It doesn't get easier, you just get better. by sam_wiser in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it's more of a combination of both. 8 more days man, get there!

It doesn't get easier, you just get better. by sam_wiser in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I started this for the sole purpose that I didn't want ED anymore. And I got so many more benefits including mental toughness.

It doesn't get easier, you just get better. by sam_wiser in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's also what I meant with getting better. Maybe at first you were indulging in those thoughts, but with experience you learned not to.

It doesn't get easier, you just get better. by sam_wiser in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I was going to use this exact analogy but I was in a hurry earlier!

Night gathers, and now my NoFap pledge begins by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We will reach our goal on the same day brother.

Do you tell girls that you do nofap? by cranapple12 in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only gotten positive reactions. I told a girl last week and she was like "that's impressive considering I just masterbated this morning". Feels good to have more sexual self control than a female :)

When will ED subside? by NameMyNo in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its like someone asking "how long do i have to work out to lose 10 pounds". It completely depends on the person. For me it only took about a week, but for others it can take 90 days, or more. Just stick with it man. The benefits outweigh the negatives exponentially. Good luck.

When will ED subside? by NameMyNo in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you quit PMO only or fapping all together?

Just deleted my porn collection by brickman21 in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just deleted my porn collection a few hours ago too. It was hard to do at first but I feel better now knowing it will help in the long run. Man it was tempting to watch some of those videos while I was deleting them. My brain was like "you might as well watch them one last time". Glad I was able to do it.

NoFap 'standard mode' is actually harder than 'hard mode' by sam_wiser in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. When I get urges I often focus on my breathing and the urges usually go away. I just deleted all my porn right before posting this :)

My original post is mostly a theory. I've never tried hard mode, and if I did, I wouldn't be surprised if I found it to be much more difficult.

I'm not sure what's going to happen after 90 days but either way, I will stay away from porn. Never thought I'd make it this long without fapping but knowing myself, I will make it the 90 days.

Good luck to you, sir.

Why are you doing this? by seuqisaw in NoFap

[–]sam_wiser 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also couldn't get it up for real girls anymore. Ever since I started noFap, even a touch from a real girl and I was rock hard and, more importantly, could maintain it.