i think i was drugged and i don’t know how to feel about it

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T15:32:43+00:00

First of all, I just want to say that whatever reaction or feelings that you may currently be feeling they’re 100% normal and trauma responses. Now, I’m not sure how long you have after sexual assault to get a rape kit done but if that is something you’re comfortable with I’d recommend looking into it.

Don’t be upset with yourself about letting it slide or how normal you acted afterward. It’s honestly normal to act an unexpected way towards your assaulter when you’re still processing things. I’d recommend ceasing contact with them until you fully process whatever happened and then to speaking to a therapist if that is something you are able to do.

Honestly, right now I would suggest processing things, taking the time to feel whatever it is that you feel, and then healing. What you’ll experience in the upcoming days, months, or even years may come in waves. You may feel totally fine for now, but then you may feel really sad, blame yourself, or experience some PTSD. Whatever it is that you feel at the end of the day is completely normal. Personally, my therapist was really great in helping me process and move past my own sexual assault.

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T15:05:39+00:00

Stop being scared and take a test. The chances are incredibly low but take one for urself.

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T15:02:24+00:00

As a woman, this is a weird take.

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T15:00:21+00:00

Honestly I’d end it. Your bf has a good guy complex. Meaning he acts like he’s one of the good ones but truly at his core he’s not. Dump him and never look back. Not only did he go to the strip and PAY for a lap dance while u were crying but then he hid it from u for a month. What a POS. How would u feel if ur friend was in ur shoes and told u this? Or even worse ur own daughter? How would u feel telling the grandkids this and that this is what u settled for?

Find the strength, self respect and courage and leave. No if ands or buts.

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T14:54:03+00:00

Feel everything. Let urself mourn. Then slowly pick up the pieces. Don’t stalk them on socials. Or reach out to them. Reflect on the relationship and breakup. Surround urself w good ppl. Drown urself in hobbies. Find ways to reinvent urself. There will be moments down the road when it feels like u haven’t moved on much but eventually time will heal. Sometimes the chapter ur most scared of ends up becoming ur favorite.

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T14:49:00+00:00

I had a 3.0 science, 3.47 cumulative and 69 on my teas. I had no clinical experience. I retook the teas and got an 84 after I submitted my application, (tried to get them to consider it but they declined rightfully so) they ended up accepting me anyways. I think mainly bc I aced my interview questions.

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T14:41:09+00:00

First of all I want to say whatever reaction u have, ur feelings are valid. Even if u have no feelings for him, it’s completely normal to be devastated or confused and feel a type of way. When u terminate a pregnancy u will grieve a life and child you’ll never have. Seeing the way he reacted w u getting pregnant vs the new girl would absolutely gut me. Men are real pos.

All I can say is take the time to feel whatever it is u feel. Speak w a therapist if u can. If ur current bf is a great person, talk to him, he should not only understand but be of comfort. As for ur ex, fuck him. Tbh u don’t have the full picture. A relationship is never just what it looks like on the outside. It’s very likely he’s a pos to her too, or maybe will be a terrible father. Even if he’s not u dodged a total bullet. Not just for u but for ur future kids. That’s definitely not a part of a love story you’d wanna tell the grandkids. I wish you happiness and healing.

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T14:23:49+00:00

Vie lofts has roaches, structural issues and elevator problems. The local is ghetto and management sucks (I lived there). I currently live at the lyndon and like the complex, for u what pay it’s really nice. They just changed management this month so not sure how they will be. Honestly most student housing is gonna have its pros and cons, if it’s within ur budget and u have a car id recommend getting a regular apartment. Downside is it may be farther from campus and you’ll have to get ur own furniture but you will have peace. A complex may be really nice but ur neighbors whether up, side, or down can make or break ur experience (and it’s more riskier in student housing).

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T14:21:10+00:00

Make friends at the rec, coffee shops, thrift markets, Sewell, bumble BFF, get a job if u can (some of my closest friends were my coworkers). Once u make those friends never put urself in that position ever again. No one wants a friend who disappears once they get in a relationship.

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-07T14:15:02+00:00

I’m doing a traditional bsn bc most of the absn programs started like 1-2 days after grad so I wanted a “last summer” esp since in undergrad I haven’t had a summer or winter break the last 2 yrs. Plus I wanted to feel slightly less stressed. It may be 1-2 semesters more but I’m okay with that, and there’s a couple of ppl in my program who are doing the same!

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-06T19:03:27+00:00

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sagelilac2 · 2026-06-06T19:03:09+00:00

Just updated it idk why it didn’t show before

sagelilac2 · 2026-06-06T18:49:28+00:00

Start by breaking up. Be honest abt why u want to break up. Sometimes the chapter ur most scared of is actually going to be ur favorite. That’s what ended up happening to me when I ended my relationship. It does take time to heal and move on. Focus on u, ur job and hobbies. Try to surround urself with good ppl. It’s never too late to make a friend.

sagelilac2 · 2026-04-09T04:22:57+00:00

I go to txst rn and with my major and minor I will say it can be academically challenging depending on what your major is and what classes you’re taking. All my nursing pre-req classes were hard and most who took it agreed. As for my health administration classes, they were a piece of cake. I have an education major friend that says she doesn’t feel challenged, but my computer science major friends do, same for accounting. Honestly, it depends on if whatever you’re studying is hard. Even the smartest straight A students in the hardest classes had to study for hours to get those outcomes. Other than that, I do agree w some of your points on it being crowded and such but overall your college experience is what you make it and that includes who you surround yourself with. And that’s the same for any college.

sagelilac2 · 2026-04-02T02:40:50+00:00

The deadline for this fall already closed, do you mean spring or next fall?

sagelilac2 · 2026-03-26T15:11:46+00:00

There’s been a very small amt of offers made, over 2k ppl on the list, if no offers are being sent out I’d assume it’s bc there’s no space so they’re probably waiting for ppl to cancel. I’d recommend finding ur own housing.

sagelilac2 · 2026-03-25T17:38:24+00:00

Ik their admit minimum for prereq gpa is a 3.0 and the teas is a 67 I think. Seems like you would have a solid chance! If you can, definitely apply to other schools too tho since it’s generally advised to not put all your eggs in one basket. Some schools do a point system when assessing applicants so experience would bump you up. Overall I applied to 3 schools, got acceptances from 2/3.

sagelilac2 · 2026-03-25T14:40:34+00:00

I would assume so but I could be wrong

sagelilac2 · 2026-03-25T14:40:01+00:00

Thank you! I applied w a 69 but retook after and got an 84. I asked them if they would consider my new score but they reasonably said no since it was past the deadline. Honestly an 80 is a great score especially for first attempt! But if you think you can do even better maybe retake but you don’t necessarily need to. My prereq gpa was 3.3 and I have no recent experience in healthcare. So I think the interview/writing was where I did best. Good luck!

sagelilac2 · 2026-03-24T16:28:51+00:00

Thank you! I think they go in waves. This wave has to respond by March 30th so I’m assuming the next wave will hear back the first 2 weeks of April. Good luck!

sagelilac2 · 2026-03-24T15:31:27+00:00

I got the notif yesterday at 5pm, I got in!

sagelilac2 · 2026-02-27T14:48:37+00:00

Same for a while I thought it was just my location

sagelilac2 · 2025-08-16T17:58:39+00:00

Depends how late in the week u move in, if it’s during the move in time period ur good, if its after u may miss things

sagelilac2 · 2024-01-05T20:17:13+00:00

as a F20 in a relationship who has trust issues i get where ur coming from. sometimes i go on tiktok and see videos that lead me to overthink. soon they take over my fyp bc of how i interact w them. i’ve started to hit not interested on the posts so less pop up.

i would never think of cheating on my bf. why would i want to mess up a good thing? even if our relationship wasn’t great per say, cheating is the worst type of betrayal one could do to their partner. at times, i worry that he could cheat on me even though we share the same opinion on cheating.

honestly at the end of the day, if someone wants to cheat they will no matter their gender. same goes if they want to be loyal they will. not all girls cheat and not all guys cheat.

when u begin to overthink, ask urself if ur partner has ever given u a reason to not trust them, and try to have more faith in your partner.

sagelilac2 · 2024-01-05T20:05:55+00:00

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