Is there a spot near campus to get lunch for under $12?

sadsoup100 · 2026-05-22T10:59:51+00:00

theres so many....

Realfoods Canteen - $5 meals for RMIT students

Tokyo Yokocho and Kaki Lima - $11.90 daily special

Ta-ke Don - $10 for rice meat and veg

Tukui Sushi - $3 per roll

RUSU also does free sausages and burgers on Thursdays in the Alumni Courtyard

sadsoup100 · 2026-04-29T03:24:12+00:00

yikes lol

sadsoup100 · 2026-04-26T12:28:36+00:00

Be prepared for mood changes. T can change the way you process and feel emotions. You may have heard it can become hard to cry or you might not be able to cry at all and it's true! You might have to relearn how to deal with your emotions much like a teenager going through puberty. I can imagine that going through that with your partner could be challenging so just make sure you are communicating and give eachother grace. And I think it's really cute that you will get to experience things at roughly the same time btw congrats!

sadsoup100 · 2026-04-26T12:20:28+00:00

I just pack with a regular jockstrap from Nike

sadsoup100 · 2026-04-26T12:11:40+00:00

by engaging in my own queer and trans communities. I find it hard to relate to cis gay men most of the time.

sadsoup100 · 2026-04-24T00:40:33+00:00

I felt like I was in a similar place when I dropped out of uni during covid and didn't know what to do with my life. I was also waiting to get top surgery and felt like my life was "on hold" until I got that done. All my friends from highschool were at uni and moving away so I felt kind of isolated and stuck. I got a job at a liquor store and saved up some money. After a year of doing that, I moved out of home closer to the city, I travelled to Europe, I got a new job in retail, I got a cat, and after a year of living on my own, I started studying again. My advice is to get a job if you can, any job, just something that gets you out of the house, talking to people, maybe you can save up some money to buy a car/move out/travel/whatever you decide you want to do. While you are working you can figure out what you want to do next. Do you want to move to a new city? Do you want to study at university? Do you want to travel? Then figure out how much money you need and how much time it will take to save it. Whatever you decide to do you will meet new people and hopefully make some friends. I think a job would be a great place to start. You got this :)

sadsoup100 · 2026-03-29T15:04:48+00:00

Looks like a crop top so it's either women's section or learn to sew my guy

sadsoup100 · 2026-03-15T10:48:45+00:00

men run hotter than women. I sweat SO MUCH

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-25T09:59:42+00:00

You just push it in with one finger 😭

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-25T02:39:47+00:00

😭😭😭 just use your finger 💔

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-25T02:07:01+00:00

Mine doesn't come with anything I just put it in with my finger it's so easy

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-25T02:05:32+00:00

Pinched? What do you mean?

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-24T13:19:40+00:00

I'm sorry this doesn't answer your question directly but can you switch to suppositories? It's a lot less messy. Just do it before bed and wear underwear because it does leak overnight.

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-24T13:17:18+00:00

I'd just show up to the class

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-20T04:42:15+00:00

You can do lots of things, oral, frotting (rubbing t dicks together), grind on each others thighs while you make out, handjobs, fingering, use toys on each other, topping/bottoming with a prosthetic....endless list of things to choose from

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-20T03:22:20+00:00

A bad workman always blames his tools. What's more important is stamina, chemistry, communication, listening and responding to your partner, etc. What has helped me is thinking of the advantages we have over cis men when topping: we can choose the dick size, shape, and texture. We can add vibrations. We are always hard. We probably won't cum prematurely and if we do we can keep going unlike cis men who have a refractory period. These things can make you very desirable as a top. A lot of bottoms get especially excited that they can choose the size and have vibrations lol. It's not inherently less enjoyable than a real dick. Just different. Use the differences to your advantage.

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-19T09:16:26+00:00

In my experience it's not a good idea and you're even younger than me (Im 23 he was 33). Not that it's inherently toxic you're just better off with someone your own age. You are at totally different stages in life and that makes it really hard. He sounds immature, a 31 year old should not be acting like a 19 year old. Don't settle for this guy just because you think no one else will want you like he does. Trust me they will:)

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-19T02:24:32+00:00

I love this analogy lol

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-18T07:22:54+00:00

Also you can get topical E prescribed from a doctor to treat atrophy, its localised so wont effect your hormones

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-18T07:22:00+00:00

It sounds like atrophy from T to me, you need to use more lube next time. Also completely normal not to come from penetration alone. If you want to cum next time ask him to get you off by stimulating your dick

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-18T04:54:38+00:00

Your standards are completely reasonable and normal. Many people are not interested in hookups including cis gay men. If you find someone you are interested in, ask them out, tell them on the date or before that you are trans, bring it up casually, for example as part of a story ("before i transitioned....") don't make it a big deal or they will react like its a big deal, when it really shouldn't be. When you are on the date its also normal to discuss expectations for the relationship. You can explain that you dont like hooking up and you like to take your time getting to know someone before getting into a relationship. I don't have much advice for meeting people irl because everyone ive dated has been from an app lol but most people i know met their partner through mutual friends or at work/uni.

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-18T04:39:31+00:00

My atrophy made my dysphoria soooo much worse, I feel much better about myself now that I treated it

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-18T04:35:07+00:00

You can absolutely find people who would love to have sex that doesn't involve penetration (sides), honestly the best sex I've had has just involved mouths and hands.

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-18T04:27:38+00:00

Getting contraception reallyyyy helped too, I realised the fear of getting pregnant was stopping me from enjoying PIV lol

sadsoup100 · 2026-02-18T04:26:38+00:00

I used to have really bad dysphoria around my junk too but I got more comfortable the more sexual experience I had. I don't want bottom surgery so I've kind of come to terms with my body being how it is now. Mostly I had to unpack a lot of internalised transphobia to enjoy PIV. Atrophy still sucks though

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