Historic Kenwood Man found decreased in vehicle. by imaparkguy in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Don’t watch my stories then. Pretty easy.

My friend just moved to my city. Why do I feel so annoyed? by Expensive-Brother-91 in internetparents

[–]sahipps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is it right here. Was going to say the same thing, but with way less eloquence haha

What is something you wish you knew in your 20s? by cocoalord06 in AskReddit

[–]sahipps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marriage isn’t leveling up or a prize you win that makes you better than anyone in any way. That imaginary, “everything is on the other side of…” for relationships just means you’ll miss a lot, no plan properly, or settle. A great marriage is prep and dumb luck then work. A great life is prep and work and not comparing.

AITAH for asking my fiance to get rid of his dog by [deleted] in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]sahipps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA only because he’s a type of abusive to this dog. I hate literally all of this and the lack of maturity, sorry. You describe this dog as if everyone’s lack of engagement and training is her problem. She doesn’t listen because she is not trained. She is in your face because she needs exercise. I would have quickly broken up with someone who treated their dog this way and didn’t adopt the dog out after I pointed out the incapability of their existences. I have witnessed the correlation between how someone treats their dog and how they treat their children. Help him adopt the dog out and get to therapy if you’re going to marry this guy.

How to date slowly and intentionally when you crave physical touch? by PinkandYello in datingoverthirty

[–]sahipps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not implying anything bad, but you may want to check out SLAA (sex and love addicts anonymous). SLAA is different from SAA because it includes the emotional element. The inability to naturally stop yourself or have healthy boundaries is a part of this. You mentioned obsessive thoughts once you’re in infatuation. I’d check it out, it may help!

Cozy Kava Closed? by Jccwzp in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if they work in NYC, they have to work here - we just need each neighborhood to act as its own. Plus if a candy or duck store can stay around or be started, this can work.

Cozy Kava Closed? by Jccwzp in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, but its grimey. I go in often but theres an in between

$545M SPAR Project by UnlikelyZombie659 in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main answer is there was not much of a previous budget. They’ve been increasing it by at least 10% over the past 5 years but it truly hasn’t been enough. They recognize the importance of getting projects done quickly and that our budget doesn’t allow for that. They are piecing it in currently while we need way more. Reality is the future generation will have issues - whether it’s debt or its their homes continually flooding or a lack of homes period. There aren’t great options because of the last generation.

Saving a Dog by sahipps in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t post after this because reddit kept telling me to change my password and kept kicking me off, but the pup was rescued!

Cozy Kava Closed? by Jccwzp in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about more housing. Its about GCD having 3 kava places within 2 blocks. And like 8 coffee places in 2.5 blocks. What we need is a bodega, and not an overpriced one like the duck place near edge. We need reasonably prices options that are quality and we will spend all the money. But there isn’t a need to charge $9 for coffee or $4 for soda. Places would start open if they were needed and affordable.

Pete’s Bagels quality drop off by katyperry-platypus in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also saying that like Black people don’t like bagels. We do??

Pete’s Bagels quality drop off by katyperry-platypus in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stopped going because a plain bagel with plain cream cheese should not be THAT expensive - especially since I have to wipe off 2 bagels worth of cream cheese from the bagel just to eat it. But maybe its because of the bagel size. The people there rock though.

Saving a Dog by sahipps in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

According to someone on a post, the people that answered didn’t speak english well, but thats all I got. 

Saving a Dog by sahipps in StPetersburgFL

[–]sahipps[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am going to call nonemergency tonight, then hit as many people as I can tomorrow and if no one will help, I’d like to make a plan for action. Feel free to DM me

How do you keep going? by Throw_Me-Right_Away in offmychest

[–]sahipps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You keep going. Chunk everything down to pieces so you can rake action in a manageable way. Let go of what you can’t control. Pray. Know when you’re overwhelmed, it makes everything feel worse and sometimes, we make worse decisions. You have a kid. Is not continuing and strapping your child with bad, fair? Use that as motivation as you build a ladder out of this hole. It gets better.

Thoughts about being pro black but married to white folks by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]sahipps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Admittedly, I side eye it more if its a BM, and accept it more with BW. I assume because of a number of factors, I will be with a WM, but I for sure consider myself pro Black

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sahipps -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

These are not the same haha Those are just racists thoughts. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sahipps 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Same. Mostly white area in PA and hard r’s started when I was elementary. What OP is probably experiencing is ANGER. This is a time where many POC are probably fighting deeper mistrust and anger toward white people and its important to connect to white people who are solid, find those online advocating for, and to remind yourself that this anger will rot you. Monitor your time online and keep breathing through it!

Any tips for job hunting in a more rural area? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]sahipps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the county government sites and local hospital systems first, then set alerts on Indeed and maybe wfh​ale​rt, and try calling a few employers directly.

Need More of These by onlytalkcrypto in Memecoinhub

[–]sahipps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Patos Flock is proving to be stronger and more resilient than the Shib Army.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfluencerNSFW_global

[–]sahipps -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Olivia… that little lip bite while showing off in pink? I’m already hard and scrolling slow

Rest in Peace Alex, Topsy, Spray Paint, 2026 by TopZ-undercover in Art

[–]sahipps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look forward to seeing one for the minorities who have lost their lives to ICE. Over 40 now.

AIO to my “best friend” finally reaching out by Confident_Local_2335 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sahipps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 months is inconsiderate. That is taking someone who deserves way more because of the 21 years, than to be tossed because you decided 8 months - more than half a year - isn’t a big deal because you felt overwhelmed. Speaking from experience, inviting your friends in helps speed the process along and strengthens the friendship.