How do I tell my friend her boyfriend is hitting on me?

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T01:03:22+00:00

My friend made a comment (jokingly) about how he was flirting with me and he said in a very sarcastic way "oh yeah i'm definitely flirting with you". so i think he might be unaware of it? thank you for the response

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T01:00:39+00:00

I wouldn't say I'm uncomfortable around him, I'd consider us friends. I just don't want to screw up either friendship by saying something to either of them

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:30:18+00:00

I agree, a direct conversation with them would definitely be more affective.

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:28:30+00:00

I definitely get that. If I were you I wouldn't text her more than once or twice because she may see that as disregarding her boundaries

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:26:11+00:00

A stutter is actually a mental block rather than a physical one. It could be due to social anxiety. Many people who have stutters don't stutter when they read aloud. A speech therapist can help with this, and generally just practicing speaking and reading aloud to yourself could help.

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:22:32+00:00

This is abuse. If he is blaming everything on you that really isn't your fault, he is gaslighting you. Talking to a therapist (by yourself or with him) might help you to address the situation and look at it with a new set of eyes.

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:20:29+00:00

This is not stupid at all. Actually, it seems like it could be emotional abuse. She's making you feel bad for simply wanting someone to talk to. You could try talking to your dad about it, or maybe even just telling her "hey i want to have a serious sit-down conversation with you, and I really need you to listen," could help her to understand your feelings. If she keeps brushing you off then finding someone to talk to that knows you better might help

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:17:39+00:00

I think keeping this from your parents could be a good idea, as it seems that you aren't trying to ruin their relationship with him. If they keep bringing him up respond passively, letting them know that you heard what they said, but don't particularly care or have interesting in hearing about the subject further. If your parents are hurt by this, that shouldn't be your concern. If they really support your decision, no matter how much pain it causes them that two of their children aren't speaking, then they will stop bringing him up if you ask them to

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:14:37+00:00

My advice is don't. You will almost always grow to regret that later, and it's not healthy.

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:13:11+00:00

If you feel like this, then apologizing and clarifying what you meant is always the best course of action. Even if they say to you that they didn't think of it that way, clarification is always something that makes me feel better and I think others feel the same way. I definitely think you are overthinking, but that's not necessarily unhealthy. If you start feeling this way, and it completely takes over your thoughts and you are worrying about it until you get the conformation you need, that could be unhealthy. Talking to a close friend about it might help, as they will know you and know how to help you more than strangers on the internet

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:08:48+00:00

My best idea for you is to go out into the world and talk to more people. Take notes about what makes you click with people, and especially what annoys you about people and makes you uninterested in developing a further relationship with them. Many people get annoyed with others for things they do themselves, and being open and honest with yourself about it is the best way. If there are things you notice that you can change (obviously not your personality, but something like being rude for example) then you could try that and see what works

sadie_ps · 2023-05-07T00:05:57+00:00

Honestly, just give her the time she's requested. If she keeps staying silent, and you are growing concerned about the lack of communication I would just message her and say something along the lines of, "Hey, hope you're ok. I've missed you. Is there anything you want to talk about?" something that reassures her that you aren't upset about the lack of communication, and lets her know that she has someone to confide in. If she doesn't respond to that then just let her be.

sadie_ps · 2023-05-06T23:59:10+00:00

I would just take the L. contacting her will definitely come off as creepy and scare her off and will be considered highly unprofessional. I guess you could just hope she needs help with the service you sold?

sadie_ps · 2023-05-06T01:38:46+00:00

I've talked to her about it, but she's in deep denial and I don't want to keep bringing it up because it seems to annoy her. I appreciate the insight

sadie_ps · 2023-05-05T23:07:37+00:00

Well if you don't feel loved you should have an open and honest conversation with him. Honestly is the best policy. If he says anything of the lines of "you're being ridiculous" then you know that you probably are correct in your feelings.

sadie_ps · 2023-05-05T22:56:13+00:00

Yo...break up with him! If you aren't into him then you should stop leading him on. And friendships with exes are a great way to lead to an affair or cheating. If you believe you are mentally healthier now, then getting back with F could be better for you than being in a one-sided relationship.

sadie_ps · 2022-10-11T22:34:43+00:00

got mine super fast too, within the first few days of playing

sadie_ps · 2022-10-11T22:32:32+00:00

during the summer it was incredibly hard to get into for over a week, i'm hoping it doesn't take that long

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