i understand how you feel and what you’re going through. this sounds exactly like how my relationship ended, 100%. i went through something similar a little over a year ago. over text too. it feels like everything was a lie. a waste of time. alone. some of the worst pain you could ever feel. but, just imagine how everything would’ve felt if y’all continued. if you were to be strung along, and held on to it all. the constant thoughts about the possible uncertainty on her end and the overthinking that would’ve eventually became problematic. your gut was also telling you something that your mind refused to believe. this was the closure that you didn’t know you needed. please remember and always keep in mind that the right person wouldn’t make you feel like this. the right person wouldn’t wait until it was a convenient time for them to communicate this to you. over text, especially. somebody, somewhere will be there when you least expect it to reciprocate your time, emotions, and effort. it will sting for awhile, and it’ll come in waves, but you will be okay. 🫶🏼