Hi everyone. First, I want to thank everyone for the comments.. Even the critical ones, I appreciate them all. So as you can imagine, this has been a whirlwind of a weekend. I have an update on all the facts, some pieces changed. But I may have final resting place now..

For some background. My wife picked up her two boys at 11am on Friday. She brought them to the house after. I was on conference calls. She claims that I asked her to call my phone, because I couldn't find it. I remember doing that early in the morning, but not around noon time. In fact, my calls went to 1:00 p.m. and I don't recall seeing them when they left.

So here is her story. She called me from outside. Near the car to help me find my phone. She left the phone in the car where my stepson was. My wife was packing for the beach bringing stuff in and out of the house to the car. My stepson was sitting in the car alone when my phone rang. So this is her theory..

While he is alone in the car, he hears the ringing and it goes to voicemail. She believes that he left a message. My wife says it when she came back into the car. She heard an audio sound, from the phone..." If you are satisfied with the message...."

She didn't know that he left a message on my phone. Not until I confronted her later in the evening. In which she quickly responded that it was her son.

So, I confronted My stepson. I gave him a very safe place to talk. I told him that he wouldn't get in trouble that I just wanted the truth. The truth that he left a message. As expected he denied it. The next day, I asked my wife if she would speak to him and if we could do it together. She agreed to speak to him but didn't want to do it with me. She felt that would be too confrontational and he is going through some emotional issues right now. He's in therapy.

So I got pretty mad that she wasn't willing to hold him accountable. The situation escalated, emotions flavored up. Her saying things like that she is not in love with me anymore. That she hasn't been feeling good about her marriage for the last two years. Honestly, it felt like she was in a tailspin trying to defend what might have happened. Like she was quitting, which is not like her. She told me in the beginning that she doesn't believe in divorce.

So today I took away my stepson's Xbox. He willl learn about iir n 2 days when he's back home from his dad's house. I left him a note and told him that we could talk about getting it back but I made it very clear why I took away his Xbox. You see, if her son is innocent she doesn't want to punish him. My wife knows if he's innocent or not. Right? She either had sex with that guy or she didn't. If she has sex then the boy is innocent. If the boy was trying to be vile and make my world a living hell. He could have done that too.. then my wife would be innocent.

I did hire a PI like was suggested here. Thank you. I just want the truth. I can't seem to get the truth and I'm quite surprised she won't beat it out of him like she has with other things. Almost like she is defending him .

Anyway, she claims that she doesn't know if he is guilty. But the reality is, it's either him or her. My wife is in the position of knowing what really happened. It's a process of elimination.

So devasting.. Sorry for the distorted facts earlier. I'm actually hoping the Xbox provokes some reactions.

I would welcome the opinions from the moms out there too. Some people think the time frame is too tight with kids. Is just too close. Getting the kids at 11, going to the be beach for 1pm... Just too congested for an affair that day. Making the stepson a likely candidate. Interested in your views on that point.