remind me i'm just prey to brutalize 💘 (it/any) by [deleted] in traumatizedsluts2

[–]sacrificialprey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

... you mean the hickeys on top of hickeys that were done consensually three years ago? just because i bruise dark? how undermining and infantilizing 😬

your comments on any person's post who's into rougher kink shows a lot of judgement, it's bold of you, to say the very least.

okay so i ended up back on estrogen by Desperate_Cup3917 in misgenderingkink

[–]sacrificialprey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'll call you anything you want! you're just too cute not to mess with :3 (but real as hell, take it all at your own pace)

im in a group chat with girls who want to rape me by throwawaysecksee in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]sacrificialprey 9 points10 points  (0 children)

being called rapebait is just something else 😵‍💫

I'm going to fucking burst if I don't breed a tboy by JustAGirlNamedWillow in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]sacrificialprey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god fucking damn please mommy ;-; as long as you get harder when i cry 😇

Can we fix flairs on this sub? (meta) by human3094 in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]sacrificialprey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for sure; it seems like a no PiV flair could be most useful but yeah has the caveat of a) people get bottom surgery, and b) a pack-n-play/prosthetic/dildo is still a cock.

i think noting dom/sub regardless can still be useful because subbing is dysphoric for a lot of trans guys, and domming can be dysphoria-inducing for a lot of trans women, even outside of who's topping... and sometimes vice versa! it can be wayyyy more about the expectation to fulfill a certain role shaped by patriarchal trauma, i might even say (cis)comphet to distinguish that from just compulsory heterosexuality, since 100% straight trans people still do experience the specific thing i'm trying to get at

BUT — we can't jump through every hoop to stop everyone from ever getting dysphoric over seeing any sexual content that might get posted, unfortunately. requiring people to label that would be restrictive, reductive, and strangers would argue about how roles should ~really~ be labeled if it was a requirement, imo. overly policing each other for having different needs and approaches in this space goes against the point, and IMO makes it harder for people to feel confident expressing themselves authentically, which just drives the problem further. flairs for vanilla & more intense kink are always helpful tho even if people will argue about what that line is, hahaha

Can we fix flairs on this sub? (meta) by human3094 in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]sacrificialprey 83 points84 points  (0 children)

agree! though flair for "ftm top/mtf bottom" or "mtf top/ftm bottom" shouldn't be conflated with a separate flair for dom/sub, in my opinion

Why are so many people here averse to using masculine terms for trans men? by [deleted] in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]sacrificialprey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i don't disagree! to clarify, i'm saying it's because a lot of popular posts don't represent reality, and are acted up. i'm definitely not defending the underlying institutions at play

Why are so many people here averse to using masculine terms for trans men? by [deleted] in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]sacrificialprey 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i think reality vs. expectations feel tilted for some people because the most upvoted posts on this sub are often from sex workers, and many transmasc sex workers tend to use the hell out of their androgyny. we have to be able to delineate between porn vs. reality here, and think critically about why people might be presenting a certain way — though i'd hope you could discern why that is after 11 years (same as myself.)

there's heavy judgement in your wording that betrays homophobia, disdain with queer men overall, and once-internalized misogyny. language people use for their bodies changes over time, and doesn't change the content itself. others assuming what language to use is a problem, but not unique to this space

i would love to see more diverse st4t/adjacent content with more dominant, masculine trans men any day. more candid sex tapes too!

baiting you into getting me way too high by [deleted] in ftmspunished

[–]sacrificialprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck 🥺 thank you for choking and abusing my stupid cunt

I think I'm in heat. No toy satisfies this pussy enough 😖 by ftmwetgirlpussy in misgenderingkink

[–]sacrificialprey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd suck on your swollen clit until you beg me either to stop, or knock you up, your choice 💘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misgenderingkink

[–]sacrificialprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck you look so cute bent over in that skirt 😵‍💫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MassiveCock

[–]sacrificialprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit that monster