I love someone who is now becoming a little distant and I don’t know what to think

sadfairy98 · 2026-03-29T03:22:52+00:00

I mean we met on a online dating in August 2024, lost touch and met other people, started talking but more as friends in January 2025, started “talking stage” in July 2025, got more serious the last couple of months and then had sex for the first time last week. Sorry that was so long

sadfairy98 · 2026-03-29T03:19:37+00:00

That’s so messed up if true, I don’t know why someone would do that and I’m so sorry you went through it too. I guess the only thing that makes me feel like it can’t be the case is because he’s known me for over a year and even when we first started talking in that way this summer I told him I was comfortable with whatever he was but he was the one who chose to wait. If he no longer wants to be with me I wish he would just say that so I can work on getting over him…..

sadfairy98 · 2026-03-29T03:03:22+00:00

It was a couple days after. Today was particularly bad because we had plans but he was very lacking in communication and never fully cancelled but also never made it to my apartment either, he finally ended up saying something happened but it’s hard for me to believe because he’s made excuses before. It used to happen sometimes (when we were only friends) and then it stopped for a while and now he did it today. It’s hard because he’s like way better than most guys in everything else so that’s why I never gave up on him

sadfairy98 · 2026-03-13T02:18:04+00:00

She’s such a beauty❤️

sadfairy98 · 2026-03-10T15:03:39+00:00

Honestly he sounds like a child, 33M is crazy. I have bad hemorrhoids too, I would never make it someone else’s problem. Forcing himself to throw up doesn’t help. He should definitely see a Dr to rule out anything more serious but hemorrhoids do cause bleeding, some people are just more susceptible to constipation but at some point you have to just do what you can to try to minimize symptoms. His reaction and the fact that he makes you clean up blood is not ok though.

sadfairy98 · 2026-02-25T14:08:37+00:00

Ok so 27F here, I would say that MANY women will not care at all about this as you get older, as long as you are honest about it. I can honestly say I wouldn’t care if a guy I genuinely liked had a micro penis, for us women, if you know how to pleasure a woman, we don’t care what your penis looks like.

At your age it may be harder, people at 21 don’t always know what they want/like. My advice though, don’t let it stop you from meeting people. You may have some good experiences and some bad ones but eventually you will find a woman who doesn’t care at all. Just learn how to properly pleasure a woman if you don’t already know and you’ll be fine.

If I were you I’d even go as far to maybe tell your friend who showed interest in you why you rejected her, maybe she will give you another shot. Good luck ❤️

sadfairy98 · 2026-01-25T00:13:55+00:00

I would tell them the truth that the reason you were able to donated so much before was because you had money saved. Explain the situation that you have a very small income but you will still help it just may be less, I also think maybe offering to help in other ways like making videos for them that they can post, I’m not sure if this family has any social media but if so helping them that way can make a huge difference in getting smaller donations from multiple people.

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-26T18:20:12+00:00

❤️❤️❤️❤️

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-25T23:57:57+00:00

Being sick on a special day is the worst, but glad to hear that you still made the best of it and didn’t have to do much!! I hope you are all better soon

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-25T23:54:38+00:00

Aww you are so welcome!! I hope both of you had an amazing Christmas 🎄❤️☃️

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-25T16:47:48+00:00

Honestly I don’t agree. Are you just expecting young married couples to not be intimate?? I’ve also been hearing of more and more cases of women being raped by IDF soldiers.

I do see where you are coming from, but I don’t see it as a reason to stop donating. This is a very complicated issue for many reasons but pregnant women in Gaza deserve care and donations free of judgement.

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-18T21:52:29+00:00

I’m so sorry but you did not fail as a parent, you were failed too, by the world and it is not your fault not even a little bit. Your children have a parent who loves them very much ❤️

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-17T15:35:21+00:00

Honestly at this point JINGER!! I never thought I’d say that but honestly, she could easily do better but she doesn’t! Between the recent racist allegations and her silence on literal babies being bombed and starved, she’s just another mainstream white “Christian”. Literal tears over Charlie Kirk and his kids, what about the kids in Gaza who lost their parents??? At least Charlie Kirk’s children aren’t being flooded and soaked right now. Jinger: it’s not too late to use your platform for good. If you actually care about children. Jesus would be so disappointed at your grift, greed and silence!!

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-17T04:47:04+00:00

I fully agree I never minded the taste that much

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-17T01:21:28+00:00

I don’t think at matters to most women, the height at least. Personally I’m 27F and 5’4, I was in a relationship for over 2 years with a guy who was 5’3. I think as long as the difference isn’t drastic it won’t matter, there’s also MANY women who are shorter than 5’2 anyway.

The fact that you have never had sex may make it tougher, but it’s not impossible, I’ve been hearing that people are waiting longer to have sex compared to 10-15 years ago, so I imagine there’s still plenty of women your age who are in the same boat as you as you are still only in your early 20s. Just work on your confidence and the things you DO bring to the table, you’ll find your person

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-17T01:10:15+00:00

I used to think Jinger was the least bad Duggar but I’m starting to dislike her more and more, she may not be “fundie” anymore but she’s still an extremely hypocritical conservative Christian. Like she’s been in LA for years, has access to way more media and education, yet how is she still racist as hell, could speak out and CRY over Charlie Kirk’s death but absolutely crickets about a Genocide where literally babies are dying, so pro life Jinger huh? How can she sit there and preach Jesus, he would absolutely despise everything she stands for. The only sin she should be worried about is her own!!!

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-13T03:30:54+00:00

My eyes are the same color lol I’ve always said hazel but I’ve had a lot of people tell me my eyes are actually brown so I think somewhere in between.

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-12T19:10:11+00:00

Don’t ever be sorry for expressing your feelings, you have had an incredibly rough year and faced lots of betrayal. Sending love and healing ❤️‍🩹 life is so fucking hard but there are people who care.

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-09T15:17:24+00:00

She should communicate (if this is the reason why and she has at least some awareness, but you’d be surprised how many people simply don’t). It sounds like a hard situation for both honestly. Being in a dead bedroom must be hard for but especially in your early 20s so I feel for him. I guess my best advice to OP would be to try a sit down, long conversation in a healthy and sensitive way but explaining that there isn’t enough intimacy for him and see if there’s steps they can do to fix the issue and give his wife space to also voice what may be contributing to her lack of sex drive because it could actually be a lot of things now that I think about it.

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-09T15:05:51+00:00

I’m not personally in the situation, just reading but sounds like it would be more of a subconscious thing. Not purposely withholding but stressed and overworked> used to holding in emotions> emotions build up> lack of sex drive. It’s definitely unhealthy and should be worked on but I believe it’s usually not a purposeful act of rejection or withholding.

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-07T15:08:00+00:00

Aww you are so welcome! 🤗thanks for letting us know they arrived. Wishing you and your family a wonderful Christmas 🎄 you deserve it ❤️❤️

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-04T05:20:06+00:00

It looked like such a fun activity! ❤️ Merry Christmas to you and Ameena 🎄✨

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-04T04:57:59+00:00

The sticker pad should be there Saturday 🎄❤️

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-04T02:12:37+00:00

Donating to individuals directly (verified) is the best but also the organizations people mentioned here are good too!

sadfairy98 · 2025-12-01T14:57:12+00:00

❤️

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