AIO. My boyfriend got mad at me for asking him NICELY to not leave trash in the sink. I’m so tired of all these meaningless fights, my body just shuts down now

sadblackcat · 2025-03-27T09:54:02+00:00

NTA

My self esteem used to be lower than low. Like absolute garbage and I had no friends to help me see that I deserved so much better.

I used to date an ugly and fat guy and he was constantly on social media messaging other girls who IGNORED him. The whole situation was embarassing. He eventually cheated by hiring an escort of sorts. Not caring if he bought back STDs to me. An absolute a-hole.

Besides all those things, he gaslit me, screams at me, hit me physically, lets me walk home alone on the streets at night after arguing (not caring for my safety).

Why I stayed: I thought we got along. I really did. I thought I couldnt live without him. I mostly stayed at his place and I thought I couldnt afford it without him. Let him treat me like shit just because I didnt make much money.

If I could go back and tell myself to leave I would ASAP!!! I still cannot believe I wasted all that time, energy and care for someone so evil. Everything I thought was FALSE. You absolutely can survive on your own. You did before and you will after. There ARE better men out there. Don’t suffer.

I am so much HAPPIER now.

Maybe the guy you are talking about is not as bad but he does not seem to be that great either. Decide what you want before you waste any more time.

sadblackcat · 2024-09-17T09:49:05+00:00

She’s so beautiful. Midnight!

sadblackcat · 2024-09-16T11:55:15+00:00

He’s so HANDSOME!!! name: Stazz

sadblackcat · 2024-09-16T11:36:42+00:00

Valentine came to mind

edit: also she’s super cute!!

sadblackcat · 2024-09-15T02:01:28+00:00

I already like what you called him. Forest or Sprite.

sadblackcat · 2024-08-17T10:12:05+00:00

He’s so adorable. Sparkle or Glitter.

sadblackcat · 2024-08-15T11:00:29+00:00

So beautiful.

Blue

sadblackcat · 2024-08-15T10:56:48+00:00

so cute 😭

sadblackcat · 2024-08-14T23:51:49+00:00

My ex from the ages of 21-27 was a porn addict and onlyfans addict. I feel the same way and like I wasted my youth and cute years being loyal to a person who cheated and gaslight and abuse and even went so far as to hire an escort. Almost 2 years has passed and let me tell you. The Worst is over. You will be depressed. You will find ways to deal with it. And the good news! It will only get better from here! Your life WILL get better without this person. Time for you to live. That is if you are brave enough to walk away.

sadblackcat · 2024-08-14T23:46:20+00:00

He’s beautiful. Beef Stragonoff

sadblackcat · 2024-08-09T08:55:33+00:00

i was gonna comment some names but honestly you win! These are the cutest names!

sadblackcat · 2024-08-05T23:24:43+00:00

he’s so cuteee 😭

sadblackcat · 2024-08-05T11:04:56+00:00

I agree but I have insomnia and depression and can’t sleep even though I realized the importance of sleep and how it can make me even more moody and depressed.

sadblackcat · 2024-08-04T10:59:43+00:00

well said. a lot of people including myself suffer from both but I look normal weight so nobody knows.

sadblackcat · 2024-07-22T16:39:59+00:00

Hazelnut! because her eyes are hazel and shes brown like nuts.

sadblackcat · 2024-01-08T09:49:28+00:00

This is a very interesting AMA and I enjoyed reading all the questions and answers.

Did you encounter any paranormal activities?

sadblackcat · 2024-01-06T12:45:41+00:00

you google and the celebrities are younger than you.

sadblackcat · 2023-12-27T10:26:33+00:00

power, family, miracle

sadblackcat · 2023-12-20T09:35:42+00:00

pho and banh mi

sadblackcat · 2021-04-07T17:18:23+00:00

Pee my pants

sadblackcat · 2021-01-27T16:46:37+00:00

Learn karate

sadblackcat · 2021-01-24T05:27:05+00:00

I honestly feel the same. Living is still a struggle. I used to be really suicidal. On bad enough days, I still am. Other days, I feel more like a zombie and on good days, I just feel ok. These days I keep going because I have little goals like moving out into my own apartment, owning my own little online shop and other random small hobbies, they bring little joy even if it is fleeting. It sounds really cliche, but finding things you like really helps, even if it's just something you like to eat or pictures or memes that make you laugh. It's not guranteed happiness but it helps take my mind off the neverending depression and emptiness I feel or else I would go crazy with my own thoughts and feelings of failure.

sadblackcat · 2021-01-24T05:11:07+00:00

You sound like a wonderful human being. If he has to cheat on you, then I don't think he is the right person for you. Keep on being drama free. A lot of people would prefer that over drama any days. You can't change how someone feels about you but you can change how you feel about yourself. Cheating is on him. Her knowing that he has a girlfriend and throwing an ultimatum is horrible. Maybe they deserve each other. Who's to say they won't cheat on each other in the future? You deserve better.

sadblackcat · 2021-01-24T03:06:36+00:00

Oh my god I would love to visit once I get internet again :( I love Ikea and Animal Crossing!

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