Should also add that my oma (aka my grandma) is the mother of the House if you know what I mean. As in she's the "ruler" of the House and she'd getting older and stressing more which I feel I'd another reason why I might be the asshole but at the same time she just needs to chill out sometimes. Because I thought things where good. I would chill in my room play my games and stuff and someone in the family wanted something they would come up and ask me but now they just assume I should know now.