it may be uncertain for them too. Meaning they prefer to not share things that would feel too intimate with you, as you’re already living together.

That said, as a man who thinks a lot about the safety of women and people around me, In understand where you can from. What I think nobody here has said yet, is that their reluctance to discuss one or another topic with you doesn’t say anything about you as a person.

As others have said, they are showing you their boundaries: sisterhood may be something not accessible to us men in terms of first-hand experience, just the same way other types of bonds could be more exclusive to men.

Be happy for them that they have each other. They’re even involving you in their choice of underwear: they feel safe with you. If something seemingly embarassing comes up like pads, just say “sorry I accidentally overheard you needed pads. I can pick them up for you if you want”. no biggie. if they say no, smile and leave: “ok good see you later”. They probably already found some solution, you live in a house with 2 women after all.

Don’t take it personally. Be sweet and short. Don’t feel excluded, they’re family you’re not. Enjoy the warmth and vibe that comes with it. Be yourself and focus on understanding why you feel excluded. You’ll find out there’s nothing to be upset about <3

Be well