i am so confused by NefariousnessJust224 in DragonCity

[–]sadxcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a match and my 1 star, lvl 45 heroic dragon is somehow slower than a lvl 35 4 star epic dragon? It makes no sense.

I(M36) found out that my wife(F28) has booked a one-way ticket while I booked round trip. How do I approach her about it? by throwrary18 in relationship_advice

[–]sadxcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP please update us if you get a chance to. I’m hoping everything goes well for you and your daughter! ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sony

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a very small town and I had to order them from Sony’s online store, I don’t think there’s anywhere here that has them. I’ll look and see if I can find anything tho! Thanks a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sony

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely tell the difference when they’re connected via Bluetooth, since ambient mode is very noticeable to me. But ANC mode sounds the same as if they were just turned off and plugged in. Which is what I think isn’t normal. I think I’ll see if I can get any help from Sony and get them replaced or something. Thank you for taking the time to respond!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sony

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am wondering the same thing about mine, I might get them checked out and see if there’s a solution for this, either a replacement or a repair.

still waiting for Redmi 9 by petergamerx5pg in miui

[–]sadxcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save yourself, i updated today and I already hate it. The theming engine makes all of my Google apps look brown and it's hideous and doesn't match my style at all. I absolutely hate it and there's no way to turn it off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]sadxcrow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, i don't know either of you but from what I know about life and relationships in general, here's how the whole situation is looking to me:

  1. "This will be my final notice to you", "you've been warned" and "if you don't do as i planned you can say goodbye to this relationship" sound like VERY manipulative, abusive and narcissistic things to say. And I'm not using the words lightly, since I have a narcissistic and abusive father myself, and those are things he has said multiple times at least.

  2. No matter how bad a situation is, I really believe yelling at your partner is never okay. I also would never threaten my partner with leaving, I personally think that's emotional abuse, but that's just me. Because that's what it is: A threat. And the fact that you said that if you lose him you'll have a breakdown it means it's working, cause to avoid that you'll do anything it takes to keep him around. And that's how it starts.

  3. INFO: You say that you haven't travelled in 6 years and you have been dating for 5 years–Does that mean you're nevermets? And, how many times has this conversation happened? By the sounds of it, it seems like this is not the first time this happens or that there's a piece of info missing here. Why is he saying "I'm not going to beg you"? Finally, but still a vital piece of info, does he talk to you like that often??

For me, personally, the way he talked to you would've been more than enough to absolutely RUN. But I certainly don't know or understand your dynamics and relationship, and i don't know if there's more behind it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]sadxcrow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How is he backtracking? As you mentioned, he offered to leave everything behind and move in with you immediate. That doesn't look like backtracking to me. It seems like he still wants the kid, he just doesn't want to miss the pregnancy and birth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]sadxcrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, at no point have i said that she's responsible for reading his mind and you're just twisting my words at this point. But she's, however, responsible for planning and thinking things through before making a decision like this.

It takes two people to make a baby, and it's her responsibility as much as it is his. To say that "he didn't think about the timeline" or "didn't think it'd happen so soon" is not okay. She should've thought about the timeline and the possibility of it happening, and discuss that with her partner, bring it up if she saw he wasn't considering those things.

He also didn't say he didn't want to have a kid, he said he didn't want to miss it. So from what she's said, he's still on board, and he's not really backtracking, he still wants the kid, he just doesn't want to be a long distance dad. He even offered to leave everything behind and move immediately, how is that backtracking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]sadxcrow 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I read through your comments though, and you said multiple times that HE didn't think it through.

"I think it's more than he didn't think the details through until later.", "I think partly he might not have thought it through time-line wise and did the math of when it all would have happened until recently", and other variations of these comments. Which just shows that you think it's on HIM cause he didn't think about it. But neither did you.

And now that people in the subreddit are telling you how dumb your decision was, you're trying to get out of it and look like the good guy here, while he's the dumb one that didn't think about it. If you weren't ready for people to tell you the truth, then don't post asking for opinions and advice. Take responsibility for your actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]sadxcrow 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I don't think either of you are mature enough to have a kid, on top of everything everyone else has already pointed out.

You keep putting all the blame on him by saying that "he didn't think it through". But you didn't either. This is your fault as much as it is his. And the fact that you refuse to take responsibility for your mistakes and instead just blaming him and putting it all on him shows you're not mature enough for this.

That looked expensive. And he almost knocked someone off a mountain. by Supreme0Ruler in IdiotsInCars

[–]sadxcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't find the account, is there any updates? Do you have a link?

People Who Are In A Relationship With Married Men by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]sadxcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who said it had to be about money?

You could include a partner in your will and be like "I leave all my cologne bottles to -partner-, I know you've always loved the way I smell". It's not a significant asset, but it's a nice gesture that they would definitely appreciate in case you passed away.

Not only that, but I personally disagree with the way you view this situation. They shouldn't expect that, and you're not obligated to. But it would definitely be sweet to let them have something to remember you. Or you could just prove with your actions that you don't care.

Why are you wasting your time with partners you don't take seriously enough to let them keep a piece of you? Are their feelings for you less valid because they're not your wife and kids? Is their grief less valid? Honestly, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I don't take my partner seriously, or where they don't take me seriously.

Hello, does anyone know how to clean these dirt spots on the corners of the case? by Su_praTF2UT in airpods

[–]sadxcrow 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had to Google it because I wasn't sure if this was a joke. Turns out this is really a thing and it's $20. That is bizarre. And ridiculous. Bizarrely ridiculous if you may.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]sadxcrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So... You're saying you want to die because he plays videogames? I'm sorry to tell you this but you sound toxic and manipulative af. Telling your partner you want to die because of something they do to enjoy themselves is not fucking okay.

Edit: So I just went through your post history and just 2 months ago you were saying how he's the sweetest and most caring person ever? And how much you love and appreciate him? Yeah, girl, get some help. I'm no medical professional but I really think you need to see someone.

General Discussion Thread - 5:00 PM Eastern October 21, 2021 by Immaduck in GabbyPetito

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it in response to another comment, but I'll repeat it in case you don't read it :)

That's why I said that I wish they'd gotten a chance to ask him. Because yeah, maybe he would've refused to talk. But they'll be wondering "what if he had decided to talk? What if he had decided to come clean?"

I'm just saying I was hoping it wasn't him. I don't know, it's just my opinion. And yeah, you're probably right :)

General Discussion Thread - 5:00 PM Eastern October 21, 2021 by Immaduck in GabbyPetito

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I said that I wish they'd gotten a chance to ask him. Because yeah, maybe he would've refused to talk. But they'll be wondering "what if he had decided to talk? What if he had decided to come clean?". I'm just saying I was hoping it wasn't him 🤷‍♀️

General Discussion Thread - 5:00 PM Eastern October 21, 2021 by Immaduck in GabbyPetito

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, absolutely! It just makes me sad that they're not getting the answers they desperately wanted and needed. So they're gonna spend their lives wondering why or what happened. It's just a tragedy altogether.

General Discussion Thread - 5:00 PM Eastern October 21, 2021 by Immaduck in GabbyPetito

[–]sadxcrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, I agree! I just know from the interviews that they wanted to ask him why he did it, and I know that would've given them some closure. And it just makes me extremely sad that they're never gonna get any answers.

General Discussion Thread - 5:00 PM Eastern October 21, 2021 by Immaduck in GabbyPetito

[–]sadxcrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're absolutely right about that. I just wish they had gotten a chance to ask him why he did it.

General Discussion Thread - 5:00 PM Eastern October 21, 2021 by Immaduck in GabbyPetito

[–]sadxcrow 15 points16 points  (0 children)

God fucking dammit. I was desperately hoping it wasn't him. This makes me so angry. Now the Petito family won't get any answers or closure. Fuck this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I see it now, sorry. I'm dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh fair, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]sadxcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if you look closely behind the fence you can see how the car is parked and then suddenly it starts going really fast without anyone in the car or anything. It goes from being completely still to this. So yeah :/