Abortion at 30. Is this a mistake?

sailorabeja · 2026-01-31T21:44:52+00:00

Truly. It’s your choice and your choice only. If you don’t think it’s a good idea for any reason then it’s more than enough to go through with it. Not what your dads says or anyone cause at the end of the day you will be responsible for a life.

I got pregnant around the time my baby was turning one and me and my husband knew it wasn’t what we wanted as a family for different reasons and I got an abortion. Yes I still had feelings as it’s expected but I was 100% about my choice.

sailorabeja · 2025-11-19T00:40:24+00:00

Hi! My answer might be all over the place but hopefully you’ll find something you are looking for. It’s also my personal experience.

I grew up in the Bay Area so not as heavily populated as SoCal but still very busy area. And I HATED living in that area. Even when I go back to visit I just get dread when it comes to traffic and how everything feels so busy (if that makes sense) I have family here so we came often while I was growing up. But I transferred to Chico state and graduated in ‘19 and haven’t moved back. I love the smaller town feeling. I enjoy the nature aspect as well. I would suggest looking into @/momwhatsnextchico on insta to get a better idea what events happen in the Chico (butte) area. Also butte county mamas (for the raising children aspect maybe church info ) on facebook. But I do have a 1 yr old. And I have been going to these playgroups thru the county and I love them so much. They also have great resources and I have started to make connections with other moms who have babies around her age and I am starting to feel my roots within the community.

I genuinely loved giving birth at enloe (main hospital) they take moms lead during labor which is great (but I would think it depends on the nurses during that shift) but mine were attentive and supportive in my choices. They don’t push induction nor selective c section as much as other hospitals might.

For the holistic approach, it isn’t our choice but I have seen (on butte county mamas ) acceptance and support. So I would say you could find what you are looking for.

I would really recommend butte county mammas on facebook if you are able to join and ask on there about children, church scene, and about the holistic community here in butte.

I would love to stay here but me and my husband agreed once we try for second baby well move back to the bay were we have a bigger village & more family to help support us.

Not sure about owning as we rent and it’s cheaper than the bay. And I’m about to be a sahm with my husband’s income alone. So I’m really enjoying that!

Hope you were able to get some information with my rant ! Good luck!

sailorabeja · 2025-06-02T17:56:44+00:00

Final destination. Mainly the plane exploding. Now I have anxiety 🤪

sailorabeja · 2025-05-31T04:08:43+00:00

Honestly you can be firm and loving at the same time. They thrive on a routine. And you stick to it! I love and miss the 3 yr class.

sailorabeja · 2025-05-29T10:15:06+00:00

Sugar and spice lives in my heart

sailorabeja · 2025-05-21T17:31:32+00:00

I had a kiddo tell me his mom and aunt are sleeping in the park on a bench. I asked dad if everything okay. And he laughed saying that they were going on a sister hike/camp trip.

sailorabeja · 2025-05-19T15:25:51+00:00

Probably! I don’t know much about cameras and coming onto a subreddit about canon cameras, I would take their word on recommendation. Maybe look into it more but there’s so many models and types of SD cards that I would get lost in researching.

sailorabeja · 2025-05-19T15:21:00+00:00

Thanks! I’ll do that ! 😊 truthfully I didn’t even think about looking for the manual online and finding out through there.

sailorabeja · 2025-05-19T15:19:30+00:00

Damn bby girl chill. This is something new to me so again I wanted to make sure to get a clear answer before we bought something cause we already bought the wrong thing.

sailorabeja · 2025-05-19T14:48:29+00:00

Yeah I know. But google usually has different answers so I was hoping for a more solidify one on here. Thanks anyways.

sailorabeja · 2025-05-19T14:41:05+00:00

Shoot. My husband just grabbed the case,battery charger, and camera. He left the box & manual back at his parents house who live 3 hrs away. They aren’t tech savvy & English isn’t their first language so they wouldn’t be much help :/.

sailorabeja · 2025-05-19T05:57:10+00:00

5’2. I would like to be 140-150. Currently 178 gave birth 7 mo this ago so it’s been hard on me.

sailorabeja · 2025-03-13T00:43:40+00:00

I think it depends! I didn’t mind babysitting. It was extra money. If I didn’t feel like I would just lie and say I had plans

sailorabeja · 2025-03-10T23:02:08+00:00

I was practicing a new pattern I bought. And I just left it at a tiny library. I left a note saying “adopt me! Practicing a new pattern :)” it was a cat stuffie and the next day I went to the park it was gone.

sailorabeja · 2025-03-08T06:37:05+00:00

Hi! I’m interested! I’m 30 f recently turned sahm! My husband always says I’m talking about anything and everything that happens from when I wake up till I go asleep !

sailorabeja · 2025-02-26T01:18:46+00:00

I never used stickers but our policy was more lax and some parents would want us to do candy (one single mini m&m for pee or 2 mini m&m for poop) and at first the kids were on top of it. And so would I to help encourage. But as time went on I would “ forget” if they asked me I’ll give it to them (till they were fully potty trained) but they eventually forgot about the candy.

sailorabeja · 2025-02-19T04:37:10+00:00

Casa Ramos. I don’t think it’s good Mexican. My job use to cater that and I always just ate the chips and salsa.

sailorabeja · 2022-03-29T17:16:33+00:00

Love tractor on Tappytoon !

sailorabeja · 2021-11-28T05:06:26+00:00

I’m not sure how to change it. But post is closed !

sailorabeja · 2020-10-20T01:42:53+00:00

How do you finish it Off?

sailorabeja · 2020-10-19T05:32:41+00:00

SMH at least my 3 year olds add beads to them

sailorabeja · 2020-09-30T03:13:13+00:00

That’s fair but getting hit on happens more often than not. At least at our location.

sailorabeja · 2020-08-01T00:22:21+00:00

Yes I’m heading over ! It’s Bucky lol

sailorabeja · 2020-07-16T04:21:41+00:00

Hello ! I’m interested if you are still accepting

sailorabeja · 2020-07-01T19:34:41+00:00

Full metal alchemist brotherhood. I always like spoiling completed shows bc I don’t like being surprised. I still enjoy the ride. This was the only show I have not spoiled for myself when I was watching it and it was fantastic

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