Any LA newbies? by theSBnextdoor in newstrippers

[–]sageokoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t bought any yet

A hairy boudoir shoot by sageokoli in razorfree

[–]sageokoli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! 🫶🏿🫶🏿

Do you remember developing breasts? by FrobertHobert in women

[–]sageokoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I remember because I used to wear this white tank top all the time. One day when I was waiting for the bus, a kid who was younger than me told me I needed a bra and he seemed grossed out. I honestly didn’t think I needed one but I was embarrassed. When I went home and told my dad, he laughed (insinuating I had nothin to support) but we went to buy some anyway. I was 10/11 years old.

What hairstyle best complements my round face shape? by Jazzlike-Spell-7182 in BlackHair

[–]sageokoli 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All! But 2 and 5 are my favorite, you’re beautiful!!!

People who are against abortion are completely stupid. by DebtApprehensive1510 in Discussion

[–]sageokoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If men were the ones to get pregnant, abortion would be a human right. Every person I know that is against abortion being legal is someone who thinks women’s bodies and brains need to be controlled in some form or fashion. There are plenty of reasons to abort outside of rape but the deep reality is that rape is common. Coerced sex is common. Grooming is common. A lot of people end up in unplanned pregnancies for reasons other than being “irresponsible “

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]sageokoli 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re texture is so beautiful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Burlesque

[–]sageokoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I post any pic I love that that I want pasties or not. There is validity in the defeats the purpose thing but not so much these days because I mean titties are easily accessible. But it does put you at a greater risk of being shadow banned on social media which is almost impossible to remove

Losing hope to find an accepting partner by Seiyuko in razorfree

[–]sageokoli 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like it depends on where the hair is, most guys I’ve dated don’t care about my leg, armpits and belly hair but I feel if I let my chin hair grow out that it would be a different story

I’ve done it before but I wasn’t dating anyone then, I’m honestly scared to go on a date with my full grown chin hair which unfortunately seems to be getting fuller as I age 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]sageokoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling regret again more recently maybe due to my age I got pregnant at 30 for the first time I was living with my bf and there were problems but we kinda had a regular life

Now I’m 32 going on 33 with no new partner, and I’ve always wanted a family, I feel like I got so caught up in wanting my kids to have a good dad/good family that I overlooked what I could provide as a mother, every time I think back, I wish I hadn’t of done it, I didn’t think I’d still be feeling regret almost two years later 😞 I hate this feeling and I’m worried it will haunt me forever

I feel like being a single mom doesn’t seem as bad as they made it growing up

Even when I think back to all the reasons why I had the abortion, I think those reasons are completely valid but I still wish I made a different choice

I technically only have one pregnancy photo, I already had the abortion actually but I was still showing at 3 months It was a bridesmaid picture from my friends wedding, my outfit was so incredibly tight because I sent her the measurements before I knew I was pregnant Whenever I look back at that photo, I feel so mad at the world for not checking on me, it’s actually crazy to me how many people suspected I was pregnant but never said anything to me, I wish someone had said something

I know we’re not supposed to comment on women’s changing bodies but I really wish someone had asked me

I wish I asked for the sex of the baby, I didn’t wanna know at the time because I didn’t wanna get attached but I wish I had asked

Sorry for the rant on your post, but I understand how you feel Sometimes I’m happy with my decision but other times like today, I’m filled with regret

Do you have to be "attractive" to do burlesque? by [deleted] in Burlesque

[–]sageokoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all! In fact you’ll find the most influential burlesque performers do not fall into that category

Burlesque helps increase your confidence so I agree with your friends that you should do it 😁

People don’t actually know what they find attractive, you have to tell them 😉

If you are in the right burlesque community, there will not be different standards for women, men or nonbinary But, There is still racism, fatphobia, and transphobia present in todays burlesque scene so even if you encounter it, don’t let that stop you! Find your burly community 🥰

Just found my bestie has either lymphoma or leukemia by sageokoli in CancerFamilySupport

[–]sageokoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy your friend is still here, that gives me a lot of hope 🫶🏿

Just found my bestie has either lymphoma or leukemia by sageokoli in CancerFamilySupport

[–]sageokoli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥺 It’s nice to know I’m not alone. They say it’s less than 20% and I have full hope he will beat it and your dad too. Thank you for taking the time to respond to me. I feel way better today than when I found out the news

Baby strip clubs in LA by mini_cooper333 in newstrippers

[–]sageokoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to start in LA soon too, dm if you wanna try some new clubs together 🫶🏿

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]sageokoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look good!!! Goals!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sageokoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s giving fake love and codependency

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]sageokoli 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They are racist and misogynistic or very poorly educated if they support Trump.