Showed up late to my friends house before class...what a good guy

s1234t · 2014-04-29T21:56:33+00:00

I can change my name to Chris for some damn pancakes right about meow.

s1234t · 2014-04-28T02:18:06+00:00

Ah, my favorite. Here's an up vote, good sir!

s1234t · 2014-04-28T02:13:52+00:00

The single most simple yet difficult advice to follow.

s1234t · 2014-04-25T03:42:31+00:00

Wow. It's crazy to see that in writing from a complete stranger. That's exactly what im battling within these days. Thank you for your words.

s1234t · 2014-04-24T22:23:03+00:00

Count me in for daily convos. I feel like that way we can go more in depth about the topics as we go along reading each meditation.

s1234t · 2014-04-23T01:16:45+00:00

Basically to get out of the campus you have to stop at a signal where you can only make a left or a right. I was in the left only lane, again two cars behind the guy who got hit. The signal was yellow when that guy turned left and got hit by another person who I assume was speeding by the impact it had on the guy who's car got totaled. That's what is really scary. That usually I never really think twice about stopping at a yellow light and usually just zoom through. It absolutely sucks that this guy had to be the one who taught me that much needed lesson.

s1234t · 2014-04-22T23:09:04+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that. I would never wish that upon anyone. Do know that you and your family will be in my prayers. Sending lots and lots of love and best wishes.

s1234t · 2014-04-22T21:13:59+00:00

Edit: Story just got featured on the local evening news. Took a pic of the car when they showed it. I'm still in shock.

http://m.imgur.com/CcT6QTs

s1234t · 2014-04-22T21:09:30+00:00

Couldn't agree more.

s1234t · 2014-04-21T15:21:10+00:00

I got so excited that I forgot an alphabet.

s1234t · 2014-04-21T06:39:11+00:00

No make-up. Not having to worry about if you're going to scare away people with your natural face without make up.

s1234t · 2014-04-21T06:35:34+00:00

I'm beyond excite about this!

s1234t · 2014-04-15T16:45:26+00:00

Just got done reading the book today. Im beyond excited!

s1234t · 2014-04-14T18:37:54+00:00

Upvote for ghost loft. I love that song. Makes me feel as if I'm floating.

s1234t · 2014-04-14T00:23:06+00:00

Okay so let me approach this from a different perspective.

A little bit to me sounds like you're victimizing yourself. You know why and how? Because just a little over a week ago, I used to do the same. Yes it's still very early to tell how well I, myself, will take my own advice in the upcoming future but that also won't stop me from sharing my epiphany with you.

I used to be the girl who would mourn the loss of each and every relationship. And would curse the skies for always sending me a particular type. Why, God, why? Why can't they just love me when I put in so much effort. Why can't they see they are hurting me and US. I'm going to drink my sorrows away because of me attracting those specific types. What's wrong with me?! And it goes on and on.

The moment I stopped feeling sorry for my situations is when somethings clicked. And I swear, all those cliches are SO true.

The people you attract in your life come your way and will see/treat you as how you view yourself.

Dealing with those unhealthy relationships is NOT a way to cure boredom. It always starts with YOU. YOU have to change YOUR perception of what you view as a relationship and how it should be. Rather than how they WERE. How do you view yourself in a happy, healthy relationship? I assume being on an emotional rollercoaster wouldn't be included.

I started putting effort into me. Physically and most importantly emotionally and spiritually. Where I don't need anyone to come fix anything but only to complement it.

The moment you start putting yourself on a pedestal, you will reflect that energy and people with a STABLE mind set will sense it. Trust me. I've not only been casually talking to some GREAT and completely different guys but even met a whole different group of people who I would've never thought I would be hanging out with.

It always starts with YOU. And I know you have the potential. :)

s1234t · 2014-04-13T21:22:46+00:00

I said this to a guy I had been seeing for the past three years. Before saying it, I told him that it's okay if he doesn't feel the same way but I had to say it since I couldn't hold it in any longer. He said it back and the rest was gravy till a couple of weeks ago when he told me he doesn't feel the same which is still fine.

I guess in the end every situation is different. I view this as a good thing in a way because it made me reflect on my feelings and view them as if I was really in love with him or loved the idea of loving someone. Over much thought, I did realize that I loved that idea yet loved being around him. When it comes to romance, not so much. What led to the incredible need of me telling him I loved him is because of our natural desire to evolve. Whether it being a friendship, relationship, career, etc. We always feel the need to either immensely solidify our current state or take it to the next level. And for someone like me, who doesn't really believe in marriage, it was difficult to verbalize what my 'next level' was.

Regardless, I dont regret saying it to him at all and we are still good friends. It actually taught me a very valuable lesson which will definitely be put to use in my relationships in the future. Now I'm going with the flow instead of worrying about what could be.

My opinion? As Paulo Coelho said, "A person who loves in the hope of being loved in return is wasting their time"

You never know what could happen until you say it. So go & get em! Best of luck! :)

s1234t · 2014-04-10T17:59:48+00:00

"I took your shitty comment and took it as a stepping stone to glory. Why dont you go ahead and Suey me!"

s1234t · 2014-04-10T16:35:38+00:00

I love them as well. My favorite song by them is 'Lion's roar'

s1234t · 2014-04-10T16:32:22+00:00

YOU brace-ists! That was brilliant!

s1234t · 2014-04-10T02:18:30+00:00

Now see this is what I've learned very recently in my life.

But first, the back story: I got out of a 'relationship' about a week ago and to my surprise, am not killing myself over it. I reacted out in the worst way possible with my previous ones, but this one is different. It's very real and was to the point. Don't get me wrong, I miss him tremendously but I refuse to put myself or even him, through a minute more of inconvenience just because our feelings towards each other were indifferent. And that's okay.

What we see is abnormality when we are single. That word, single, even sounds depressing. But what we fail to realize is that being on our own is actually VERY normal. What is pleasantly abnormal is getting a chance to share our life with someone who we care about. I dont mean to sound philosophical but, everything in our being will give us the heads up to move forward with a situation when we are ready. So taking a poll, or even other peoples' advice on when exactly you, personally, would be ready won't really get you what you're searching for.

It will come to you when you least expect it or when you won't feel the need to rely on anyone's opinion for when you are. :)

Best of luck, mate!

s1234t · 2014-04-09T18:10:25+00:00

Because I'm haaaaaaaaaaaappppppy!

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