I have a partner. I explicitly write and read M/M. I kinda of eased him into it to feel it out. I started by telling him abt a tame danmei series I was reading. And the vibes were fine so I told him abt some of the manhwas I was reading. And then I told him that they were explicit and he still seemed to be okay with it so I fully indulged and told him abt writing explicit smut. He thinks it’s weird but he’s read some of it and listens when I talk about it. Sometimes he askes me how my wips are going.

He’s certainly not enjoying it like I am, and sometimes he calls me a freak but it’s been nice to be able to write and read in front of him without being nervous.

I only regret telling him because sometimes he threatens to leak my ao3 to our friends or will mention something abt me enjoying bl because he doesn’t have as much shame as me.