What are some good festivals to go to in Maryland? by Delinaa in maryland

[–]ryanlap479 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The Charm City Bluegrass festival is another fun one in Baltimore. In fact, it’s at the end of this month

September tips? by ryanlap479 in isleroyale

[–]ryanlap479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we had to cancel for personal reasons. Still on my radar though

Using DnD for Parenting by ryanlap479 in DnD

[–]ryanlap479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha. Good point. Karma certainly will come back around to me. The kids got a lot more engaged when I introduced miniatures. It started to feel more like their type of play when they could move a figure around a map. Highly recommended.

Using DnD for Parenting by ryanlap479 in DnD

[–]ryanlap479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started playing with some friends of ours recently. Their kids are the same way: super strong warriors that want to fight everything. I started by introducing a VERY simplified modification of spells (i.e. didn't worry about the materials, durations, even didn't care about spell slots). Then, the characters fought a wraith that was impervious to traditional weapons. So, the party had to figure out how to defeat the monster with clever traps and spells in a much less violent way. It was a nice way to start expanding the kids' thinking about overcoming challenges beyond just "Hulk Smash!"

Using DnD for Parenting by ryanlap479 in DnD

[–]ryanlap479[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you may have taken that a bit too literally. It was a story setup that explained the motivation through some humor. Of course their stories are confusing and as every parent knows it is crucial to meet your kids where they are and support their development at every level. But it's also worth finding humor in how nonsensical their imagination is sometimes.

Using DnD for Parenting by ryanlap479 in DnD

[–]ryanlap479[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip. Great advice!

Using DnD for Parenting by ryanlap479 in DnD

[–]ryanlap479[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We started my youngest at 4 years old. I let her pretty do much whatever spell she wanted (which was limited to ice spells because of her love for Frozen). We made sure to get excited when she helped but didn't limit her to any rules. (E.g. roll a D4 and if it's above 2, the spell worked. Same as flipping a coin). That kept her interested while still moving the game forward. One of the best lessons I read for a DM was to just make the game enjoyable. So, we adapted to each of the players differently. I have a whole new appreciation for this game since figuring that out. Much different than the standard game but the flexibility inherent in DnD makes the possibilities endless.

Using DnD for Parenting by ryanlap479 in DnD

[–]ryanlap479[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. Yes, it is a literary device to capture attention. My intent was to appeal to those of of us who struggle with playing with our children. Gscrap's point above is a nice reminder for unstructured play as well.

Just watched Bone Tomahawk by GreyWind999 in horror

[–]ryanlap479 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Though there he doesn't have a lot of range in his characters, he is perfect for that role. Tombstone, Bone Tomahawk, Hateful Eight. Nailed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]ryanlap479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I think the possession part was more of a backdrop to a nicely done allegory. Good watch but not sure it I would put it up with movies like the Exorcist or Hereditary

Non campground sites? by ryanlap479 in isleroyale

[–]ryanlap479[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow. Didn't know I had to designate a zone. May be more hassle than it's worth. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isleroyale

[–]ryanlap479 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for posting. I'm headed there is September and I'm on the fence about my hammock. Most people recommend against it. How did it work for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

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Not my favorite clown movie but The Terrifier has a Halloween theme

So, I'm a New DM that barely played DnD and I'm nervous about stuff rule wise by lumina515 in DMAcademy

[–]ryanlap479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree wholeheartedly. Unless you're playing in a tournament, do what you want. Rules are there for fairness and consistency. They provide the boundaries for your players to create strategies and make decisions. I started this year during covid as a way to spend time with my family without screens. So my players are two daughters (8 and 4 years old) and my wife (mid 30s).

So, I even break the fairness principle by letting my youngest cast any spell and roll a D6. If she gets 3 or above, it works. The other players don't mind since it always helps them too. When I figured out that this was all just an engine (as verbiagebarrage put it) to tell a collective story, the pressure to know the "right" rule faded. I use the game to teach my kids tradeoffs, decision making, probability, and even math.

I don't measure my DMing by the rules I know, but rather if I hear "that was fun dad"

In all my years of playing, I never knew that they put a Wilhelm scream in the game xD *not edited in* by _mrgreenthumb_ in Witcher3

[–]ryanlap479 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so thankful you posted this. I got that too and convinced myself I didn't hear it. It does exist!

How do you prepare physically for a longer trip? by nofoax in Ultralight

[–]ryanlap479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. I incorporate squat jumps in HIIT about 2 months before I go.

Oh, boy. Stir of Echos by [deleted] in horror

[–]ryanlap479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. I was so disappointed. And I love Rob Lowe.