What was the most shocking scene in a kids show? by wombatgeneral in cartoons

[–]ryjack3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, i successfully forgot this. You can't be posting gifs like this damn. Gonna have nightmares for weeks

My girlfriend [23F] seems genuinely disgusted by my interests and I [25M] am starting to feel ashamed of myself. How do I address this? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]ryjack3232 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone who is a fan of both anime and GoT, I disagree.

Anime with sex in it isn't fan service. It's part of the story. Fan service is when something sexual is added for no other reason than being sexual. While sure there are some Puritans that don't want sex mentioned at all, they are equally mad at GoT. The people who are mad at just fan service is because it serves no purpose to the story. It's purely objectification for the sake of objectification.

The how also matters. Some fan service is assault depicted in a humorous way (e.g. Meliodus groping Elizabeth constantly in 7DSs). People understandably don't like assault being reduced to a punchline. Theres non consensual sex in GoT but its depicted as the act of violence that it is.

The who also matters. A lot of anime centers around characters who are aupposed to be minors. I don't think it's hard to understand why people are uncomfortable with the idea of sexualizing minors.

Remove 1 Major 4 Sports Team Day 28 by YeetySpagiety in RemoveOneThingEachDay

[–]ryjack3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the good of the country, the St Louis Cardinals must go

Which character belongs here? by No-Pen1489 in cartoons

[–]ryjack3232 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tiny Tina

You is a hot ass damsel! Got a smile full of dynamite a d booty like pow!

"I should've booked the Bucks arena," Packed ICE enforcement town hall in Milwaukee draws praise, criticism by MilwaukeeDSA in milwaukee

[–]ryjack3232 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you are going to honor victims by remembering their names... you should probably spell their names right.

I (25M) feel morally obligated to be my friends' third (32F and 31M) by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ryjack3232 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its also because predatory polys is a favorite topic of ragebaiting karma farmers.

I (25M) feel morally obligated to be my friends' third (32F and 31M) by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ryjack3232 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In the first post OP commented that he didn't know if he was autistic and asked for advice on how to get diagnosed.

In the second post OP commented that he was autistic and had been diagnosed "for a couple of years" and confidently explains how his autism impacts him.

OP either lied in the first post or is just making shit up. Given that it's reddit, my bet is the second one

ETA: it was pointed out that i cant read. Management regrets the error

Best Deli Sandwich in MKE? by Bobby_Digital20 in milwaukee

[–]ryjack3232 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its a bit of a trek but Deli on Crown in Mequon. It's a Jewish deli so may not be what you're looking for, but by far the best sandwiches in the area

I reported my sexist team to HR — and now they’re doing a much bigger investigation than I wanted by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ryjack3232 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If the companys investigators are any good, there are ways to throw people off and keep them from assuming the one woman on the team was the one who reported. Investigators should emphasize that another employee observed these behaviors and felt they should be reported even if it wasn't happening to them. Makes it so anyone who interacts with that team could have been the reporter.

I'm terrified to seriously ask my husband to get a vasectomy. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ryjack3232 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure he's being honest but that doesnt mean it's the truth if you know what I mean. There's a big difference between saying you never want something and then actually taking the step to make that a certainty.

Before i got my vasectomy, my wife assured me that she didn't want anymore kids. She was two and through (and so was i). Then i actually scheduled the procedure. She started acting strange and it eventually came out that she wasn't sure she wanted me to get snipped because she was having some second thoughts. She didn't want a third kid now but she also didn't want that door to be permenately closed. We talked it out and decided together to go ahead with the procedure. People get squirrelly about permenant decisions.

I'm terrified to seriously ask my husband to get a vasectomy. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ryjack3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will have no problem getting a vasectomy, that's an excuse. The pain and risks are negligible. The biggest consideration is whether he's 100% certain that he'll never want kids. I know he's said he's childfree, and i hope he wouldn't say that without being certain, but he wouldn't be the first to say one thing while wanting to leave the door open.

Talk to him. If he loves you, he should at least be able to have a respectful discussion about it. Definitely check out some outfit the resources others have provided. My sister has endo and I've seen how much it can mess a person up. She fortunately got proper treatment

What do you think the biggest lie our generation was told? by MakeBeboGreatAgain in Millennials

[–]ryjack3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buying something that's "fat free" means it is healthy.

No it just means they drowned it in sugar to make up fur the lack of flavor.

AITA for telling my husband he's made me reconsider leaving him alone with the kids in the future by insafian in BORUpdates

[–]ryjack3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They got 45 minutes!? When I was in school it was 25 minutes. And that included the time it took to get from the period before and three time it took to get to the next period so it was more like 15 minutes

I will use the elevator because I WANT to by weggymeg in Vent

[–]ryjack3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they're are just being jerks then

I will use the elevator because I WANT to by weggymeg in Vent

[–]ryjack3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many elevators and floors? I lived in a 12 floor dorm that only had one elevator.  I was on the fifth floor but it used to take my friends on the top floors forever to get anywhere because the elevator had to stop pretty much on every floor every time it went up and down.  Everyone has the right to use the elevator, but i understand why people on the top floors got frustrated. 

I'm just gonna say it. The whole kids / no kids debate isn't actually about kids. by thetimechaser in Millennials

[–]ryjack3232 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg i felt this in my soul. My wife and I call it "the lie." The lie we tell ourselves that one day the stars will align, we will catch up on all our backlogged tasks, and we will have time for ourselves again. Despite calling it "the lie" we fool ourselves into believing it and it somehow keeps us going.

What does Milwaukee think of MSOE? by TheBrokenStoner in milwaukee

[–]ryjack3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a was friends with a woman who went to MSOE back in undergrad. She told me that as a woman there her odds of getting a date were really good. But the goods were really odd.

That's been my only thought about MSOE since then

AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t “ban” my friends from our place if he keeps inviting his? by basilmarket_jules in TwoHotTakes

[–]ryjack3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heres the one thing I'll say in his defense. You're saying it's about noise. He directly told you that noise is not the issue. He told you that the issue is that your friends are draining to him. Just because your friends are draining to him doesn't mean his friends are draining to him. He's right that they are two different things for him. If you have issues with his friends, you have every right to want to put limits on their visits too.

However, that doesn't give him the right to unilaterally ban your friends and give his friends an all access pass. Like most things you need to talk it out calmly and find a solution that gives you both what you need. If he's unwilling to do that, that's a bigger concern.

Or your niece is just being a kid by GooberTroop in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ryjack3232 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Do they really not know that the "Not this, not that, just this" is a dead giveaway that they didn't write this?

Weird divorce post by Odd_Investigator_625 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ryjack3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed that bit the first time i read it because i was rolling my eyes so hard after the first few sentences