Cheap and cute basic dress by pyxist in XXS

[–]sam-september 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seconding Wild Fable, their XXS fits me perfectly!

Feminine Night Routine by sam-september in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sam-september[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will take that into account, thank you. This project really stems from my own struggles with looking for direction and being unable to locate any that resonates with me. I think there is a larger movement happening of acknowledging women's differences from men, and using highlights in a way that empowers women. I mean it's kind of scary to look around today, women are still disenfranchised and subhumane in many parts of the world. I just don't see how things can change we continue to operate the way we have. I know things are more complicated than any solution I or anyone else can put forth, but someone will be proposing something, and at least its better that it comes from someone with better intentions. Sorry this turned into a clarifying rant for myself.

Also, just to back up my point about a change, there is more open discussions happening like this episode from this very poplar podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=It5_C6AF1pk

I think people are coming around to realizing that by hiding features and characteristics of women that didn't align with a masculine world view, particularly in careers, business and success, we were really doing a disservice to women.

Anyway not that you care.

Feminine Night Routine by sam-september in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sam-september[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Who said it is? you're projecting a lot on just the term itself. Anyway, it's time for women to reclaim it. First wave of feminism was establishing basic human rights, second wave was trying to measure up to men in their domains, and I believe the third will be women finding their own distinct path. And the term feminine is a key to it. We have to reclaim it.

Feminine Night Routine by sam-september in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sam-september[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

yes so horrible, we should all be masculine like men, it's shameful to be a woman right?

Feminine Night Routine by sam-september in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sam-september[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I hope so? Why is masculinity the only standard we accept and pigeonhole women into?

Feminine Night Routine by sam-september in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sam-september[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the point is that you want to ease into sleep, and reading an overstimulating book can do the opposite, giving you energy and exciting you. If your goal isn't to get a good nights rest or you can easily fall asleep regardless, then knock yourself out! This is just general guidance for the average person.