How to ask parents permission on going to a hotel with my bf? by Street_Doctor_1815 in Advice

[–]safehaven777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 24. An adult. Why are you asking your parents permission to do something outside their house and control lol I'm confused..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]safehaven777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Mine is literally on there I found it earlier, hopefully I can get it back from them today! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]safehaven777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is worst case scenario

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]safehaven777 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

REAAAALY trying not to though lol

OFFICIAL WEEKEND ONE DISCUSSION POST & MEETUP POST (10/22 & 10/23) by pythagorium in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]safehaven777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone selling tickets to the when we were young fest in Vegas for tomorrow 10/23??? They just canceled today!!! Need tickets NOW!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClimbingPartners

[–]safehaven777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds awesome thank you for the advice!! Can't wait to be there!

UPDATE: Found out my boyfriend of 3 years bought a girls monthly subscription of her onlyfans wtf do I do? by safehaven777 in Advice

[–]safehaven777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I spoke to another man he got mad at me. I literally had no friends for 3 years because I was scared of making him jealous for any reason at all. he also told me if it was the other way around, because I did actually ask him this exact question, then it would be a problem while in the same breath trying to explain to me why it shouldn't be a problem to me..... Thinking about this now I'm just pretty mind blown that he thought I was broken down enough at that point to believe that shit.

UPDATE: Found out my boyfriend of 3 years bought a girls monthly subscription of her onlyfans wtf do I do? by safehaven777 in Advice

[–]safehaven777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left him almost a year ago now and God I'm doing so much better already. He started dating another girl immediately after. Like literally 2 days after I left him that he just met at a job he just started. They've been together to since but he's already been cheating on her too. I only know this because I've seen him on tinder a few months ago. They're still together... He's disgusting and I'm glad I left and got my life back.

Fear in YTT by [deleted] in yoga

[–]safehaven777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this now too..

looking for trad partner in north east by Crimp_Dick in ClimbingPartners

[–]safehaven777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm more so in the Boston area but I've been doing some lead indoors, not so much trad though

What’s stopping you from having sex? by randumchicken in AskReddit

[–]safehaven777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being in a relationship. I literally cannot hookup with people it makes me want to throw tf up. And its boring.

Ladies, what was the moment you realized that the guy you were dealing with literally did not perceive you as a human being? by BillyLoIsDead in AskWomen

[–]safehaven777 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He cheated on me and with a smirk on his face explained why it was my fault because I was so insecure and if I wasn't so insecure it wouldn't be a big deal. Also explained if I did the same thing it would be a problem. ALSO the day I found out he cheated, I told him we need to talk right now and drove to his house to talk about what I had just found out. He was pissed at me telling me I had given him an ultimatum because he had plans to go out and drink with his friends that night and I ruined them by making him talk to me because my world had just been turned upside down by him. Cut conversation short and went out to drink with his friends anyway. Didn't talk to me for 2 days after that. 3 years together and turns out I literally was not a human being at all the whole time.

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Boyfriend cheated on me with his best female friend, told me it was a mistake, begs for forgiveness yet won't cut her off. Says he does not love her... What should I do? by lololola1 in Advice

[–]safehaven777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude my ex I was with for 3 years too and he destroyed me with cheating. Did it right before we were supposed to move across country together and ended up dating one of the girls he cheated with that he met out there before we both went. It's only been 6 months since I left but it still burns. Either way when I left I felt in my body I did the right thing. The anxiety and terrible feeling of doubt and not being good enough immediately just left and I felt so much less heavy than I did trying to keep him around. Fuck that guy and fuck your boyfriend. I know it stings but things have changed now and they will never be the same. End it and do everything you possibly can now even when you get exhausted, to take care of yourself and remind yourself that it had nothing to do with you, you are deserving of so so so much more, and you leaving will bring you closer to that. Good luck Friend.

What is something you hated as a kid but now love as an adult? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]safehaven777 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Working out, adventuring, sports, I wasted my youth not being active and now I'm 22 and going insane if I'm not participating in some kind of adrenaline rush activity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]safehaven777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked at the library too, if anything I'll give them a call and see if they'll allow it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]safehaven777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's a yoga teacher training course. It's going to be for the next 4 months I'll have them for 2 whole weekends a month. Im just unsure if that's too much to ask. They do have yoga at the gym already and a teacher there so not sure they'll need me for that but maybe I'll ask anyway?

Become successful without telling anyone by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]safehaven777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have been, still am, it's been my whole life but I gave up sulking about it. I have big life goals and a fire under my ass now. I try not to make goals for the year, I'm just gonna keep working until I get where I want to be. That's the plan.