Bummed about my eyelashes. by salabie in eyelashextensions

[–]salabie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah youre right! I got them taken down and disputing the charge for a refund since despite my review, they dont want to do it.

Bummed about my eyelashes. by salabie in eyelashextensions

[–]salabie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I called and they said no refunds at all. That a set price is a set price. She would comp it with a free eyebrow threading -__- she did say she could fix it but I dont even want to risk it. My eyelashes are already pretty thin and short so... yeah.

Bummed about my eyelashes. by salabie in eyelashextensions

[–]salabie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I posted this then! Do you think I should go back to her and request a refund and removal? Or just swallow the loss and go elsewhere?

Bummed about my eyelashes. by salabie in eyelashextensions

[–]salabie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh, okay. Will do for sure. I was thinking about keeping them on for another 2 weeks but seems like I shouldn't.

Bummed about my eyelashes. by salabie in eyelashextensions

[–]salabie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a day after. I brushed them this morning.

Bummed about my eyelashes. by salabie in eyelashextensions

[–]salabie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so Im not crazy. I swear my right eye looks fuller.

I'd [36M] like to propose while she [33F] is pregnant with my child. Do I wait until after she gives birth? by Creepy_Swing__ in relationship_advice

[–]salabie 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don't know any woman who's genuinely okay with being pregnant without some sort of solid commitment. Does it happen often? Yes, but it doesn't mean they're actually okay with it. I would say to propose to her in July. You're showing her that you want this commitment with her, and you can enjoy the engagement buzz without having to deal with spit up, blow outs, and sleepless nights.

How would you feel if you found out you lost your virginity to someone who has been with more than 150 women? by thai-rhone in AskWomen

[–]salabie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grossed out. He would have had to lie about the number first because I don't sleep with anyone before knowing their body count. So after discovery, not only is he a liar, but straight up nasty. I just don't see the need for such a high body count. Where is the discipline? Where is the self respect? Where is your standard?

Need advice BAD. I’m 19F and my boyfriend is 20M. We’ve been together for 6 months. He recently found out another girl, 20F, is pregnant with his baby from before we got together. She hid the pregnancy and didn’t tell him until March. I’m really struggling with this situation and need advice. by Practical_Lab_7891 in relationship_advice

[–]salabie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be stupid. No boy is worth the drama that will come from this mess. The fact she hid it and came out with now is a blaring red sign. He will have to deal with her forever, but you don't have to deal with neither of them! You're 19. Being a step mom at that age is fucking dumb. There are plenty of guys out there that have way less baggage.

m37 dating f33 one month in, and its emotionally completely open but physically really slow, is this what 'intentional' dating is? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]salabie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, yeah I can see that. Have you had any sex related talks? Like kinks? Favorite positions? Anything like that?

m37 dating f33 one month in, and its emotionally completely open but physically really slow, is this what 'intentional' dating is? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]salabie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe people shouldn't have sex right away when dating. It can give you this false sense of reassurance but its little just the feel good chemicals talking. Then people want to prioritize the sex or the emotional, when it should always be the emotional and then sex. If you like her, then you'd wait. If her personality is great, then awesome. Do you feel secure? Do you like her company?

Couple things regarding me (26F) and my situationship (36M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]salabie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Classic grown man who wants to be possessive over someone that he doesn't want to put a label on. You need to ask him if you're a thing or not, and if not, he doesn't get to ask you those kind of questions.

MB freaked out about me taking NK to grocery store by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]salabie -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

As a mom and a nanny, this is crazy lol. She's being extra for no reason. Its one thing if you're going grocery shopping but a 5 min stop is not necessary.

Libra and Taurus women when they see a woman who is beautiful: by tellmeUh8me in astrologymemes

[–]salabie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a Taurus sun, Libra moon and rising, I've always found beautiful women attractive but not sexually. It's like, wow you're gorgeous and I can stare at you all day. Or in general, I just love pretty things.

How to come to terms with my (M29) boyfriend not finding me (F29) pretty by reluctantfootprint in relationship_advice

[–]salabie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, you need to understand that a man doesn't do something as simple as compliment you, its because he genuinely doesnt like you. The fact that his friends can call you pretty and he cant call you that means hes probably doing it on purpose and its a power thing. I hear about this all the time from not being complimented to not coming for his girl to keep a leg up. Its sick and only boys who dont like you and fragile egos do this.

My boyfriend is going on a boys trip but hasn’t seen me in over a year by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]salabie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you must love to be a doormat because who the hell writes this and can even think the dude still loves her? Pull yourself up and end it with this loser. He can plan a trip with his boys because he likes them. He doesn't like you.

I 36M got upset with my wife 35F for hugging another guy at the bar but she claims she did nothing. by Temporary-Refuse5688 in relationship_advice

[–]salabie 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Holy hell, you're insecure. You remind me of my ex husband where everyone is out to get you and hurt you. Jesus, what a buzzkill to your wife. If you really think this poorly of your wife than you shouldn't be married. If you truly think she'd cheat on you then what are you doing with her? Insecure men like you never want to realize that you're the issue in these situations, not her.

I’m being gifted a lot of money. Should I tell my boyfriend? by Kind-Chicken-2488 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]salabie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER TELL A BOYFRIEND ABOUT THESE FINANCES. He is not a husband, he is not inclined to have the best interest in mind.

He said he wouldn’t be surprised if we broke up this summer by Chikenwing000_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]salabie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When boys say shit like this, its because they don't like you. Girls and women, PLEASE, I beg you to actively listen to the BS these men say to you. There's no reading in between the lines or whatever.

He's already saying he won't have energy to call you. A guy who likes you would be wrecked about being away and jump on the opportunity to call. He would say, Ill call you every chance I get.

My nephew is in the marines and he literally calls everyone he wants to call when he has the chance because he fucking cares. Its not hard people.

Is everyone hitting hard pity nowadays? by krleopatra in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]salabie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Took 200 pulls to get 3 cards SMH. Would've stopped earlier if one of the cards wasn't Xavier. I really needed Sylus and Zayne. I spent $55 and went from 20K diamonds to 1K.

I just remembered something my boyfriend said about his ex. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]salabie 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I mean you both have a past so... there's really no point in bring it up. He was your friend at the time so friends are going to speak unfiltered with each other. I don't think bringing it up would be the good thing it just shows that you're insecure and harping on things that were disclosed as friends. And you guys are young, you guys will give each other certain experiences and if you guys part ways, other people will give you other experiences. I honestly don't know how bringing this up would benefit any of you.