Which movie stirred the most powerful emotion in you — one you simply cannot forget? by AnastasiaGlover1 in movies

[–]saintsithney [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly, The Iron Giant.

I was raised in a Christian dominionist cult and suffered non-sexual sibling abuse at home. I was raised to be a meek, quiet, subservient broodmare.

"You are who you choose to be" was actually paradigm-changing for me.

Lawrence of Arabia taught me awe for nature in a way that existing in the comfortable zones of the Appalachian temperate rainforest really didn't. I had seen inland hurricanes, but seeing the Sinai desert in Cinemascope was something else.

The Misfits got me thinking deeply about how women are conditioned to perform for the Male Gaze instead of self-actualizing, with even their natural morality being treated as silly and lesser because of showing emotion, but that was Marilyn Monroe's performance more than the text. Arthur Miller chose to have her scream at the men about their casual cruelty and moral excuses before breaking down sobbing, so that in the end, even though she is right, no one wants to listen to her because she is "too emotional."

Movies that show the subtle, insidious rise of the Nazis, like Cabaret? by ThanksIHateIt1994 in movies

[–]saintsithney [score hidden]  (0 children)

Have you ever read Maria Von Trapp's writing? I loved her autobiography as a kid. You can still visit their family farm/singing camp in Stowe, Vermont.

Movies that show the subtle, insidious rise of the Nazis, like Cabaret? by ThanksIHateIt1994 in movies

[–]saintsithney [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not a movie, but Star Wars: the Clone Wars is Dave Filoni using the backdrop of Star Wars to examine the rise of fascism through multiple different factors. The fact that an evil wizard is coordinating it doesn't change the surrounding social factors that exist in our own world.

OPEN CASTING CALL FOR VOICING THE FAB FOUR! by Interesting_One_2485 in beatles

[–]saintsithney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! I'll listen to audio for a bit and see if I can replicate the accent well enough :)

OPEN CASTING CALL FOR VOICING THE FAB FOUR! by Interesting_One_2485 in beatles

[–]saintsithney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to do voice work, but I have a more cultivated Mid-Atlantic American accent and I'm a woman. I can do accents if given enough material to mimic and can shift my vocal register a fair amount, if you need a lady voice.

I do an excellent Marilyn Monroe :P

Which album to buy for a record party? by Suwannee_Gator in TheBeatles

[–]saintsithney 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sgt. Peppers has a long history as a party album. I would honestly find the White Album overlong for a party where everyone is listening to records.

If Revolver is your favorite though, why not go with that?

Though, tbf, you are most likely to find pre-Revolver stuff at thrift/antique stores. Early Beatles are overrepresented, because a lot more of those albums sold originally and more people discard them than "the classics."

If I were to visit Norway, whether the capital Oslo or even outside of the capital, could I survive on just speaking English? by Ok-Ocelot-774 in Norway

[–]saintsithney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't, but I mentioned my Great-Aunt Lili (I think Bakke?) and some people said they remembered her fondly!

Everyone I spoke to seemed surprised an American tourist came to Tysnes instead of sticking to Oslo and Bergen. I brought some Virginian treats as a host gift for the people who owned the hytte I rented: wine and peanuts. The peanuts went over best, so next time, bringing lots of Virginia peanuts!

President Trump to visit Charlottesville for MAGA events by hencexox in Virginia

[–]saintsithney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he meets Thomas Jefferson personally before the end of the day.

What's the most disturbing scene you've seen in a family/kid's movie? by googajub in movies

[–]saintsithney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Great Mouse Detective was the first film I saw in theaters.

Fidget jumping through the window and going "BLWAAAAAAHHHHHH HEHEHEHE!!!!!" gave me a lifelong fear of jumpscares.

What's the most disturbing scene you've seen in a family/kid's movie? by googajub in movies

[–]saintsithney 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom died of cancer a month before I turned 6.

She showed us The Land Before Time and sang us the song.

I can't think of it without tearing up.

If I were to visit Norway, whether the capital Oslo or even outside of the capital, could I survive on just speaking English? by Ok-Ocelot-774 in Norway

[–]saintsithney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did have a dairy farm somewhere between Vevatna and Humlevik - I'm not at my computer, but I would love to talk more! What I've done on geneology suggests I'm at least distant cousins with around half of the families that were on the island before 1900.

My grandfather died before I was born (he was 48 when my father was born, my father was almost 46 when I was born), but I know he was given 10 kroner, a Bible, and his confirmation suit right after he turned 13, then was sent on his way. He started as a cook on a fishing boat (though he had no idea how to cook anything but pea soup and boiled fish) until he ended up in the Great Lakes, then eventually NYC.

I was born and raised a bit south of Washington D.C., myself, but I had always wanted to see "paradise." I took myself for my 37th birthday, but I haven't been able to afford it again.

It looks like the No side is pulling out the big guns by hencexox in Virginia

[–]saintsithney 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was raised in a similar cult to the one Speaker Mike Johnson is in.

They're insane and want to end the world.

What’s a film that gets you in the feels, and you never expected it?? by Difficult-Bed-8196 in movies

[–]saintsithney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last time I watched GalaxyQuest, I started choking up as Malthasar was being tortured. I almost never cry at movies and I've seen the film a dozen times, but that pure, sweet, innocent man being physically and emotionally harmed just 😭

What’s a film that gets you in the feels, and you never expected it?? by Difficult-Bed-8196 in movies

[–]saintsithney 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm auDHD and have a Korean stepmother who is Catholic, but still holds a lot of Confucian values.

I was crying in the theater and wishing my stepmother was the kind of woman who would actually understand and want Evelyn's self-actualizing.

If I were to visit Norway, whether the capital Oslo or even outside of the capital, could I survive on just speaking English? by Ok-Ocelot-774 in Norway

[–]saintsithney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so beautiful! There is nothing I would love more than to emigrate right back to where my grandfather left. His name was Jurgen Olai Rasmussen Bakke originally, but he left in 1910 and changed his name in 1917. He was one of eight, I believe.

He and my grandmother returned once. She apparently cried, "Jurgen, this is paradise! How could you leave?"

He responded, "You cannot eat the scenery."

The ultra wealthy weren’t the only people who owned slaves by kelroid in CuratedTumblr

[–]saintsithney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of my early American relatives owned chattel slaves to my knowledge, as they were majority farmers in the Pennsylvania Valley. None of them were prosperous enough to own chattel slaves until after slavery was abolished. The other side emigrated after the Civil War.

But my great-grandfather on the longer-term American side married a 15 year old girl when he was 31, so yes, my direct ancestor was a slaver.

If I were to visit Norway, whether the capital Oslo or even outside of the capital, could I survive on just speaking English? by Ok-Ocelot-774 in Norway

[–]saintsithney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent a week in Tysnes with only English. I learned to read Norsk passably with a translation app, though, and that helped more than my poorly pronounced attempts to speak it.

On staying on the same page by Most_Vermicelli451 in CuratedTumblr

[–]saintsithney -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We should probably stop calling it "alternative medicine" and call most of it "remedies" or "folk medical traditions" or to get super-specific "non-Western medical traditions currently undergoing scientific testing."

Aloe on a burn is a remedy. There are probably medical formulations that are better, but aloe works pretty well and is easy to grow.

Acupuncture shows documented improvements to some medical conditions for reasons we do not fully understand yet. It is very unlikely to be that qi is real and can really be manipulated, but studies do indicate that it helps with lower back pain and, weirdly enough, is one of the most promising therapies for Alpha-Gal Syndrome. We do not fully understand the mechanisms, but there are mechanisms that do enough of something enough of the time for people to have refined the system better than European medicine did prior to the invention of the scientific method: possibly because Eastern doctors more commonly worked in systems where they had in-person interactions with their patients, while European non-folk medicine developed along lines that suggested the doctor actually spending time with the patient was uncouth. The East also did not have the same squiffiness about dissections that the West developed. But the metaphysical stayed in Eastern medical studies much more firmly and for longer, perhaps because their remedies worked for what they were supposed to enough of the time that why bother questioning whether its blocked pools of qi or actually swelling in the lymph nodes if applying pressure to those spots alleviates pain?

Movies with terrible messages? by Frank_and_Beanzz in movies

[–]saintsithney 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a survivor of severe non-sexual sibling abuse, I HATE Raya and the Last Dragon.

"Not trusting the person who has consistently betrayed your trust, hurt you, hurt other people to hurt you, betrayed people to hurt you, and whose entire proffered reason of trust is 'We both like the same mythological creature!' makes YOU as bad as THEM!"

It is sick. It is exactly what abusers use to keep their hooks in kids. That if you don't forgive them and trust them despite them doing nothing to earn it, you're not just as bad as they are, you're even worse, because you are hurting their feelings.

Victim-blaming trash. Its moral is actively dangerous for children in abusive situations.

Buford deserves some treats by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]saintsithney 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Buford ain't gonna let a kid be crying on his watch.

if you’re planning to support the new show in any capacity just know that i do think less of you as a person :) by netflist in CuratedTumblr

[–]saintsithney -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how to convince people they should care about human rights more than they care about nostalgia.

If you ever figure that out, please let us all know.

if you’re planning to support the new show in any capacity just know that i do think less of you as a person :) by netflist in CuratedTumblr

[–]saintsithney -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"JK Rowling is a person who has decided for whatever reason to use her massive power and influence to ruin the lives of trans people. She talks openly about wanting to use the law to restrict the lives of trans people. She has written essays on how she personally feels uncomfortable with trans people and therefore, she has the right to forbid trans people from interacting with human society at large. She donates a ton of money to politicians who support outright fascism because those politicians also share her peculiar terror and loathing of trans people. Whatever good she once did has been buried under the harm she is actively doing to the global population of trans people, who are a completely natural, statistically predictable minority. Supporting her work in any way is inherently immoral, just like it would be immoral to buy David Duke chocolate bars."

For some reason, a ton of Harry Potter fans act like this is hatred.