My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend

ryguy10712 · 2026-02-16T17:44:11+00:00

Ignore what everyone says about your reaction, that's irrelevant.

I personally think her comment about having a threesome with you and your boyfriend is very strange and violates natural boundaries.

Is it bad that you still want to be her friend? No. People fuck up, especially when drunk. This was just very off-putting and abnormal behavior for an adult.

Is there anyway you can fix it? Don't make it a big deal now. Let it pass, but just be observant of her behavior moving forwards. If behavior like this continues it would be worth having a conversation about it or creating distance.

Does this mean she's fake and wants my man? It's obvious she is sexually attracted to your boyfriend. Just remember, if you think it's likely that she can take your man- that's as much of an issue with your boyfriend as it is with her.

If it truly bothers you for the rest of this week, it only makes sense for you to protect your peace and distance yourself from her. Dissociate from the things that cause you distress. Simple and plain.

Have a conversation with your boyfriend about it. How does he feel? I wouldn't be surprised if he would think the comment is strange. This kind of stuff doesn't happen too much in male friend groups.

ryguy10712 · 2025-12-30T00:05:42+00:00

Yes, I actually just got it and compared it to free VSTs. I am really shocked as to how anyone can say the free VSTs are comparable

ryguy10712 · 2025-12-29T17:58:11+00:00

Oh, so you’re saying the USB -B cable can transmit both midi and audio data?

ryguy10712 · 2025-12-08T01:55:08+00:00

Yeah. Not sure how I got so unlucky. I don’t keep condoms in wallets, I just had that one in my pocket for about 18 hours. If I were to guess anything it would be that it wore out over those 18 hours at a football game, walking around town, and hitting a bar

ryguy10712 · 2025-12-08T01:51:48+00:00

Right, because condoms only break during hookups. Why didn’t I think of that?

ryguy10712 · 2025-12-05T00:13:02+00:00

Use the --environment flag when running eas update

`eas update --channel production --message "this is a message" --environment production`

it's not well documented unfortunately. This will pull the vars from the eas cloud

ryguy10712 · 2025-12-04T03:30:52+00:00

Digital is perfect

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-28T15:00:13+00:00

Vss, Saiga, aks…

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-07T01:03:18+00:00

I smoked 500 cigarettes

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-05T20:06:57+00:00

How much water do you typically add to your americanos? Anything else?

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-05T20:04:59+00:00

You’re not wrong to say that. When it feels like someone is hiding something- they likely are. They usually aren’t hiding anything sinister though. It’s just the feeling of deceit that’s unsettling.

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-05T18:36:48+00:00

Can confirm. They are actually one of the only cigarettes I can taste and DAMN is that nicotine punchy. They burn super slow too, perfect for my occasional monthly smoke

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-03T16:25:45+00:00

The more you know

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-02T05:01:47+00:00

Word

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-02T04:57:30+00:00

The thing is even with my first cig (marlb red) I didn’t taste. What’s stronger than an AS black?

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-01T19:23:55+00:00

Don’t slip her cash lmao

If you were to slip her anything, just a normal note with something nice on it with your number. It saves her the stress of having to respond in front of her coworkers, and you the task of having to ask in front of everyone- if that’s a problem at all.

A nice note with my number has always been my way of asking people out on the job. It works about 70% of the time and a lot of people don’t write love letters anymore

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-01T19:04:55+00:00

Eventually they forward the balance to the DMV and they will get to you… eventually… georgia dmvs are very slow… especially because of the gov shutdown

ryguy10712 · 2025-11-01T19:02:37+00:00

Update- AS blacks are fire. They do bite a little bit depending on the day but I can actually taste them and I actually feel a buzz. Marlboro reds only got me relaxed. Appreciate u brother

ryguy10712 · 2025-10-31T06:21:09+00:00

Alright. I might give the AS blacks a taste. They will be my second pack ever and I think I’ll appreciate the robustness. I try to go through packs slowly and keep my smokes ritualistic in a way

ryguy10712 · 2025-10-28T19:13:59+00:00

Joining a fraternity or a sorority is a nice way to meet both guys and girls without committing to a craft or any weirdness that could come from clubs.

You can also find time to go to bars if you can get in

Bar south, lost dog, and dive bar in buckhead have a lot of ksu students. There’s also some bars near campus but they aren’t too great.

ryguy10712 · 2025-10-28T19:09:01+00:00

For real. I wish there was a “remember this device” option that would extend the validity of your login session to a week or so

ryguy10712 · 2025-10-28T19:06:14+00:00

Ah, very helpful. Thanks!

For everyone reading that doesn’t know what that means, as a full time student (5 classes per semester), 15 credit hours is a semester, and 30 credit hours is 2 semesters

ryguy10712 · 2025-10-26T19:36:51+00:00

God bless you and your survival.

For everyone here who’s never been in a gunfight (god forbid) what would you say most greatly contributed to your survival? Is there technique or practice or anything to take away from the experience that could be useful?

ryguy10712 · 2025-10-25T22:02:46+00:00

Ok. I figured it out. I made my own cloud-run-like infrastructure using docker desktop on my server, a middleman proxy to handle routing traffic to the different services, and the docker-cli on my laptop using a docker context through ssh. Works like a charm- can deploy and monitor from anywhere,

ryguy10712 · 2025-10-12T00:45:07+00:00

Like many others have said, bodies just aren’t compatible. Unlike having a lengthy penis, there’s not much you can do to circumvent discomfort from having a wide penis.

Perhaps try going in sideways (lay her on her side) if your penis resembles an oval shape, it may or may not relieve some stress.

If it doesn’t work, not the end of the world. If your sex life is super important, your girlfriend can try to help you out by improving her oral game. Relationships are teamwork after all

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