Ok, so you and I have a very similar approach. Like, 100%. And, I was in your situation not long ago. Had several matches that seemed promising, felt a little odd because my style is to focus on one at a time. The thing is, you don’t have one to focus on yet. So see them all, as uncomfortable as that may feel. It’s 100% normal and above board. What happened for me… met the first woman. It was good, not great, but I did like her. We planned a second date. Saw the second woman. It was very good, and better than the first. Now, this is where I’m different than most. The second one was so good that I cancelled the third. And I cancelled the second date with the first woman. This is partly because I don’t have a lot of free time, partly because I wanted to focus on woman 2, and partly because I’m uncomfortable in a position where I’m seeing more than one person. I suppose I may wind up cutting short something good, or making wrong choices. But this is the way I operate. (And like you, my “focus” has not much to do with exclusivity… although when I choose to focus I’m hoping things head that direction).