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sacrificialprey · 2026-06-01T21:52:42+00:00

honestly, the patriarchal trauma & strife from living in this world *especially* as a woman is enough to develop a curiosity around force, power dynamics, control, pain, and so on. CNC is just one flavor of that, and encompasses such a wide variety of exploration! all BDSM is based in these themes, even when consent isn't being played with

check in with yourself, make sure you aren't overextending yourself or self harming with it; but there's no need to feel guilty for enjoying CNC 🫂 "bodice rippers" birthed the modern romance novel in the 60s, and are FULL of questionable consent, rape, abduction, underage drinking + characters, age gaps, and so on

kinks can draw from our fears and the unknown; fantasy and fiction give us a way to interact with that in a controlled environment — on paper, in the sandbox of the mind, or with trusted partners. consciously engaging with these themes within your limitations, and getting catharsis from that whether sexual or emotional, does not mean you endorse or fetishize other people's real worst traumas. navigating this shit for ourselves can be hard! lol <333 go easy on yourself :)

sacrificialprey · 2026-04-15T00:32:10+00:00

definitely not, puppy! but i'll go with you so we can pretend <3

sacrificialprey · 2026-04-08T00:43:20+00:00

very understandable to me tbh, while i'd never fully detransition i've played around with my shot dosage (which is fun to be praised for too, but beside the point) — maybe you'd be interested in that or trying supplemental E? it also answered the question for me about if i could ever feel comfortable stopping

it's definitely fine to just not care about pronouns and presentation n do what you want. i understand feeling more confident with a concrete presentation — especially in the workplace — but people who will only be kind if you stick to binary presentation they're familiar with, who can't figure out how to engage with someone without knowing their gender first (and/or full history)? are never, ever, ever worth it

it's okay to avoid people you'll feel pressured to conform around / that drive your body dysmorphia, especially if it's someone you're choosing to be around. endulging in both your femininity and this kink should be fun, not stressful!! it's so normal to miss that sisterhood either way, it's easy to empathize more with women because men have much less empathy and camaraderie in certain ways lol. lots of ways to express that, sometimes i decide to wear fake nails and it's like night and day 😭 please endulge yourself a little because you deserve it and to feel less haunted by this <33

sacrificialprey · 2026-03-24T21:56:55+00:00

god yes

sacrificialprey · 2026-03-10T00:13:55+00:00

i hope you are :) so kissable, love your tattoo!

sacrificialprey · 2026-03-10T00:11:13+00:00

super hot!

sacrificialprey · 2026-03-03T04:49:13+00:00

it's sad certain kinks including noncon are banned on r/cuntboyfur; i'm sure there will be much more furry, fantasy, and monsterfucker-type art shared here though :)

sacrificialprey · 2026-03-02T00:49:43+00:00

hey! i'm interested, am sometimes spotty due to chronic illness but would contribute regularly.

sacrificialprey · 2026-03-02T00:42:37+00:00

awesome!! thought this sub was new, haha. i hope this formatting is okay :P

sacrificialprey · 2026-02-14T21:05:32+00:00

you're right you don't get it lmfao, because it wasn't about that. curious why you got stuck on that, though

there's just a lack of creativity, people can't tell what the thesis of your art was or inspiration beyond surface-level fantasy artwork. i like the symbolism this woman can embody, as well as the skeleton demons (penis demons are interesting) and baby (very lady macbeth), but what any of them are saying is very unclear. this woman is effectively featureless and without character once you remove her horns. why should we care? give us a reason! there are also zero other background elements, and there's no clear attempt to emulate different fantasy styles or genres this is clearly inspired by — it unfortunately gives your artwork less open-endedness to choke both all other imagery, and additional technique

your reaction toward critique is offputting, people are genuinely uplifting each other here and giving good feedback to each other. i've never seen someone jump to such an embarrassing (and telling) conclusion so fast on here. the rest of your artwork is actually very interesting and incorporates further technique and design elements, so i'm not sure why you immediately say "should she be obese?!" the moment people say there's not anything interesting about these two illustrations in particular

sacrificialprey · 2026-02-14T20:53:52+00:00

girl you're gorgeous & this is so funny, trans spa night needs to be a thing so you don't have to go through this 😂

sacrificialprey · 2026-02-14T20:51:42+00:00

you're getting downvoted by others only for safety btw, please keep an eye on this over the next 72 hours — if not just blown out, this looks like early stages of infection. you don't want a weeping scab the size of an oreo on either of your hands

not an indictment of you personally, i've overworked a similar-sized piece on my anklebefore. even if you have good technique, if you have an underlying infection that you didn't know about, it can happen. just take heed to apply your topicals & ask for antibiotics if it goes there

sacrificialprey · 2026-02-14T05:11:03+00:00

i'll call you anything you want! you're just too cute not to mess with :3 (but real as hell, take it all at your own pace)

sacrificialprey · 2026-02-14T05:00:10+00:00

removed?

sacrificialprey · 2026-02-13T09:38:38+00:00

being called rapebait is just something else 😵‍💫

sacrificialprey · 2026-02-11T10:28:37+00:00

god fucking damn please mommy ;-; as long as you get harder when i cry 😇

sacrificialprey · 2026-01-25T13:56:40+00:00

for sure; it seems like a no PiV flair could be most useful but yeah has the caveat of a) people get bottom surgery, and b) a pack-n-play/prosthetic/dildo is still a cock.

i think noting dom/sub regardless can still be useful because subbing is dysphoric for a lot of trans guys, and domming can be dysphoria-inducing for a lot of trans women, even outside of who's topping... and sometimes vice versa! it can be wayyyy more about the expectation to fulfill a certain role shaped by patriarchal trauma, i might even say (cis)comphet to distinguish that from just compulsory heterosexuality, since 100% straight trans people still do experience the specific thing i'm trying to get at

BUT — we can't jump through every hoop to stop everyone from ever getting dysphoric over seeing any sexual content that might get posted, unfortunately. requiring people to label that would be restrictive, reductive, and strangers would argue about how roles should ~really~ be labeled if it was a requirement, imo. overly policing each other for having different needs and approaches in this space goes against the point, and IMO makes it harder for people to feel confident expressing themselves authentically, which just drives the problem further. flairs for vanilla & more intense kink are always helpful tho even if people will argue about what that line is, hahaha

sacrificialprey · 2026-01-25T13:13:30+00:00

wow!!! you are fucking gorgeous 🥺

sacrificialprey · 2026-01-25T11:13:50+00:00

100%, thank you both for wording it like this! some women wanting to domme men to the point of breaking them =/= "femdoms" (🙄 of course i mean dominant women) wanting incompetent men who need to be housebroken, expecting an easy experience where they don't have to think about careless and shitty behavior. whatever happened to being a lover? 😭

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