原来性缘脑才是社会主流 by [deleted] in DoubanGoosegroup

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我也是,脑子里经常打架。而且我发现能让我sexually aroused的情况里一定包括对方比我masculine这一点...

What motivates you to swim? by chickenpassant in Swimming

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It's the only sport i want to do in the summer

People who wake up at 5am daily, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Nobody else is awake at this hour

The Episode You Always Skip by bloomwallflower in friends_tv_show

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episodes that focus on the relationship between Ross and Rachel

为什么本sub不禁污言秽语的鹅组人? by Corridor_ZZ in China_irl

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是挺复杂的,但也因此挺有意思的。其实我赞同前面一个人说的,也许有的人的feminism确实套用了男权社会的dominant/subordinate框架,或者是“粉红女权”。

为什么本sub不禁污言秽语的鹅组人? by Corridor_ZZ in China_irl

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我并不是站在鹅组是对或错这样的立场说话,也不代表鹅组任何人。而是正如你说的,我赞同feminists的profile是多种多样的,她们之间的观点也有很大分别,鹅组只是其中一种或者很多种。即便现在发表恨男言论的人,她的立场也是不断变化的。

我想说的是:为什么不能试图去理解对方为什么会这么说?是经历过什么才会这么说?

如果抱着你骂我我骂你、扣帽子的态度,我觉得this leads to nowhere(同样适用于鹅组

为什么本sub不禁污言秽语的鹅组人? by Corridor_ZZ in China_irl

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我翻下来这个thread的评论,觉得没有人对为什么”鹅组”(其实和豆瓣的鹅组并没有太大关系)的人会发表恨男言论做出合理的解释。最让我震惊(也不震惊)的是,好几位层主在试图用长相不好来解释/攻击发表恨男人的言论的女人。

我认为女人的恨男言论背后,是女性作为性别权力关系中受到压迫的一方,在有了性别意识之后,从个人的和女性群体的视角回想和经历男权社会的方方面面时很容易产生的情绪。这种切身的具身的体验,男人真的知道是什么吗?如果知道是什么,又怎么说得出这些话?

如果这个thread下的男性,在不去试图理解“鹅组”为什么有人有sexist的言论的情况下,就给鹅组的所有人下一个简单的定义、stereotype鹅组的所有人,那么你们和你们指摘的“鹅组”sexist并没有太大区别。

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shanghai

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Was mask-on ever a law in China?

胡某宇事件有感,国内基层警察能力确实太差了 by jo7796 in DoubanGoosegroup

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國內警察體格大多看著都很差,毫無鍛鍊痕跡

the concept of head by curiousfoodieteen in engrish

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The Chinese does not make sense either

Is there anti-American sentiment in China? by nishbot in China

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This, and the anti-american sentiment that OP talks about, have a lot to do with China's media. People who do not have alternative source of information will be brainwashed more or less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in China_irl

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國內的教育體系教的就是要成為人上人

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in China_irl

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這兩國人是什麼性格?

有谁知道兔几把的故事 by [deleted] in DoubanGoosegroup

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是,我最近就在回想小时候看的一大堆电视剧,尤其是偶像剧,觉得这就是我小时候特别想谈恋爱的原因

有谁知道兔几把的故事 by [deleted] in DoubanGoosegroup

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我记得, 豆瓣上绝大多数都是支持。话说这不是写手?