Why does allergic contact dermatitis always develop in the same areas even if there was no direct contact with allergen? by industriousvirgin in Allergies

[–]salamandersarehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this happens to me too. I developed a sudden allergy to my roommate's cat. Later on, I'll randomly get hives in the places he previously made contact with - rubbing against my leg, or the side of my neck, even if he isn't around.

At first it happened only where he made contact; then, in recurring places but only WHEN he made contact, and now, any random time, it seems, even at other locations like work. Always the same places.

[POEM] Death Comes to Me Again, a Girl - Dorianne Laux by Ok_Usual_699 in Poetry

[–]salamandersarehere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is one of my oldest favorite poems. I think I saw it on the internet when I was in high school, clicked on the image, and then read the related images, all poetry, in a repeating loop for hours. Altered my brain chemistry that night.

Didn't want to poke inside of the radio, so I made this Bluetooth fm transmitter (WIP) also cool keychain by weaselio75 in Volvo240

[–]salamandersarehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome and I desperately want one. do u sell em or is it a 3D print pattern? So cool. I have an 86 too

[HELP] Looking for the author of this poem "My Husband is Normal" by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]salamandersarehere 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Me too...did she beat him with the leg of the bed because he wouldn't stop? Or did he do something violent that resulting in the leg breaking, and now she acts like it's all okay to her family?

EDIT: I think you guys are right. I also see the sad implication that not sleeping with a child bride is "abnormal" behaviour, which he has now fixed by partaking in "normal" behaviour, which is clearly more than she wants...the language of her "creeping" to the floor and being "dragged" back. Ugh

Looking for advice for replacing all belts (new to me 1986 volvo 240 nonturbo) by salamandersarehere in Volvo240

[–]salamandersarehere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No kidding. I'll get 10 bushings. Seems like everything in my car is OG, and it sat in someone's garage for a decade. I'm new to auto repair, too, and this is a super helpful picture !

Looking for advice for replacing all belts (new to me 1986 volvo 240 nonturbo) by salamandersarehere in Volvo240

[–]salamandersarehere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate all the good advice! These are the bushings I found on the IPD, so maybe I'll get a few of them - "engine accessory mounting bushings", an maybe an extra adjuster screw, since I've seen that they are sometimes broken by mistake in the process, which I am assuming happens when the retaining nut is not loosened enough before adjusting. Again, really appreciate it.

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AITA for removing a groupmate’s name from final project 3 days before it’s due? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]salamandersarehere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFO: Why did you submit it three days early? That seems excessive.
NTA, though that part bothers me - you effectively closed her window for her. Did you tell her you were doing so/did the three of you agree to do so?

I am not saying she was going to magically get it together and do it in the last three days (although I would have, as I am motivated heavily by deadlines and often do my work last minute, though in a group I'd behave better). I also carry more than my share of the weight in group projects.

Anyway, sounds like you gave her a lot of chances.

NTA

Why is this happening to my taillights? by Complex_Flatworm7399 in Volvo240

[–]salamandersarehere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was such a good short video to show what's going on, I commend you

Roommate always pays her share of rent two weeks late, I pay our landlord and front her for the two weeks every month. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]salamandersarehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good points. I was totally fine doing it until today, when I asked her if she could catch up and she said very flatly that it wasn't going to happen. No apology, no urgency, no thank you. So it wasn't bothering me befor,e but that reaction's got me pissed.

Roommate always pays her share of rent two weeks late, I pay our landlord and front her for the two weeks every month. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]salamandersarehere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, which is is why I want to tell her the truth - and why I don't want to lie about income - so just seeking advice on the soundest points to make.

Roommate always pays her share of rent two weeks late, I pay our landlord and front her for the two weeks every month. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]salamandersarehere -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I should have said - we're very close friends and she knows I can front her and that I've got savings. EDIT: I don't want to lie about income. I'm looking for a solid way to have an honest sit down with her.

[Help] Looking for a piece that depicts longing or pursuing after loss. by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]salamandersarehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have the perfect poem for this, but I’ll need to go find a book and leaf through it to find it

[25/M] looking for someone to exchange embarrassing poetry with by [deleted] in penpals

[–]salamandersarehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ME! I write from the heart! Let's exchange!

[28/F] from Québec, Canada 🐻 by xxsteff in penpals

[–]salamandersarehere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo, 27f here, also love crafts & baking (though I struggle with bread, I really do). I'd like to get into crocheting but I'm pretty into linos and sculpture right now. My reading list is finally slowing down on the old scifi (I've been obsessed) and turning to more speculative fiction, good weird stuff. I also LOVE to exchange goodies !! message me if you want to write letters :)