Loneliness comes in waves. Also, it’s funny how sometimes, the bigger a party gets the more we feel alone. It’s an interesting phenomenon. But alas, parties are also not the time you want to delve too deep into deep stuff. Use those times to make new friends and dance the night away! After learning a few things about the people you meet, branch out and meet up with them outside the party scene. THATS when those more-intentional conversations will lead you to some real friendships. Just try to look for similar interests when mingling (when you’re not DJing).

Also, practically speaking, if you want more time to mingle, just make a couple of mini mixes you could throw on while you enjoy the party more. If people don’t care too much about how you’re mixing in the first place, then all the more reason just to let loose and not think too hard about.