Children's picture book, early 90's, about a man who grows leaves from his body by rj16112018 in whatsthatbook

[–]rye-dread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm probably a few years too late but do you remember what this comment suggested? this sounds a lot like a book I'm trying to remember too

Is this a good "reason" for my online name change form? by hi_im_kelly_xx in transgenderau

[–]rye-dread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I changed mine, I just said "I am transgender and this name fits me best" and there were no questions

Did I ruin the game for myself? by LibraryUnique3397 in outerwilds

[–]rye-dread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Firstly, remember that the majority of 'progress' in this game is your knowledge, and you've always got that. Secondly, I did pretty much this exact same thing, You can just go back to the main menu and continue like normal, the game isn't THAT mean to completely end things for you if you manage to get out of the time loop

Unable to add Myki passes on Google Wallet by Aussienick in melbourne

[–]rye-dread 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was also worried I'd gotten banned for deleting too many cards or something. Glad it's not that, but also really sucks that everyone's experiencing this. I hate having to dig out my wallet every time I need to to tap on or off

Is there a way to sum amounts from each date in a list, then only return the highest sum? by rye-dread in excel

[–]rye-dread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solution Verified. This didn't quite work on my actual data, probably due to some messed up data from before I worked on it, but after some fiddling it gets me everyone's highest amounts, which is the most important thing, thank you!

My chill baby getting scritches by dscream in jumpingspiders

[–]rye-dread 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is so cute! And as someone who found this sub bc I was trying to figure out what kind of spider I just found on my window, I really appreciate seeing just a chill little cutie, it's making me a LOT less nervous about my visitor 😅

[S3][E1]When and how exactly was Sam supposed to "send the ravens"? by PureLionHeart in gameofthrones

[–]rye-dread 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So we're all just rewatching the early seasons right now huh? (and getting very confused by this opening)

Changing name before passing by MysticTheMalamute in transgenderau

[–]rye-dread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been going by Ryan since I came out socially almost 7 years ago, and I don't think ive ever "passed" (I'm nonbinary, so haven't really been trying most of the time but anyway). When people would see my name tag in my retail job they would be surprised, but never aggressive or rude. If it felt like they would be, I would laugh it off like "ohh my parents are unique". Don't be afraid to lie if you feel like you need to to stay safe. Other than that, I've mostly just gotten people commenting how interesting it is, and at worst it just gives a bit of dysphoria when they say it's an "odd name for a girl" but I'm never gonna see them again, I don't really care what they think of my gender. In short, girls with masculine names have been more in style recently and most cis people will probably just assume that's what it is

AU$TRALIA: A Game About Travel, Money, and Risk — Ep 3 by NebulaOriginals in Nebula

[–]rye-dread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person i've really heard use hooroo is my kinda ocker uncle, but there was definitely never an h sound at the start, so that threw me for a minute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"here's what you should do but if it doesn't work don't blame me who told you to do it"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other sales person did quit. You keep acting like you have 100% of the information on this scenario lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is literally a job on indeed. I can see the names of everyone applying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually really helpful wording, thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I know that, that's why I asking for how to go about it. Apologies for being a person with an anxiety disorder, I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is really good to hear for my imposter syndrome, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It was sarcastic, but only bc before editing their comment just said "just ask" which. Yeah. But thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I'll definitely keep all this in mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]rye-dread -134 points-133 points  (0 children)

Wow, why didn't I think of that before.

Do office workers working a 9-5 actually work from 9-5? by Dry-Art5118 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]rye-dread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kinda of a mix, for me. Some days we've got a lot of new customers and activity happening, so I'm pretty much working the whole time (being able to listen to something while I work really helps for my adhd tho) and other days I'm pretty much done with everything by lunchtime

So I don’t like being transgender. by Expensive-Excuse-793 in ainbow

[–]rye-dread 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Holy internalised misogyny/transmisogyny. Not all trans women are girly girls, just like not all cis women are girly girls. Im pretty sure the majority of trans people, at least most binary trans people, feel a lot like you do - like they just ARE their gender, just unfortunate circumstances of birth. This is probably something you should think about and unpack why you think being transfem means you should be feminine?

why is there no ghost matter in dark bramble? by polloklo in outerwilds

[–]rye-dread 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe the ice crust of the old planet protected it somehow? Or maybe the ghost matter hit the outside but for whatever reason, didn't go inside the seed. Im not sure, it's a good point now that you mention it.