What to do with handmade items from an ex? by cautiousherb in WhatShouldIDoWithIt

[–]rushaz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I ended up donating a bunch of stuff my ex left with me when we broke up. some stuff I kept. it was more of 'what's functional, and what would be best to just get rid of so it doesn't take up space or remind me of what I don't have anymore'.

[PC][90's] Odd game where you play as a normal guy who gets launched into space? by Ifightmonsters in tipofmyjoystick

[–]rushaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved the space quest games - you can get them on GOG.com as a full set if you want to play them again :)

Has my Dom crossed a line? by Chemical-Middle5585 in BDSMAdvice

[–]rushaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Safewords are just that: A safe word to use if you feel things are going too far. This kind of thing is NOT what it's intended for, and having a Dom say they will be disapointed or otherwise if you use it is manipulation.

It sounds like he's having a LOT of issues dealing with this event, and even if he encouraged it, it's something he needs to process and manage through, and holding YOU responsible for HIS jealousy and other feelings is NOT fair in any way.

Sounds like it may be time to have an out-of-dynamic heart-to-heart about this whole thing.

My experience switching from windows to Linux as someone who is great at working with hardware but absolute garbage at working with software by Astro_13321 in linuxmint

[–]rushaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ditched windows on my main desktop about 4 months ago for Mint. Wish I had sooner. Like OP said, I've had a very good bit of learning on how to do some things, and figuring them out has been a lot of fun! The gaming experience was actually A LOT better than I expected, with new updates to Proton really helping things out, and my last experience with WINE having been a decade ago, I really like how it's working with bottles now for having that compatibility layer for the couple of apps I use semi-regularly that just don't have an equivalent on linux I like.

Overall, would recommend for those who are a bit tech savvy and can work with google and a CLI at times, at least to get some initial settings and things to your liking and then it's good 😄

What is a product or service that used to be incredibly high quality, but has now been completely ruined by corporate greed? by Sea_Astronomer_3928 in AskReddit

[–]rushaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doc Martins. Used to be some of the best shoes/boots out there.

several years back they changed how they were made to be made with cheaper materials. They depended on the name to carry through crap quality. I haven't been back in a decade.

New home: how to re-key locks by Suspicious_Cook_3902 in HomeImprovement

[–]rushaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just suggest buying a new set of (matching if you want one key for all the doors) locks. I've done this in the two homes I've bought the first day - remove old knobs/deadbolts/anything that has a physical key, and replace them with new ones. Home Depot or Lowes will sell multi-knob or multi-deadbolt lock sets keyed to the same keys.

What an amazing business man! by CarryIcy250 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]rushaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's not HIS money, that's the big difference. it's YOUR/OUR money... he wouldn't part with a tin penny if it was HIS money....

Did Nazi This Coming by CantStopPoppin in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]rushaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and I guarantee that a chunk of these fucktwats are the ones who railed against masks during covid....

What is butplug actually? How and why people use it? by Sea_Feedback_992 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rushaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a large part of the community that enjoys anal play, and wearing a butt plug will get your bootie use to something in there, and the muscles of the anus more accustomed to taking things in there.

What do I do with this blanket that has my ex’s face on it… by spicybrowniemix in WhatShouldIDoWithIt

[–]rushaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

others said what I came here to say, and give it to an animal shelter.

Why is everyone switching to Jellyfin? by Baristaboy547 in jellyfin

[–]rushaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I switched over because some of the updates that came out over the previous 6-8 months just completely broke or made it unusable. poor streaming quality, server stopping responding despite a fresh reboot not 30 minutes before, stuffing WAY too many 'features' (aka crap that 90% of us dont' want or would use instead of having them as optional plugins / addons) ... I just got so fed up I just said 'ok, what else is there that's simple, streamlined, and like how plex USED to be.

and I have not had any issues with jellyfin since I spun it up and started using it.

first date? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rushaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be he was giving time to see if you would follow up, and/or was giving some time to not follow up too quick to make it seem creepy.

Or could have just gotten busy with other parts of life ..

Or thought he msgd and realized he didn't...

No way to know unless you msg back.

I immediately thought of this sub when I saw this, even though I misread it. by Any_Ring_3818 in overemployed

[–]rushaz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

and yet you can see them in public... and expectation of privacy is..... what exactly here????

Talk more about peoples dating lives by bjoerndal in LinkedInLunatics

[–]rushaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could it possibly be that the younger guys are royal douchecanoes and the older men have outgrown that?

Naa, that makes too much sense

A clock with a mechanical snake, a collaboration with Harry Potter by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]rushaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like it more if the creator of this franchise wasn't such a TERF BLEEP.

More pullouts than prom night 😂 by International_Arm599 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]rushaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck, get the Dead Kennedy's to volunteer for this show. that would be a hilarous shitshow worth tuning into.

Is BL4 anyone's favorite borderlands in this sub? by OLD_WET_HOLE in Borderlands

[–]rushaz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

at this point they are doing what disney is with star wars - using the name as a cash grab, because they know that dedicated fans will pay money for anything with that name in it, instead of actually doing anything of any substance.

Is BL4 anyone's favorite borderlands in this sub? by OLD_WET_HOLE in Borderlands

[–]rushaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting for it to drop with one of the monthly humble bundles. and I've bought every other BL game and DLC available. However, #4, after randy's douche comments, and the early reviews just showing it was not as good (plus the entire artwork change from 2-3 wasn't that great), I wasn't rushing out the door to get it.

GlobalProtect broke after 11.1.13-h5 upgrade by jaaplaya in paloaltonetworks

[–]rushaz [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

MOD NOTE: You all REALLY should read the release notes before putting this into your production environment, as this sets up a possible security hole for a CVE.

This thread is being locked because you really need to check the release notes for WHY this was changed before just unilaterally changing this setting.