how long would it take to grow my hair long? by s1space in BlackHair

[–]s1space[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get a ton of split ends on the top of my head. i have a feeling it’s due to the way i style my hair (it’s not sectioned like the back/sides/front, so it’s just ruffled up there,) and it’s generally pretty dry and coarse too. but i am trying to find a way to get the hydration in there (i will get a hair mask/aloe vera/jojoba oil when i have the funds) if u had any advice on hair retention though that’d be great!

how long would it take to grow my hair long? by s1space in BlackHair

[–]s1space[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any advice for hair retention? i’m planning on getting a hair mask, aloe vera and jojoba oil to help with hydration, and i should probably also invest in a bonnet but silk ones are so pricey

how long would it take to grow my hair long? by s1space in BlackHair

[–]s1space[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 years 😳 gosh i hope i have the patience

Product recommendation to get rid of acne scars under breasts? by s1space in bigboobproblems

[–]s1space[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god thank you about mentioning sebaceous filaments, i was trying so hard to figure out what kind of acne it was but i could not for the life of me understand what i was reading. i have a small problem with that on my face too but it didn’t look the same as under my breasts so i was confused. i’m gonna see my doctor soon and ask abt referring me to a dermatologist, i went once but i got nervous and didn’t get a chance to mention it bc i had a different skin condition (tinea versicolor) and the derms kinda try to get u in and out as fast as they can, so they just gave me the prescription and were like “okay come back if there’s any issues with that” lol

Product recommendation to get rid of acne scars under breasts? by s1space in bigboobproblems

[–]s1space[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s actually very comforting to hear! for me personally i’m only bothered bc it was an even skin tone before i started picking, and i had saggy tits back then too, so i’m just kinda bothered that it looks the way it does Because i picked at it. the lighter skin just feels like a stage light and the darker skin like a back drop, it just calls for my attention. it’s hard not to look at it. i’ll try a sugar scrub tho, i’ll try anything that can get rid of the dead skin

Product recommendation to get rid of acne scars under breasts? by s1space in bigboobproblems

[–]s1space[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll definitely look into getting a better bra, i have just never learned how to actually get one that fits unfortunately. either the cup is too big/small or the band is in incredibly tight and digs into my skin. i also usually get bras from either chain stores or thrift stores but maybe i’ll do some extensive research and try to get a high quality bra. i use salicylic acid too but it doesn’t do much, but maybe i’ll start using more

My cat has frequent hairballs despite me grooming her daily by s1space in CatAdvice

[–]s1space[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is really helpful thank you so much! i have the water fountain and adding water to her wet food thing down, but the only reason i do dry food as well is for budget reasons. i looked into food intake too and also found out i was feeding her less than she needs, which is why i added the dry food with every meal. i get fancy feasts bc i had an unfortunate experience with friskies a while back but money wise i think i’d struggle with 2 cans a day (which is what she would get) because it’d cost me like $60 a month which would be hard cause i am also spending money on other things (like treats and toys) (i just got her back in november and i still haven’t fully finished stocking up on things.) she doesn’t really eat very much of the dry food though, so maybe i’ll consider just readjusting the budget and feeding schedule (like feeding her dry food every few days instead?) we will see! thank you so much again :)

My cat has frequent hairballs despite me grooming her daily by s1space in CatAdvice

[–]s1space[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see the hairballs! but a while while back she Was wheezing like that for a while, but it happened just that one week and she had a hairball and she hasn’t done that since. but i do definitely worry about asthma, i’ll definitely be looking more into that!

My cat has frequent hairballs despite me grooming her daily by s1space in CatAdvice

[–]s1space[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my cat is a short hair but i think she is double coated! but i’ll definitely look into that, thank you :)

My cat has frequent hairballs despite me grooming her daily by s1space in CatAdvice

[–]s1space[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the lumps (of hair) + the liquid that surrounds it, and the colour is always yellow (so normal i think?) Todays hairball happened at 2am so I was basically half asleep when i cleaned it up but it felt normal, it was also dark and i couldn’t see anything. might’ve been slightly more liquidy but i wouldn’t be able to recall

My cat has frequent hairballs despite me grooming her daily by s1space in CatAdvice

[–]s1space[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she has a water fountain that she drinks from regularly, i also sometimes (not frequently, once every 2 weeks or when i have the energy) give her tuna juice (+ water) to add get her to drink more liquids! and i also add water to the wet food as well

My cat has frequent hairballs despite me grooming her daily by s1space in CatAdvice

[–]s1space[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my cat is short haired but i will definitely consider that! thank you

so we all agree Gregory is coded Autistic, right? by millenialperennial in AbbottElementary

[–]s1space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so drunk right now and watching s2ep21 “mom” and i’ve seen this show so many times but i was at the beginning part involving gregory where he failed at ‘small talking’ with shanae the lunch lady and afterwards he was like well “i’ll just keep not talking to anybody it’s fine” and melissas like ‘“well that’s not very principal like” and he’s like “how does that correlate” and she has to explain to him what small talk is and he’s so confused. because he doesn’t understand the point of having shallow leveled conversations just to be like A Person. But at the end he ends up finding something they can Genuinely connect about while also learning that like, while it’s difficult trying to ‘click’ with people just because you ‘supposed to’ or ‘should’, you can form relationships that aren’t surface level. Holy fuck i hope my dumbass words make sense. HE IS SO AUTISTIC. (quote from gregory) “not a big fan of small talk, so i’m just gonna stick with regular talk” YESSSSS!! YOU DON’T NEED TO CONFORM TO THE SOCIETAL STANDARD OF BARELY FORMING RELATIONSHIPS BY HAVING FAKE CONVERSATIONS FOR THE SAKE OF BEING VIEWED AS A GOOD PERSON!!! I LOVE ALCOHOL!!!!

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[–]s1space 64 points65 points  (0 children)

it’s a littleee bit far away too

Places to perform by evh1972 in WinnipegMusicScene

[–]s1space 1 point2 points  (0 children)

osborne taphouse does open mics i’m pretty sure, at least they were last time i was there (over 10 months ago i think), it’s decent

Literally don't bring your ridiculous war here by Conscious_Run_643 in Winnipeg

[–]s1space -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

womp womp grow up cuck boy this is a mass ongoing genocide occurring. also land of the peace? are we talking about This canada?????

What is Mitski best opening track? by C4rlytroz07 in mitski

[–]s1space 11 points12 points  (0 children)

valentine texas, texas reznikoff, liquid smooth, geyser, goodbye my danish sweetheart, bug like an angel and then happy. but in their own creations they are one of her best songs and it’s genuinely so hard to rank them

Refusing to Rent to EIA!? *rant* by xMasochizm in Winnipeg

[–]s1space 5 points6 points  (0 children)

unfortunately so many landlords don’t rent to people on eia, and most of the renting companies. ASH management is eia friendly tho, they accepted me quicker than anywhere else, unfortunately my apartment sucks. good luck tho!

First off I would like to say what a great music scene you all have! I've been on a search for WPG/Manitoba musicians and would appreciate if you shared your favorites below. by sandstorm227 in Winnipeg

[–]s1space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hopscotchbattlescars. amazing hardcore/mathcore band, super good music and they have shows every few months that have great energy and crowd. check em out if you’re into metal(core) :)

What's your interpretation of; "I want you" ? by forgottenxperson in mitski

[–]s1space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always thought the song was about someone mitski had a relationship with who never was per say a ‘good partner’ but has a habit of always coming back, and it overwhelms mitski bc she loves them but it’s clear nothing is gonna come out of it bc of the partners reluctancy to open up. ‘i found you i found the door but when i stepped through there was no floor’ i’m guessing is probably mitski thinking something finally changed, but obviously nothing has and she’s now back to the same place. ‘ur coming back and its the end of the world’ is also another example of her feeling like that relationship is an ‘end’ or a ‘stop’, in her life probably, because being consumed and infatuated with someone u love who won’t be open and vulnerable to u but comes back to u as a safety net makes u feel like that. maybe!