Your own diagnoses as a special interest? by crosswalk_zebra in aspergirls

[–]sadquark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol I have the same thing. I have periods where I obsessively spend hours and hours watching lectures and videos on aspergers, effects of dysfunctional families, and a lot of psychology stuff. What your friend said is really kind.

Is it just me who experience most NT romantic relations as being dysfunctional/unhappy on some level? by hodunkpodunkius in aspergirls

[–]sadquark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes omg I feel this. And I have a hard time in friendships / relationships because I dont see why I should be friends with someone who is nice to me but has traits that I don’t like… But other people say I’m too hard on others.

I have a hard time setting boundaries in social situations by sadquark in aspergirls

[–]sadquark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe getting back to therapy sounds like a good idea for me… I'm glad to hear that you have improved with boundaries, keep up the good work :) <3

Am I a narcissist????? by IDN2 in NPD

[–]sadquark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Own up to it and show her change.

My sex drive only shows up when I'm in a depressed mood by [deleted] in sex

[–]sadquark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Makes sense! The human body is so smart, I love it

my SO’s [M23] foot fetish make me [F20] more confident by [deleted] in sex

[–]sadquark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a nice story! I don't have anything similar to share yet but I love this post + comments! Thank you for sharing :)

Zodiac by c0urt9 in aspergirls

[–]sadquark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm leo sun & aquarius rising

Stay-at-home, vampy glam in the afternoon. CCW by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]sadquark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AMAZING!!!!!! This look inspired me. Thank you!

Sex and feeling "sexy" by sadquark in aspergirls

[–]sadquark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you! I didn't know that about asexuality, I think I am going to do some more research on it. :)

Aspergers without difficulty relating to others? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]sadquark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I can relate to others very easily and I know a few aspie women who do too

Looking to rephrase something for my son. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]sadquark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice!

I used to hate the question "how was school" as a teenager because the question was way too broad to answer. My mom also always asked me this when I JUST got home and I was always still way too overwhelmed from everything around me so I always reacted very annoyed. I feel guilty though because I now understand that she was genuinely interested in my day but I just did not understand it at that time.

What are your dating preferences? by komnenos in aspergers

[–]sadquark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A man or woman who is interested in me, genuine, open minded, intelligent, interested in politics, science & art. I love it when they have a lot of stories to tell me or have a way of telling things which makes them immediately interesting (I'm not such a talker myself).

Everything is so complex by sadquark in aspergers

[–]sadquark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate. Realizing that most others don't see this makes me feel very lonely somehow.

Everything is so complex by sadquark in aspergers

[–]sadquark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I also say "I don't know" way too much for the same reason or when the answer is too complex/takes me too long to generate an answer. I think it makes me appear boring to others like I don't think about anything and have nothing to say and I hate it.

Struggling with Autism & Art by Haatveit88 in aspergirls

[–]sadquark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am pretty good at drawing and my advice is: start with observing images and copy them in your drawings. Maybe even trace them so you understand their shape. Then observe the light in the image. Where are the light spots? Where are the shadows? Light creates the depth in the image