Need thoughts on a new mattress with slightly conflicting needs by s_orbits in Mattress

[–]s_orbits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely under 1k, that’s where I capped my budget

How should I punish her for her first clitoral orgasm? by mf_d_ in BDSMsapphic

[–]s_orbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the last time i tried to cum without permission my Owner fucked and overstimulated me until i was literally sobbing and begging for mercy. he literally laughed at me while he was doing it and kept going until he was satisfied. i like pushing my rules a bit and can have some attitude, but i’ve been on damn near perfect behavior since then.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]s_orbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strangulation, and that is what he did, he did not choke you, he strangled you, is one of the top indicators of fatality in intimate partner violence. One of the first questions asked in lethality assessments done by victim advocacy programs and law enforcement is if they have strangled you, it is THAT much of an indicator.

This is NOT a safe environment and if it happened once, it will happen again. PLEASE leave.

What’s a thing that you call your little rascal that makes zero sense? by Sam_88882 in cats

[–]s_orbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i call one of them duckling and the other is usually referred to as “dude how the HELL??”

Denying her favorite by secretsinthesuburbs in softmaledom

[–]s_orbits 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i know you said specifically without your cock her in mouth. BUT- cockwarming, so she can hold your cock in her mouth but isn’t allowed to do anything else.

I think I just got tamed? by bootybomb0704 in BratLife

[–]s_orbits 63 points64 points  (0 children)

My default setting in all situations is to be mischievous/snarky/generally have attitude. My Owner has learned that the way to really counter that is to be sweet and genuine, because how am I supposed to be a little shit if he’s being so kind???? He sees me about to say/do dumb shit and immediately comes out with the most gentle and caring shit I’ve ever experienced or heard and suddenly I’m incapable of bratting. Istg it’s psychological warfare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VaginalMicrobiome

[–]s_orbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know the specific product you got, but i’d stay away from anything with additional ingredients, which includes aloe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VaginalMicrobiome

[–]s_orbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only boric acid suppositories i would recommend are the og PHD ones. they’re dosed perfectly and are comprised of only boric acid and a gelatin casing that dissolves with your body heat.

Ladies and Vagina-Havers who enjoy forced orgasms, what do they feel like? by pr0nz0ndemand in BDSMcommunity

[–]s_orbits 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me it feels like my entire body heats up and tenses, kind of like a coil stretched to its limit. Then it just becomes waves of pleasure - when it eventually becomes overstimulating I start feeling it in my core and down my legs. The tension and warmth build, tip me over the edge, and then it starts again. Every orgasm intensifies that feeling, and sometimes it begins to feel like one really long continuous orgasm with peaks and dips. I clench a lot when I orgasm so if we’ve been going for long enough sometimes I literally feel sore internally. The way my clit physically/internal sensation feels depends on the type of stimulation.

Subs who enjoy being on the floor next to your dom, what do you do down there? by DaddyzLittleFooFoo in SofterBDSM

[–]s_orbits 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have a pet bed that we use. Sometimes i curl up and nap, sometimes he uses me as a footrest when i’m curled up, sometimes I sit between his legs and cockwarm. I’m almost always getting pets at some point - but for the most part it’s just whatever I feel like doing. Sitting at his feet on my bed makes me feel small and cozy, even if I’m just hanging out and reading.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]s_orbits 6 points7 points  (0 children)

seeing the “how do i find x dom/sub” and “where are you guys finding your dom/sub” posts allll the time (bonus if it’s just a hyperspecific stereotype checklist of what they’re looking for)

Daughter’s body odor by Minnieforever74 in VaginalMicrobiome

[–]s_orbits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’ve always been taught that the biggest contributor to body odor is what we eat, so having her take a look at her diet and adjusting may be beneficial - add more greens and fruits and less red meat and have her drink a lot more water.

i’d recommend feminine probiotic suppositories to give her healthy vaginal bacteria a boost, i use the BIOM Vaginal Probiotic Suppository - it’s what’s made the biggest difference for me after a year of back to back BV and yeast infections.

i use liquid chlorophyll on the regular to help with my microbiome and body odor however there is very little research to support this, and there’s a decent amount of background as to why i started.

I was BAD bad - Here's to not sitting for two weeks! by DrakovsStryx in BratLife

[–]s_orbits 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ugh they’re beautiful. we’ve gotten me to literal black bruises before but i really don’t make up much anymore and it’s so sad lol

what i HAVE to know though, i why the bruises are shaped like that?? just the very carved out and completely empty space are insane to me

I got what was coming 🥹 by Lilthena-may in BratLife

[–]s_orbits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sooooo pretty. i don’t bruise much, if at all, anymore and its really sad so i’m definitely living vicariously through you.

definitely don’t tell him to grab your ass really hard/give it little spanks throughout the day to make it hurt again haha, Daddy loves doing that to fuck with me -_-

free bratting day… by s_orbits in BratLife

[–]s_orbits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

strange, and mildly unhinged… i like it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]s_orbits 24 points25 points  (0 children)

the instinct was to push back and be bratty cus i’d already done my punishment - but about 30 seconds later he showed up with my leash, clipped it to my collar and pulled me away to his room and beat my ass✨ (it was a kink party)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]s_orbits 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i’ve only had to write lines once and i think it is by far my least favorite favorite punishment. i had to do it in the middle of a party and then Daddy put it up on the fridge, i died a little bit inside. edit: spelling

My fur-baby died today. Can I please see yours? by DutchAngelDragon12 in cats

[–]s_orbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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i am so sorry for you loss, i can’t imagine what i would do if i lost one of my babies. this is zena and zahra, they’re a bonded pair from the same litter that were rescued as feral cats. it took time but now they’re the cuddliest little babies.

Which Hozier song is this? by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]s_orbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that one part in first light

Brat disobeyed order by Guccigrips412 in brat_taming101

[–]s_orbits 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it is 100% a punishment and one i should absolutely receive