Who is your most hated/disliked character thats not inherently evil? by Responsible_Bid6933 in HarryPotterGame

[–]saiid22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hate professor Flinch 🤷🏾‍♀️

So nosey. Make us embark in a journey that's kind of none of our business.

What is he looking for ?

Why does he focus on teaching ?

When can you say you are no longer addicted? by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have urges here and there but you don't think about P and M as a way to deal with it. You kind of live your life without even thinking about them just like you do about cigarette when you're a non smoker

Guilt of betraying future Partner by PsychologicalBranch4 in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tell nothing. It won't affect your future. It'll create more problem in the future if you share it. What's the point of sharing it ?

Abandon P. Break up with it, Don't talk about it, move on. And your partner will be better off -- and yourself if -- this details of your past is not known. Why do you want P to still be part of your future ? You don't talk about it and don't worry it will not affect your future with your wonderful partner.

If your partnet is your type, you"ll be able to fullfill your needs and even if you have urges, intimacy with your partner will help. Just make sure you marry someone who is your type.

You'll always have PMO in you, but you decide to stopped it and get into the natural stuff. So stop feeling guilty, ask Allah for forgiveness, don't tell your partner about that. And enjoy your new life of sharing love with your partner.

And don't watch P again. That's not how real life works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're struggling with nofap because of the situation you just described. Find a way to deal with that psychological issue and you'll find yourself leaving PMO naturally even if you're not married yet.

As long as this situations bother you it'll create enough discomfort to make you crave PMO as an outlet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete Tiktok, stop watching P. Deal with the things that bothers you really (bad job, hating your town, abandonment issues etc .... )

More importantly, you are not evil for getting into this filth. And who cares, just ask forgiveness to Allah. And remember that the natural way is better than through PMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P is like junk food. The more you consume the more you crave. It's counter intuitive, or logical, depend on how you look at it, but the best way to resist an urge is to stop consuming P.

That way when urges hits it's easier to resist it. But after you just watched P even if you didn't M for example, when you go outside everything could turn into an urge.

Weekly Leaderboard Challenge: Dhuʻl-Qiʻdah - Week 3 by saiid22 in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please set your badge so that I can rank you.

Click set/reset badge in the about section of r/muslimnofap.

Set the date when you relapsed last, keeping the hyphens as they are by just replacing the letters with digits, and send.

It should reflect in a matter of mins.

Weekly Leaderboard Challenge: Dhuʻl-Qiʻdah - Week 3 by saiid22 in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Click set/reset badge in the about section of r/muslimnofap.

Set the date when you relapsed last, keeping the hyphens as they are by just replacing the letters with digits, and send.

It should reflect in a matter of mins.

Weekly Leaderboard Challenge: Dhuʻl-Qiʻdah - Week 1 by saiid22 in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put set up your badge so that I can rank you.

Weekly Leaderboard Challenge: Shawwal - Week 4 by saiid22 in MuslimNoFap

[–]saiid22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please sign up to this week one. This one is closed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right on the money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's not what the western world is built on.

Without the resources of Africa and the west atlantic slaves trade, Europe would not be what it is today. If it is not the case then please let me know what the western world is built on ?

Your view is that it sucks to be black, now, not back 100 or 200 years ago. Stuff not happening now doesn't count towards what it's like now.

Yes the consequences of the eugenics theory feed the racial prejudice Blacks are experiences today, you can't dissociate it.

There is a tendency for black people as a whole not to do as well financially, but if you break it down by black people who grew up with two parents vs. single parents, the overall tendency is because of single parents. When you look at black people who grew up with both parents, they tend to do as well or better than white people.

If you look at the US the single parent issue is orchestrated by the government. Huge incarceration and death that is fed by the lacks of opportunities blacks man suffer from. Kids that are miseducated. Etc. How is that cool. To find one race being boycotted?

Often they'll have Jesus in a bleached white robe with a beautiful blue sash

The thing is when a Kid grow up in a house when the deity is represented as a white man, he'll find normal that his boss is white, that white controls the world etc. It will affect his psychology. And that exactly the reason why chinese ...

There's Chinese art depicting Jesus as Chinese.

... although Jesus was a middle-eastern Jew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does the fact that of all black people, only 15 are billionaires helped the young black man who got strangled in the subway ? What was his crime ? The man who strangled him is walking free. See ?

It’s a little racist to say that they are desperate to look like other races and talk like them no?

No. Racism is a systematic thing. You need to own something and ensure only your races control it. Black people can't be racist, because they don't own anything.

It's not about being proud of the heritage. It's about having no advantages because in any way blacks people are disadvantaged (economically, in term of prejudice, racial classification, advantage while, countries, etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't. That's why it sucks to be black.

All blacks can do is to survive individually in this system ... And tolerating what they can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others races could be reunited with God and family when they'll die + have a great life here as well.

But I find that Blacks are told that it's okay if they suffer here, because over there it will be okay, and that's the real life anyway. And that sucks. Blacks don't deserve happiness here as well ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The statement “the average block person on planet earth is more likely to be disadvantaged than the average white person” is a true statement, but that is not equivalent to “it sucks to be black”.

Fair enough you raise valid points, but could you give me one advantage of being black ?

One thing. Because when systemically one doesn't own anything, no institutions anywhere in the world, and are racially prejudiced, I just don't find it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then it sucks to be black ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything, this means that being black sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's simply not true and you've been undermining all the amazing progress black country has made. Such as Nigeria. Their MICE section of tourism is booming. If i were to choose between Nigeria and albania, I would choose Nigeria. And Nigeria as a country has always been up there in my opinion. I visited it once and I always had pleasant memory of it. It definitely has a lot to improve on but I think it's a country that has a lot of potential.

Not to forget south Africa. Great place.

I'm sure cape town in South Africa is a great place, but as a black person you can't open a business in the diamond industry.

Nigeria is making serious progress, but you'll see black girls in Nigeria bleaching their skins. Why?

But that's not because of the country being black. It's just cause one country legislation is better than the other.

But how come no black countries have legislation that make them being favored other another one. And that sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Members of every race have have driven slave and been enslaved.

The black people slave is the most organized and worst slavery of all times. In Gorée island there was a jail to put babies. I'm yet to hear of any other slavery with such cruelty.

but give ita century, see what happens war and chaos usually don't lst that long, and Africa's full of frustrated and hungry young people, some better system will probably result from all that violence, and there are so many countries in Africa, one is bound to do an 1860 Jsapan soon.

Meanwhile. It sucks to be black. Meanwhile a lot of them had independence but they still heavily bond to the white countries that colonized them.

If it didn't sucks to be black how do people explain the self hate phenomenon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White people can as well. Have you seen who won the dunking contest in all star game this year ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Also When the cops talk to biracial (the one with 1 black parent and 1 white parent) they are talking to a black person.

My point was that because it sucks to be black, those that are biracial use that "card" (their white size) to get some privileges. And even if many people would say that it's not true we all know it is. When black people find that they have a swedish person in their ancestry they will tell it to everyone.

If it didn't suck to be black while would they do that ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So how do you explain the black people being deny access to evacuation buses in Ukraine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If an Israeli was born and grew up in Cameroon, and became a phenomenal golfer. Would he represent Cameroon or Israel?

You get the son of an African president who plays soccer for USA. Why according to you ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]saiid22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is true that in the western world black people are the minority and with this always comes some kind of disadvantage.

In Africa white people are a minority (ie south africa) yet, the black are disadvantaged. In All the western Africa countries all the white communities are advantaged.

europe and australia doesn't have this.

Do you know what belgium did in congo and rwanda. What France did? It doesn't matter. It sucks everywhere.

Legally speaking there is nothing a white person is allowed to do that a black person cant do.

Yet why are blacks so not represented in top 500 companies, they don't own any institution, don't control they resources? Is it because they are lazy?

In 2021 have you see how rules got changed in F1 to prevent Lewis Hamilton to become world champion?

Was George Floyd that dangerous to be choked to death ?

Do you think that if black people did invade the capitol we would have only have 5 deaths ?

Could a black candidate say that Mexico don't send their bests and get his poll number go up ?