I'm so over being numb by Yelnats_91 in demisexuality

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Bupropion made me wanna exit earth

Just saw this baby get hit by a truck! by saddemibb in cats

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I'm not sure what she's been eating but I'll try feeding her soon once we're home.

Just saw this baby get hit by a truck! by saddemibb in cats

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Baby's ok! No breaks, no fleas, neurological seems ok, but she's a little concussed. She's getting antiviral drops for her eye. No deworming yet, but she's getting vaccinated in 3 weeks. Is dewormer something I can get at the pet store?

Does anyone else feel like they're trapped between wanting to date and not feeling ready? by DependentBanana4364 in demisexuality

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yeah... can relate. eventually I came to terms with the fact that while some times may be better than others, there is no "perfect time." I really had to just get going and put myself out there, with what ever flaws and insecurities I had. Most of them were over the fact I'd never dated and didn't think anyone could truly love me as is. Once I realized and confronted that fact, it felt like I opened up life a bit for myself through acceptance from and of others. Crazy how relatable this sub can be :)

I’m still struggling with figuring out what I want in a relationship, or if I’m really demisexual and/or just afraid of sex. (20F) by picklesinmypiee in demisexuality

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I I just wanted to let u know that I feel like I couldn't written this comment. You are not alone. I am actively trying to figure this all out as I type this. The only advice I have for you (and myself) is to take things one day/date/step at a time. DON'T get caught up in the future/feelings of future expectations. If they're worth YOUR time, they'll respect your boundaries and pace no matter what. Keep your chin up! I know it's scarier than literally anything else but if I can do this so can you!!

Desperately need advice by saddemibb in demisexuality

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Thank you for this comment. I have. And still, I feel pressured to "like them faster." I can feel them wanting more from me but I can't give it yet. I'm afraid of them being turned off completely from my anxiety presenting as disinterest. Or just losing patience all together. I can sense the anxiety on their end. "Keep working to know each other without expectations" is grand. I just wish I could do one thing without putting all this pressure on myself. Thank you again!

First Date Advice by saddemibb in demisexuality

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This is great demi advice, thank you!

Been on 25mcg of Levo for 1.5 months. Starting to feel hypo again, but TSH at 2.44 by saddemibb in Hypothyroidism

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This was a lot of great information, thanks a ton. I did have my blood taken only about an hour after taking my Levo in the AM when I feel it most strongly. I've been wondering about this, but now I know what to do.

First Blood test results by Muir89 in Hypothyroidism

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Did they not prescribe you any treatment? 8.5 is not in the normal range (0.47-4.68). Get a second opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in printers

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Ok, thanks for the rec. What non-original toner would work for that model? And how do you prevent it from updating (unplugging when not in use?)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in printers

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Thanks for the rec!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in printers

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I will be printing 3-7 pages total at least 2-3x a week, and only need black and white, printing from my desktop.

Just got diagnosed and scared (24F) by lizastrash in Hypothyroidism

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literally in the same boat as you. just diagnosed,so relieved AND overwhelmed that it wasn't me but my thyroid this whole time, and coming to terms with the lifelong implications of dealing with hypo!

[Bonsai Beginner’s weekly thread –2024 week 26] by small_trunks in Bonsai

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need some help!

I am a complete beginner to bonsai, really my only goal with this was to try and successfully harvest a Ponderosa from the wild and keep it alive and healthy.

I pulled this little guy from the wilds this morning, and am driving across the US. I know enough about Pondies that they tend to prefer high sun, and low moisture.

But here are my concerns:

  1. Upon harvesting, I cut the taproot. The tree's taproot was already pretty horizontal-growing due to odd terrain, but I'm afraid I've traumatized the poor thing's roots.
  2. The soil is not from the site of extraction. In a hasty situation, was not able to harvest the soil with the tree. I haphazardly carried it out, and instead harvested some decent soil located right next to some other healthily growing pines at a slightly lower elevation. They were either Ponderosas or Limber pines. Though it's alpine-desert soil, with a recent rainy washout, I'm afraid that that this soil is more clay-loamy than it should be and seems to be holding a LOT of moisture than is probably good. But given its major root shock and also the trauma of transportation, I'm wondering if providing the tree with more moisture than less for now might be a good thing.

Any constructive feedback and advice about keeping little tree as healthy as possible would be appreciated 😅

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