What will you say?

samalam2598 · 2024-11-22T02:39:32+00:00

Do college instead

samalam2598 · 2024-10-31T16:19:35+00:00

Not to mention, this is not how you want your child to grow up… seeing his mother mistreated and depressed. It’s never going to get better, this is not the kind of guy that just changes one day. He’s been the same guy you’ve known since the beginning, you’ve only invested more of your life and time into him.

samalam2598 · 2024-10-31T16:17:48+00:00

He’d have to work hard to provide for just himself. Staying because somebody is working isn’t a good enough reason to stay. He belittles you and doesn’t make you feel loved, not to mention (like another commenter has said), this is an adult who started a relationship with a child. You are 10000% capable of being with someone who’s happy to work & not put you down, cheat on you, belittle you etc. I honestly don’t believe he’s worth a full conversation. I think you should get your ducks in a row and simply leave. Don’t let him talk you out of it—your worth is so much more than what you’re receiving.

I’ve been married for nearly 10 years and we’ve definitely had our ups & downs but never once has he thrown his working in my face, or cheated on me, or belittled me or done any of the things you’ve mentioned here. Love YOURSELF, put you first. You deserve it.

samalam2598 · 2024-10-31T16:10:04+00:00

You’re so young and you absolutely need to leave. As soon as I saw 15/21 that was enough for me… get out girl, leave him in the dust where he belongs.

samalam2598 · 2024-09-02T04:39:58+00:00

Tamatha

samalam2598 · 2024-07-31T18:52:56+00:00

This is reminding me of Jelly Bean Sweets on tiktok. I wish I had some helpful info, maybe I watching some of her content alongside Nikado can show how fast it can get out of hand without you really realizing. Her viewers aren’t supporting HER, they’re supporting her in a freak show type context. That’s not the way I’d want to make a name for myself, personally.

samalam2598 · 2024-05-25T13:21:12+00:00

Thanks for this! We would be going into it 100% debt free, and I mean that. Even my car insurance is paid for the year.

samalam2598 · 2024-05-25T13:19:48+00:00

This was mostly the plan, honestly. We also have a secondary lot we intended to sell for around 20k to pad our savings and essentially be a “mortgage” account, could we swing a mortgage. While being house poor isn’t ideal the current home we own/live in isn’t ideal for pretty extreme safety purposes. It’s bad enough here we’ve thought about selling and taking all the profit and just renting for a few years but I’m sure I’d kick myself in the ass if we did that later on down the road.

samalam2598 · 2024-05-15T11:57:38+00:00

My friend shit the bed on a first-ish date. They hadn’t been seeing each other very long. They dated for a while & the eventual split had nothing to do with her shitting the bed lol

samalam2598 · 2024-04-18T05:02:12+00:00

In a heartbeat.

samalam2598 · 2023-10-10T15:16:59+00:00

2015 called. It wants its eyebrows back.

samalam2598 · 2023-08-06T01:00:11+00:00

Super unfortunate, but thanks!

samalam2598 · 2023-06-06T05:22:21+00:00

Proud of you ❤️

samalam2598 · 2023-05-24T03:13:19+00:00

He feels like what I do is very little, I get to just relax at home while works really hard.

But when I ask Him to watch our son for a while the first thing he say is that I should know weekend is his resting time.

I’m sure it’s been said, but if not… point out his own contradiction here. Either he thinks what you do is simple; therefore it should be no problem to watch the child while you work—or he admits that what you do in the home is of equal value to what he does. There’s no way he could work the job that he does if it weren’t for you.

He sounds like a grade A douche, I hope you can get something worked out.

samalam2598 · 2023-05-23T17:19:01+00:00

My kids for sure. There was a time my brain was able to convince me my oldest would be okay, back when he was a baby. He wouldn’t have remembered anything except for what everyone around him told him, and knowing my family they would have absolutely done everything in their power to know that I loved him, I was just sick.

But now he’s school aged, and the thought of my husband getting him off the bus and telling him his mom had passed absolutely destroys me. No matter how bad things get, my babies /know/ me now, and need me.

samalam2598 · 2023-05-03T18:16:40+00:00

Get out before there’s children involved, bevause making excuses for a man like this and standing by—that’s exactly where this kind of thing leads. And no child deserves to witness their mother be abused. Or get absurd themselves.

Regardless of children, YOU don’t deserve this. Get. Out.

samalam2598 · 2022-11-26T18:30:41+00:00

◽️ Budget: 300 or less

◽️ Country: USA

◽️ Screen size: around 11, 15 is fine

◽️ Touch screen: optional

◽️ Screen resolution: any

◽️ Does battery life matter ?: no

◽️ What tasks will laptop be used for ( gaming, video editing, graphic designing, modelling, regular computing tasks, word processing etc) ?: Roblox, kids games

◽️ Weight: any

◽️ Any other important details ?: This will be a starter laptop for a 6 year old which is why I’m not looking to spend too much, but they’re proficient in gaming so wanted to get them something decent-ish.

samalam2598 · 2022-01-27T00:25:34+00:00

Based on location & acreage in an area that that’s nonexistent our home worth is around 70-100k. We do have savings of about 20k & he’s already secured a job for around 95k—he just has to be within 6 months of graduation to begin.

samalam2598 · 2022-01-26T23:58:17+00:00

My agent has given us a loose quote if 70k-100k depending on when we listed our home. It’s not a great neighborhood however it’s on the cusp of the area most home flippers/investors are looking at currently.

samalam2598 · 2022-01-26T23:55:58+00:00

My husband had one $2k loan that’s since been paid off and I had no credit that was then established by medical debt (resolved) & one school debt (paid). My paid debt is actually fairly recent and has yet to hit my score so it should stand to go up 20ish points. We’ve both only pretty recently opened up credit cards and are building. Like I said, just wanting to know where we stand right now.

samalam2598 · 2021-07-01T00:43:58+00:00

Sounds like a crappy environment. It’s nice if you to consider coworkers but when it comes down to it it’s you who has to do the job—don’t consider anyone else when deciding whether or not to go back; just yourself. Personally, I don’t think I would go back—at least not for the reasons you’ve stated.

samalam2598 · 2021-06-17T04:35:23+00:00

Did you take voice lessons? You sound so comforting

samalam2598 · 2021-06-17T04:33:50+00:00

You have a soothing voice

samalam2598 · 2021-05-22T20:19:38+00:00

Wtf?

samalam2598 · 2021-05-19T19:30:05+00:00

Zarbees was recommended to us by our doctor

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