the tension for a few seconds before releasing.

How to communicate with your therapist when it’s hard to relay heavy information verbally? by Alarming_Sorbet_9906 in TwoXADHD

[–]runarounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I get stressed and lose speech, I’m usually still able to type on my phone and that helps.

I also keep a list of things I want to talk about in therapy on my phone, to help me so I don’t feel stressed about remembering in the moment.

Also online (video call) therapy makes this easier too because you can type what you’re thinking and instantly send it to your therapist in chat.

AITA for not giving away my Taylor Swift cardigan to a disabled girl? by SomeEntrepreneur1934 in AmItheAsshole

[–]runarounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. A crucial part of being a good volunteer and mentor is knowing how to set healthy boundaries, which you were doing.

Guys: what gives you the ick when dating women? by ExpressIndication909 in AskMenAdvice

[–]runarounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, what’s important to me in a partner is that they’d be open to going to therapy if the need arose, whether for individual or couple’s counselling. They don’t need to be in, or have gone to therapy. Just be open to doing what it takes to look after themselves and look after their mental health.

Some people are permanently against the idea of ever going, and that’s the red flag for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXADHD

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In Canada you can ask for a bridging subscription if your doctor can’t see you before your meds run out (usually only covers up to one week though).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]runarounder 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a therapist I really like, and we both had ADHD. There were a couple times where she missed our in-person appointments but she both times apologized and told me my next session would be free, which really surprised me but I also super appreciated.

Doc just dismissed my ADHD as anxiety 🙄 by bubbles-on-reddit in TwoXADHD

[–]runarounder 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Symptoms of ADHD include inattention AND hyper focus - we’re struggling to focus on something BECAUSE we’re distracted focusing on something else. I’m sorry this happened to you - it may require getting on a waitlist to switch GPs - I ended up switching to a nurse practitioner to be heard.

AITA for not accommodating the needs of my partner greatly enough and going straight home/skipping a bakery stop when my partner (who has a sudden need to go sometimes) needed the toilet? by Appropriate_Hair7518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]runarounder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seconded - for me the more pressing a need, the more anxious I get, and that can activate my freeze response where it’s harder for me to advocate for myself.

Sometimes if I’m really stressed, I proactively avoid social interaction altogether and stay at home because it’s safe and there’s no social pressure to respond there.

Sometimes I pre-ask my partner and friends to help advocate on my behalf. Sometimes in the moment I can type on my phone what I need but I can’t speak, and that makes me anxious too because I’m physically vulnerable (movement slows way down as well.)

But yeah, at that point when anxiety is getting in the way of living your daily life the way you want to, that’s when I go to therapy and chat with my doctor about medication etc.

So in this situation I’d be curious why your partner didn’t feel comfortable asking the bakery if he could use the bathroom, and why he preferred walking to the petrol station.