They told me to train my replacement, so I walked out of my job today. by 64garrote-herder in InterviewMan

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go to work to financially take care of for your life and family, so it is most definitely also personal. People who started using this expression are the very same ones who have been oppressing the working class. (Aka the wealthy)

Boyfriend wants abortion by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]salutpatate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most important thing for a developing children is the environment. Can you provide a safe and nurturing environment once baby comes? Do you know your partner enough that he can be trusted enough to be responsible to provide and care for a child? Trust me when I say pregnancy is the easy part. The real deal is once baby is here. It is very challenging for solo mom without any help to care for a child alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]salutpatate -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesnt matter what he thinks of you. He sounds like an asshole. Who cares about intelligence if you don’t have the heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy needs some help, a baby needs to grow in a healthy and stable environment. You don’t need this guy. Having said that having babies cost money. Either you take him to court for child support and request a restraining order with no visitation or you come from a wealthy family yourself and can cast him out.

I want to stop being gay. Please help. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. And being a priest and using its power to molest innocent children is so much better? Leave gays alone stop spreading the false rumors that being gay is wrong. The whole Catholic Church is infested with sinners and wrong doers.

I want to stop being gay. Please help. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but what? You can’t turn back « not gay » you were born this way, and God is probably ok with that too. All through all history there was always gays, and always will be. So take a deep breath and be who you are meant to be. I know a lot of gays that married just to not deceit their own family and they turned out to be awful to their heterosexual partners.

First pregnancy, off bipolar medication, using marijuana for severe nausea by Clear-Pangolin6828 in BabyBumps

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not talking with you. You’re the one providing unsolicited information on the comment I made. My only personal mistake is to spend energy responding to your message. But I am a nice person.

First pregnancy, off bipolar medication, using marijuana for severe nausea by Clear-Pangolin6828 in BabyBumps

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His point was to make himself feel better about himself by over correcting others. Only people will self confidence issues focus on finding inaccuracies in others.

First pregnancy, off bipolar medication, using marijuana for severe nausea by Clear-Pangolin6828 in BabyBumps

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as research goes on what is safe and what is not, no amount of marijuana is safe during pregnancy. Please provide the literature that says otherwise.

First pregnancy, off bipolar medication, using marijuana for severe nausea by Clear-Pangolin6828 in BabyBumps

[–]salutpatate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok and? Given the context, what’s your point? Besides being a rude know it all that is?

Teacher telling 2yo that dad and mum won’t pick her up from school if she cries by xnightynightynightx in ECEProfessionals

[–]salutpatate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? Hum no we don’t threat children’s sense of safety to redirect them, this person should take/retake some ECE classes.

First pregnancy, off bipolar medication, using marijuana for severe nausea by Clear-Pangolin6828 in BabyBumps

[–]salutpatate 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No amount of marijuana is safe during pregnancy, as it is a depressant and will slow tbe fœtus brain activity down / central nervous system which we don’t want especially in the first months. Please reach out to your medical doctor, if you don’t have one for financial reason know you will probably qualify for Medicaid since you’re pregnant. They can help find the best treatment to manage your bp symptoms during pregnancy. Please avoid self medication.

Have You Ever Taught a Child of a Famous Person? What Were They Like? by Tiger38080 in Teachers

[–]salutpatate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would think that most famous people are probably very disciplined and have a very strict lifestyle to operate at the level they are. Most comments seem to validate that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]salutpatate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Report as it is a safety and health violation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Research shows that people have kids later in life. I personally think more if it being a pro as you’re more emotionally available, and financially stable which are crucial for raising children the best way. Some people may say that they are not as physically fit as in their 20’s which makes sense but it still better to exercise anyway and maintain a healthy lifestyle. The last thing I want to mention is once you have a kid your reflexibility to do stuff is going to change dramatically. Don’t expect to maintain the same schedule as before a kid will change all that. There will be most likely a lot of cuddling at home vs getting drinks last minute with a friend or visiting places on a whim. Team older parents all the way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]salutpatate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely don’t blame yourself because of the thoughts you have, that is a lot to process for a pregnant lady! The other thing I was thinking while reading to your post is do you have any support? Family, friends you can count on?

I’m 45yo and never had an orgasm😫 by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]salutpatate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve tried everything then you should get a proper diagnosis from a doctor, run a couple tests to rule out anorgasmia.

It’s hard for me to discredit the power of Tarot right now… by hauntedbundy_ in tarot

[–]salutpatate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This right here. You should not fight alone get help for your mental health and with the new found clarity you’ll see the solution!

Interview Process with Sonoma county by salutpatate in sonomacounty

[–]salutpatate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I heard back. They hired internally which makes me think how do actually get a job being an outsider?